I met a libra man. Should I trust him?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by angie2080 on Saturday, September 22, 2018 and has 15 replies.

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@angie2080
9 Years

I'm a Cancer and I met a cute Libra guy just recently. I don't have any experiences with Libra men. I dated an Aquarius in the past but it didn't go well so I don't know if water and air signs are good in the long run.

He's a guy that gives lots of compliments. He says he can't make eye contact with me because I'm too beautiful. He called me love, asked me out, and would go the extra mile to impress me by acting like a gentleman. I was just talking to another guy recently so I'm not sure if I'm ready to meet this Libra dude. Are Libras trustworthy? I liked the fact that he was romantic but how will I know if he's being sincere?

At one point I got scared of so many compliments so I told him: "please stop calling me love". He gave me his name to look him up on Instagram and he said: "sorry I don't want to disrespect you. I like you a lot but if you don't feel comfortable I totally understand and I won't bother you anymore". Then he said "take care of yourself" and shaked my hand. I thought it had ended there but he proceeded with a kiss on my cheek!!!! Awwww I didn't expect that and honestly I liked it. Most guys are not romantic so I appreciate those gestures.

He's not bad looking. He's athletic and works out. I'm just scared because air signs like freedom and the least thing I want is to get hurt. Should I contact him or add him on Instagram? Should I make the first move and write something or wait for him to persue me after I follow him?

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@LibraSupreme
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Definitely keep him in orbit to see if it's something genuine and truly trying to impress you for the long term. A cocky Libra myself I give compliments in different ways and I love to shower my mate but If it's not perceived well I do have a tendency to flash light another prospect.

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@DonnaLibra
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Honey, Libras are sweet talkers. We can't help it. He is blowing smoke to get in your pants. Libras don't stay with Cancers. You should try a Scorpio man. They are sexy and love Cancer women. Stay far away from air signs.

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@Havoc077
8 Years

Not sure why nobody else told you, but Sun signs are effectively irrelevant in terms of divinating for relationships. You need to look at the connections between yours and your partners Moon, Mars, Mercury, Venus signs.

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@nyx100
8 Years

Id keep away from Libra if i was you, I have had relationships with 4 of them and every one of them was the same, and the games and manipulation they play.

But this is male ones so i cant answer for the women Libras.

Most likely to be physical abusers too. On every date after with a libra, id ask their view on hitting women and all of them had said they had hit a ex, but always made out it was their fault for it. Like they deserved it.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by angie2080

I was just talking to another guy recently so I'm not sure if I'm ready to meet this Libra dude.

Then he said "take care of yourself" and shaked my hand. I thought it had ended there but he proceeded with a kiss on my cheek!!!!

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Plot hole

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@aquarius09
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Posted by nyx100

Most likely to be physical abusers too. On every date after with a libra, id ask their view on hitting women and all of them had said they had hit a ex, but always made out it was their fault for it. Like they deserved it.

LMAO!! Hilarious! Never known a Libra to hit. I dated one libra and he never hit me and he couldn't even bring himself to. They are the softest guys who just come on strong and then disappear because they have buyers remorse quite a bit.

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@LadyNeptune
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Posted by vivi4656

Posted by DonnaLibra

Honey, Libras are sweet talkers. We can't help it. He is blowing smoke to get in your pants. Libras don't stay with Cancers. You should try a Scorpio man. They are sexy and love Cancer women. Stay far away from air signs.

What about a libra mooner? My fiance is a scorpio with his moon in libra and I'm a cancer. Would he be the same way?

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Not necessarily. I'm with a libra mooner and after we slept together for the first time (month and change of dating) he admitted he was worried we had sex too soon and didn't want it to be just physical between us.

Astrology is bs mostly.

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@Echo
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Personally from what I've experienced with a Libra guy,

Get to know them, if you have to do a resume or take years to get to know them DO IT.

They could charm you on the first couple weeks, but once they know they have you and you're giving all your devotion they disappear on you and think they shouldn't have to worry.

Do not put all your eggs in the same basket, see other people too. They dont have to know, you are just getting to know them.