Is he lying?

Ok so my Libra guy just got out a serious relationship. Ok he's not "mine" either yet lol. It literally just happened for him and I know he needs time to heal up. Anyway, we sorta got into an arguement the other night. We have been hooking up here and there, and we are friends, so I know he "likes me", does he want to be "with me"- hell no, not yet anyway. I don't care what sign he is, nobody wants to jump into a new relationship immediately after getting your heart broken a month ago especially when he's the hurt one here and not her. I know he's still in love with this girl, I can tell because when he speaks of her he speaks with anger. So anyway, he said something to me that was interesting, after this arguement. He asked me to give him some time to get things out of his system because if he was to jump into a relationship right now he would only cheat. Mind you this arguement we had, had nothing to do with the topic he brought up here. It went from him ditching me for a night, to him saying he promises things will be different in the future for us. It's almost as if he was telling me he sees potential for he and I, but he can't emtoionally get into me right now. I know that sounds like a load of crap to anyone reading this lol, but again keep in mind how soon it is for him. Anyway, I noticed this guy sucks at lying. He's terrible at it, and he would rather tell me the truth whether it hurts or not then lie to me, or to anybody.
So what do you think? He continues to see me even though this is one of a few arguements between us, and basically asks me to wait for him and give him time. If he was sick of me and the disagreements, then why not just cut me off? Is he pulling my leg? Or is it too soon to tell? Any Libra males got some advice?

"He asked me to give him some time to get things out of his system because if he was to jump into a relationship right now he would only cheat."

Hmmm, wasn't he already cheating with you when he was with her?

Oh and one more thing- No I'm not going to "wait" for the time frame to come around, I am very open to meeting new men at this time. I believe that if it's meant to be, then it will happen :-)

Do you really that karma if he does get with you? If he was willing to cheat with you on her, then what's going to stop him from doing the same with you?

Hey houston- no he wasn't cheating on her with me lol He knew I liked him for a very long time, all he did was flirt with me when he was with her. He seems like a pretty decent guy when he's in a relationship and actually "in love".

I meant we started hooking up after they broke up sorry if it sounded like we have been while they were together, my fault! LoL

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in one word. yes. or no. i cant make up my mind but there are manypossibilities. its probably true he's not ready but at the same time its probably too soon but putting the other relationship aside, he probably just doesn't know you well enough. you know us, we take a long time to make a decision.

i think first you need to be his friend, be there for him during this break up. he's not over her, and that's only natural. don't get involved with him until you and him both know that he won't run back to her.

Yes! Crude I know all about the "taking forever to make up their minds" LoL!
Yea we are "friends" but casual friends. I'm trying not to get too into the friend zone and keep it a bit mysterious for the time being. I don't want to open up to him fully until he is willing to let me in. I know it's gonna be a while, but yeah- he just sounded so sincere when he said this to me. Like he really wants this to happen someday and hopes I wait, but I guess at the same time will understand if I can't wait? He gets pretty jealous too when he sees me hanging out with other men too. I dunno if that's something to factor in as well. I love the attention though lol

Houston, I know what your saying. :-)
I am being casual friends with him for the time being. I listen to him when he talks, whether it's about her or anythin else on his mind. I let him take the stage when we hang out cuz I know he needs it. And I am very scared of him running back to her 😢 I know right now if she came back he'd go running, so that's why I don't want to get all cozy with him in any aspect, because I don't want to get hurt :-/
Just taking it day by day.

CA, don't let your feelings get too caught up. He isn't currently emotionaly available at all. If you are falling for him more than the casual hook ups, then you might want to pull back. It takes forever for them to get over someone they loved. Ask my ex-husband after almost 3 years he finally get it... He is finally dating again. Yay!!!