@angie2080
9 Years
Are all air signs detached? I need advice.
I'm a Cancer in a relationship with a Libra man. He's amazing in every way! Fun, romantic, a gentleman, and passionate. Whoever I'm starting to realize that he's also detached most of the time. For example, he confessed that he doesn't like texting too much but sometimes he could go hours without texting me and it drives me insane. If I text, he replies but I want him to take the initiative too and I want to feel that he wants to talk to me. I told him I felt like he was uninterested in me but he told me not to get those ideas in my head. He says he loves me and when we fight he begs me not to leave him.
Is this normal in air signs? I'm stating to get worried because I dated an Aquarius and it didn't work out. I was like: "No more air signs because I'm too emotional". But I attracted this Libra man and I like him too. The only problem is that his detachment makes me doubt about his love for me. Should I just get used to him being this way?
I'm sad because he's perfect but I just wished he was more consistent in showing affection.
ive seen and heard men who only have Air mars do this. and the rest of their chart is earth, fire, and water.
they tend to back off after awhile. Once they got u, they get bored easily or something. and they dont do the consistent thing like keep chasing you. which is annoying.
you want them to bend to your rules (how you LOVE) not how they love. thats the incompatibility.
and i am air sun singularity, so you can imagine, i dont like it either.
if i were more air, i think i would not even notice LOL
Air signs come on strong when they really like you. Eventually, the fire fizzles out and they start to have a roving eye.
I have to constantly remind myself to slow down and let it burn slowly. It lasts much longer that way.
Air signs come on strong when they really like you. Eventually, the fire fizzles out and they start to have a roving eye.
I have to constantly remind myself to slow down and let it burn slowly. It lasts much longer that way.
As long as I'm hot I will detach if I don't feel gratified that way I was in the honeymoon phase. Darn yes I will be detached especially if they are gaining wait and not staying pretty.
I haven’t been with an air sign in a long time
I need just as much attention as I need space.... and I need lots of both. But I don’t want to ask you for either.... haha
I haven’t been with an air sign in a long time
What was your negative things with your ex air. I'm just asking because idk know much about my chart or the tendencies of each placement meaning.
I need just as much attention as I need space.... and I need lots of both. But I don’t want to ask you for either.... haha
X200.
I haven’t been with an air sign in a long time
What was your negative things with your ex air. I'm just asking because idk know much about my chart or the tendencies of each placement meaning.
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I mean I just don’t attract them anymore! It’s weird the past few years it’s been earth and water people. Some fire but barely. No air. I don’t have a lot in my chart so I guess it’s that maybe. I like them though mostly
I need just as much attention as I need space.... and I need lots of both. But I don’t want to ask you for either.... haha
X200.
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Haha! I think that’s why we love Fire signs. A Sag and Aries will give you so much genuine attention, then poof be gone, but be back just in time before you lose your shit. That kind of excitement keeps us focused.
I need just as much attention as I need space.... and I need lots of both. But I don’t want to ask you for either.... haha
X200.
Haha! I think that’s why we love Fire signs. A Sag and Aries will give you so much genuine attention, then poof be gone, but be back just in time before you lose your shit. That kind of excitement keeps us focused.
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Wow Heliumfiasco..... It's so weird but true. You are in my head because I date alot of fire and water but never do well so far with Libs long-term. I thought it was because of my other chart stuff.
I haven’t been with an air sign in a long time
What was your negative things with your ex air. I'm just asking because idk know much about my chart or the tendencies of each placement meaning.
I mean I just don’t attract them anymore! It’s weird the past few years it’s been earth and water people. Some fire but barely. No air. I don’t have a lot in my chart so I guess it’s that maybe. I like them though mostly
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singularity air venus?
I've talked to him a lot about his detachment and he keeps telling me that I'm amazing, that he doesn't see himself without me and that he'll never leave me.
If he says all those things why is he okay without communicating for a long time? Maybe it's his space.
