Impressed by Libra man's honesty

So I have posted about this Libra before. We reunited as friends and quickly started seeing each other more and kissing and we always have so much fun together. He has shared so much with me in terms of his life events and I tell him a lot as well. On Halloween, I dressed as Marilyn Monroe and rocked it and he ended up telling me that seeing me look so good just reinforced what he thought about how much I deserve.

He told me that he can't give me what I need because so much is up in the air in his life. (He's 33, new job, starting school in January, living with his parents for the time being, not knowing what will happen with work when school starts, etc etc plus he's ADHD so school will be challenging to begin with. He's very intelligent tho!) He said all of this to my face which in my experience is rare for people these days. He also kept saying he "can't have a relationship right now." He told our mutual friend also that he hopes we will down the road but he's scared to hurt me by not having time or energy to give me the attention I deserve.

He wants to still be friends and we have seen each other a couple of times since. He still hugs me a LOT and every once in a while he gives me this look like he wants more. I'm letting him direct where this goes at this point. I wish that it were just cut and dry and we could let it go where it's going to go but I admire his honesty and his respect for me in how he's handling it. I get that he just wants to be able to provide for me and take care of me before things go forward. But I've never felt this way before! Dammit the man gives me butterflies when we kiss for goodness sake (and yes he knows it)! I've NEVER had that!

Much like the scales suggest- with Libra you get one extreme or the other. Either super honest, or never tells the truth. haha Glad you found a good one!

Posted by 2Moon

Libra and Taurus together 😍😍😍

I love it

and yes it's fricking amazing

I really hope there's a future here! I've never met someone that I relate to on so many levels before! Or who I can converse with so easily! Or who's such a gentleman! Lol ugh! I met his parents briefly 2 days before this happened. It was literally for like three minutes LOL and he told me the next day that his mom really likes me and that she talked about me for like an hour LOL

Posted by heliumfiasco

Much like the scales suggest- with Libra you get one extreme or the other. Either super honest, or never tells the truth. haha Glad you found a good one!

Oh my God! Right?! My ex lied all the time! He was a Libra… This guy is so super honest from what I can tell and what my instincts are telling me

Wow no one truly likes anyone do they

Posted by TauRisser

Posted by heliumfiasco

Much like the scales suggest- with Libra you get one extreme or the other. Either super honest, or never tells the truth. haha Glad you found a good one!

Oh my God! Right?! My ex lied all the time! He was a Libra… This guy is so super honest from what I can tell and what my instincts are telling me

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"Oh my God! Right?! My ex lied all the time! He was a Libra… This guy is so super honest from what I can tell and what my instincts are telling me "

you dont know yet if he is lying tho

super honest, like when? admitting all his flaws first hand? hm....

but he sounds problematic

slow down (in your expectations and imagination) and just let it unfold, dont force it

Posted by Pandora101

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Posted by heliumfiasco

Much like the scales suggest- with Libra you get one extreme or the other. Either super honest, or never tells the truth. haha Glad you found a good one!

Oh my God! Right?! My ex lied all the time! He was a Libra… This guy is so super honest from what I can tell and what my instincts are telling me

"Oh my God! Right?! My ex lied all the time! He was a Libra… This guy is so super honest from what I can tell and what my instincts are telling me "

you dont know yet if he is lying tho

super honest, like when? admitting all his flaws first hand? hm....

but he sounds problematic

slow down (in your expectations and imagination) and just let it unfold, dont force it

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Oh I absolutely agree to take it slow and let it play out! It's probably going to be months before anything is beyond friends because of the current circumstances, if it happens. I'm just genuinely surprised by his ability to actually talk to me about what is happening in his life (even before this). Every other libra I've met has been very shut off in terms of sharing life happenings. I have crazy instincts when it comes to honesty. I'm not saying it's going to work out in the long run. Just am surprised by the level of respect a man has finally showed me. Even if we're just friends.

I also realize that a lot of how a man treats you is determined by how he's raised. It's not all zodiac lol

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by TauRisser

Posted by heliumfiasco

Much like the scales suggest- with Libra you get one extreme or the other. Either super honest, or never tells the truth. haha Glad you found a good one!

Oh my God! Right?! My ex lied all the time! He was a Libra… This guy is so super honest from what I can tell and what my instincts are telling me

"Oh my God! Right?! My ex lied all the time! He was a Libra… This guy is so super honest from what I can tell and what my instincts are telling me "

you dont know yet if he is lying tho

super honest, like when? admitting all his flaws first hand? hm....

but he sounds problematic

slow down (in your expectations and imagination) and just let it unfold, dont force it

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Plus it's not about him admitting his flaws. We've talked about so many things. I sensed some insecurities before now about his upcoming life changes while we've had genuine and real conversations. It's rare nowadays to find someone you can be real with and who's real with you. And I just hope that we can continue to have that kind of relationship as friends or otherwise