Libras and Jelousy

Hi all, so I about 3 weeks ago I got back in touch with a libra guy who I had romantic interests in back in February. The romantic interest is still there, however we decided to be friends for now. I've really enjoyed being friends with him and liked the direction we were going (hopefully leading to a dating). We met for dinner a few nights ago in which it was nothing but just being friends with a hug at the end.

Anyways, I noticed that he has been acting weird since then. We still talk daily, however he randomly brings up things that make me upset...

So I have tried to see him again and just hangout again as friends. But he says no he has to do things... this I believe and don't doubt. So since we aren't meeting I'll tell him something like "ok, I'm going to the bar then to hangout with friends".... he'll then respond back with "hmm maybe I might do the same"... I would say "why don't you just come hangout with me at the bar then" then he wouldn't respond.

The next morning we chatted about what we had to do today (run errands, gym, etc...) then out of the blue he nonchalantly said "got a girls number, maybe I'll text her. IDK" I then followed up with asking him where he met her... but then he responds "while I was out LOL"

There are a few other examples of this - but hopefully you get the gist.

Is he just trying to get an arousel out of me? Do Libras play these games like this?

Just trying to decipher this behavior. Blah!

Thank you, Milani

Posted by tiziani
Sounds like attention seeking. He's a wet towel.

I agree.

Some Libras are not above playing mind games like this.

The immaturity is making me cringe.

Possibly attention seeking but my guess is that he is annoyed with you. He's being passive aggressive to display his resentment.

I have no reason to say this other than its just a hunch.

Posted by jeane
Possibly attention seeking but my guess is that he is annoyed with you. He's being passive aggressive to display his resentment.

I have no reason to say this other than its just a hunch.

Craziness... your hunch I think was accurate. We had gotten in a small argument and he said he was done talking about the subject and the speaking in "passive aggressiveness "

He seems hurt by past actions. We are not made to be some bounce balls.

He's just not that into you...

It's making you upset, because you seek more.

He's treating you like a friend. I suggest you don't expect anything out of him.

*Update - Just received a text from him saying how he has been thinking about me for a while now. He mentioned how beautiful i am and is afraid that I will get tired of him after a while and just write him off.

I guess the truth came out on how he hasnt committed to me yet. I reassured him that his assumptions are far off and that I have always liked him and would do no such thing.

Just like I said, probably he is aware of your actions and all the other guys that came and went in and out of your life and he cannot trust you. We seek stability, Virgo is mutable. Think of him as a softer Aqua.

Posted by compy
Just like I said, probably he is aware of your actions and all the other guys that came and went in and out of your life and he cannot trust you. We seek stability, Virgo is mutable. Think of him as a softer Aqua.

He has brought that up during one of our arguments last week and thats when I decided to delete all dating apps. I personally didn't like how that sounded and how others viewed me, so I ended the dating game. (Believe it or not! But I really did) I set a new goal in life for me to focus on which is getting physically fit.

He's aware I deleted the apps and focusing on myself. I think thats maybe why he is slowly opening up towards me... maybe trying to get closer, I'm not sure. Like Aqua men, I find that libra men are hard to read also!

But yesterday and today he had been calling me beautiful and putting on the 'charm' ... I like his charm.. it makes me giddy and blush.