I'm just having a hard time because I'm usually the one who texts him and I feel like I bother him or annoy him. I'd really like it if he texted me more.
Hopefully this problem will get resolved because I'm starting to worry this stupid incident will end my relationship. Ahhhh being a Cancer sucks! We're too sensitive and needy.
I've talked to him a lot about his detachment and he keeps telling me that I'm amazing, that he doesn't see himself without me and that he'll never leave me.
If he says all those things why is he okay without communicating for a long time? Maybe it's his space.
I'm just having a hard time because I'm usually the one who texts him and I feel like I bother him or annoy him. I'd really like it if he texted me more.
Hopefully this problem will get resolved because I'm starting to worry this stupid incident will end my relationship. Ahhhh being a Cancer sucks! We're too sensitive and needy.
omg ..ewww.
i would hate that too. so annoying!!! i want constant contact. LOL
probably why me and my hubby are perfect.
you totally need someone with NO air or lack of air.
You seem too for desperate for an air sign.
I haven’t been with an air sign in a long time
What was your negative things with your ex air. I'm just asking because idk know much about my chart or the tendencies of each placement meaning.
I mean I just don’t attract them anymore! It’s weird the past few years it’s been earth and water people. Some fire but barely. No air. I don’t have a lot in my chart so I guess it’s that maybe. I like them though mostly
singularity air venus?
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Almost. I took that test that tells you what your dominate planets are and it said I had extremely low air haha
I haven’t been with an air sign in a long time
What was your negative things with your ex air. I'm just asking because idk know much about my chart or the tendencies of each placement meaning.
I mean I just don’t attract them anymore! It’s weird the past few years it’s been earth and water people. Some fire but barely. No air. I don’t have a lot in my chart so I guess it’s that maybe. I like them though mostly
singularity air venus?
Almost. I took that test that tells you what your dominate planets are and it said I had extremely low air haha
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SAME here. O_O
air is actually my LOWESt>
except i never attracted libras or libra dominant men at all. i remember you did.
however i have attracted Aquarius men, Sun and Mars, not really venus or moon.
so there's our singularity air attraction.
I haven’t been with an air sign in a long time
What was your negative things with your ex air. I'm just asking because idk know much about my chart or the tendencies of each placement meaning.
I mean I just don’t attract them anymore! It’s weird the past few years it’s been earth and water people. Some fire but barely. No air. I don’t have a lot in my chart so I guess it’s that maybe. I like them though mostly
singularity air venus?
Almost. I took that test that tells you what your dominate planets are and it said I had extremely low air haha
SAME here. O_O
air is actually my LOWESt>
except i never attracted libras or libra dominant men at all. i remember you did.
however i have attracted Aquarius men, Sun and Mars, not really venus or moon.
so there's our singularity air attraction.
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Yep haha
I haven’t been with an air sign in a long time
What was your negative things with your ex air. I'm just asking because idk know much about my chart or the tendencies of each placement meaning.
I mean I just don’t attract them anymore! It’s weird the past few years it’s been earth and water people. Some fire but barely. No air. I don’t have a lot in my chart so I guess it’s that maybe. I like them though mostly
singularity air venus?
Almost. I took that test that tells you what your dominate planets are and it said I had extremely low air haha
SAME here. O_O
air is actually my LOWESt>
except i never attracted libras or libra dominant men at all. i remember you did.
however i have attracted Aquarius men, Sun and Mars, not really venus or moon.
so there's our singularity air attraction.
Yep haha
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i love the constant attention of fire/water LOL
it makes me happy.
i dont like "breaks" or that the other person should stop "pursuing" because they "have" you.
like they need breaks. yuck. there is NO break.
sleep in the same bed routinely,
always be with me,
stick with me,
if i message, you must answer asap!! (unless battery died, or something bad happened)
all the things OP mentioned about her man. Yuck.
Maybe we're incompatible but the problem is that I'm already attached to him. He's really sweet when we're together and makes me laugh 😂
This is the first guy I date with a good sense of humor. I hate boring guys so I can't let him go just like that.
That's why I'm here trying to be patient even though it's driving me crazy.
I hope I don't lose my patience.
Do air signs still love their partners even though they don't constantly show it? This is my main concern
Maybe we're incompatible but the problem is that I'm already attached to him. He's really sweet when we're together and makes me laugh 😂
This is the first guy I date with a good sense of humor. I hate boring guys so I can't let him go just like that.
That's why I'm here trying to be patient even though it's driving me crazy.
I hope I don't lose my patience.
Do air signs still love their partners even though they don't constantly show it? This is my main concern
I don’t think you should worry.
With air signs you should really concentrate in how they are with you when you are together. If he treat you right and say that he loves you then he does. Just follow his lead and give him his space without getting upset about it.
I'm a Cancer in a relationship with a Libra man. He's amazing in every way! Fun, romantic, a gentleman, and passionate. Whoever I'm starting to realize that he's also detached most of the time. For example, he confessed that he doesn't like texting too much but sometimes he could go hours without texting me and it drives me insane. If I text, he replies but I want him to take the initiative too and I want to feel that he wants to talk to me. I told him I felt like he was uninterested in me but he told me not to get those ideas in my head. He says he loves me and when we fight he begs me not to leave him.
Is this normal in air signs? I'm stating to get worried because I dated an Aquarius and it didn't work out. I was like: "No more air signs because I'm too emotional". But I attracted this Libra man and I like him too. The only problem is that his detachment makes me doubt about his love for me. Should I just get used to him being this way?
I'm sad because he's perfect but I just wished he was more consistent in showing affection.
Yes get used to it. We Libras need our space and don't have the time to constantly stay in touch with someone all day. We bore easily so don't push. It's best that you stay busy also so you don't notice. When we are with someone in person is where we show our warmth.
You seem too for desperate for an air sign.
And nothing turns a Libra off more than desperation. If the Libra drops you try a Scorpio man next. They love clingy Cancer women. My dad is a Scorpio and just married a Cancer, they are blissfully happy.
Libras, detached ? This confuses me.because I feel detached from people but I didn't know that others could sense it too. However I usually feel very connected to my partner or rather the desire is there . My advise would be to observe your feelings when youre feeling that detachment from your partner along with observing your partners actions , words and what's happening around both of you. We Libras also like showing we care by remembering the little things. Making sure you have your favorite food in stock etc. Maybe take a love language quiz if you haven't already
Every sign is too detached for us. It's best to mimic his behavior or find something else to occupy your time.
We don't usually stick around if we're unhappy for too long so.. good luck
Every sign is too detached for us. It's best to mimic his behavior or find something else to occupy your time.
We don't usually stick around if we're unhappy for too long so.. good luck
Not CANCER men with cancer Venus
They latch like glue
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Tru dat lol I almost said besides scorpio's
But idk I never had one of those.. I dated one with a leo venue before..
Cancers are so hard to crack and the men can be too mean for me
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I'm a Cancer in a relationship with a Libra man. He's amazing in every way! Fun, romantic, a gentleman, and passionate. Whoever I'm starting to realize that he's also detached most of the time. For example, he confessed that he doesn't like texting too much but sometimes he could go hours without texting me and it drives me insane. If I text, he replies but I want him to take the initiative too and I want to feel that he wants to talk to me. I told him I felt like he was uninterested in me but he told me not to get those ideas in my head. He says he loves me and when we fight he begs me not to leave him.
Is this normal in air signs? I'm stating to get worried because I dated an Aquarius and it didn't work out. I was like: "No more air signs because I'm too emotional". But I attracted this Libra man and I like him too. The only problem is that his detachment makes me doubt about his love for me. Should I just get used to him being this way?
I'm sad because he's perfect but I just wished he was more consistent in showing affection.