Is this Libra guy playing mind games?

I've known this libra guy for a while now, and we're actually close. His friends been telling me that he likes me and he didnt deny it so I take it as joke. I had a past with a libra guy as well, like him but it didnt end up pretty. but now I wanna ask, is he playing mind games lately? because he purposely ignored me and sometimes he act normally close. sometimes a bit too close. I dont have eyes for anything like this so when should I start taking him seriously? And he posted something recently, about stalking someone even tho he didn't like the post, He had always been my biggest follower, liking all my post until hust recently he stopped. so libra men, if you're interested in girl what will you do?

Posted by LuckyLibra979
If he's blowing hot and cold like that then yes, he is playing games

so is he interested in me of its just a libra thing?

Posted by Vixen2
*sigh* you have to pursue Libra men usually.

so if I want I have to go for him??

Posted by summer00

Posted by Vixen2
*sigh* you have to pursue Libra men usually.

so if I want I have to go for him??

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if i want him*

Playing games ignore the fool there are better guys out there games are for little boys. Go find a man! These bitch libras giving us a bad name lmao

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Posted by LuckyLibra979
If he's blowing hot and cold like that then yes, he is playing games

so is he interested in me of its just a libra thing?

If he's that warm where its a bit much, yes he is. When I was younger, I did it with those who made me feel unsure. My imagination would get the best of me sometimes or that person did some janky shit. I only did it when that person made me paranoid, even tho I didn't have the outright evidence sometimes. But when I was sure, I was very aggressive. I was in pursuit and couldn't be stopped.


Kinda comes down to sensitivity. I felt jaded by certain things and it made me back off. Like if I'm really into u and I do something different or new(esp. For me) and its just flat out rejected I'll back off cuz inside I'm pissed but I like u so much that I don't wanna scream at u about it so I'll back off until my anger subsided and I'll try n talk about it. It just depends but it also comes down to what u prefer. Is this a style of love u can deal with?

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omg thats exactly what I've been doing. Like I noticed that the way he talked to me was somewhat different, and when he texted me, full of hearts emoticons and I'm just, act normal cause I'm too occupied with the thoughts that hes just being extra friendly. I don't want to get ahead of myself.

And yes I treat him just like anybody else.

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Posted by Vixen2
*sigh* you have to pursue Libra men usually.

so if I want I have to go for him??

if i want him*

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I will be honest its nice to see a girl come after me, it is nice to be pursued, but if he is playing games is it really worth it? If you think he is worth go for it then go for it. I stand by my previous comment. Little boys play games.

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Posted by Vixen2
*sigh* you have to pursue Libra men usually.

so if I want I have to go for him??

if i want him*

I will be honest its nice to see a girl come after me, it is nice to be pursued, but if he is playing games is it really worth it? If you think he is worth go for it then go for it. I stand by my previous comment. Little boys play games.

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it annoys me that he do know that I don't like games. Thats why I always go for manly guy. Do libra guys always hide their feeling?

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Posted by Vixen2
*sigh* you have to pursue Libra men usually.

so if I want I have to go for him??

if i want him*

I will be honest its nice to see a girl come after me, it is nice to be pursued, but if he is playing games is it really worth it? If you think he is worth go for it then go for it. I stand by my previous comment. Little boys play games.

it annoys me that he do know that I don't like games. Thats why I always go for manly guy. Do libra guys always hide their feeling?

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I can't speak for all of us libras, but yes I hold back my feelings. Now if I am serious about you its pretty damn obvious that I am. It takes some time to open up, but when I have I am yours completely. There is no one else in the world. That's just me though. I consider myself a pretty manly guy, just a refined manly guy. I am at home working with my hands, being outdoors as I am socializing dressed to the nines schmoozing and charming.

Posted by LuckyLibra979
I overlooked the fact that he hasn't approached u about it. Yea it is a Libra thing, just gonna be honest. But its the immature and insecure ones fuck that treat him like u been treating him if he can't say how he feels then how are you supposed to know? I do the gender roles thing too, it doesn't feel right having a woman lead me only insecure men do that

Maybe I was a bit hard on him. The way he treated other girl made me think that I may not be any different. I just wasn't sure. I'm afraid of being rejected as much as everyone did. If I go for him and end up being rejected I will be that girl because he's popular for being friendly and we have the same circle of friends. Knowing that we have to see each other for another 3 years of college, It wouldnt be pretty.

Posted by LuckyLibra979
I blew out n cold when I got my feelings hurt n i was trying to keep the funnel cloud from touching the ground but I've always been the type to make the first move, I found it exciting

if only he made the first move it wouldn't be a mess. I need to feel secure before moving forward. but from what I read I need to make him feel that way first

Posted by LuckyLibra979
U gotta roll the dice sometimes. I stopped initiating with a Leo, she was a bitch tho. I love a good challenge but if everything I do is an issue I'm gone. I say that b/c ppl forget that we are cardinal signs so if we feel like our efforts get us nowhere then we will bounce. I know I don't like talking about how I feel b/c I feel like its in my actions and my idea on romance is a bit different.


Gotta take a chance tho Libras are prideful too and he doesn't know what's really up he may be observing u we do that a lot @elgaupolibra made some great points on our behaviour

you're right. So if I want to give it a try what should I be doing right now? and do you usually hold back your feeling in relationship?

Posted by LuckyLibra979
I've held my feelings back once but I had some investigating to do, and I was right. I fire and water a lot in my chart its a must that I'm open. Honestly, just be direct with him. Honesty sits with us hard man, and if we like u we WILL take your advice. Just tell him what's up and how you're not for games. Then judge his actions and that will tell u everything

Thank you so much, I should really take note 🙂

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Posted by Vixen2
*sigh* you have to pursue Libra men usually.

so if I want I have to go for him??

if i want him*

I will be honest its nice to see a girl come after me, it is nice to be pursued, but if he is playing games is it really worth it? If you think he is worth go for it then go for it. I stand by my previous comment. Little boys play games.

it annoys me that he do know that I don't like games. Thats why I always go for manly guy. Do libra guys always hide their feeling?

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I can't speak for all of us libras, but yes I hold back my feelings. Now if I am serious about you its pretty damn obvious that I am. It takes some time to open up, but when I have I am yours completely. There is no one else in the world. That's just me though. I consider myself a pretty manly guy, just a refined manly guy. I am at home working with my hands, being outdoors as I am socializing dressed to the nines schmoozing and charming.

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Posted by Vixen2
*sigh* you have to pursue Libra men usually.

so if I want I have to go for him??

if i want him*

I will be honest its nice to see a girl come after me, it is nice to be pursued, but if he is playing games is it really worth it? If you think he is worth go for it then go for it. I stand by my previous comment. Little boys play games.

it annoys me that he do know that I don't like games. Thats why I always go for manly guy. Do libra guys always hide their feeling?

I can't speak for all of us libras, but yes I hold back my feelings. Now if I am serious about you its pretty damn obvious that I am. It takes some time to open up, but when I have I am yours completely. There is no one else in the world. That's just me though. I consider myself a pretty manly guy, just a refined manly guy. I am at home working with my hands, being outdoors as I am socializing dressed to the nines schmoozing and charming.

I feel that shit g I'm the same way. My brother is too you would never guess how dirty he gets his hands. I just can't pure my feelings into an unsure thing but I usually have a reason to be reserved. We require some patients and understanding. Having a past full of drama makes me want peace and serenity now, but I'll go there lol

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Yeah my most recent relationship is forcing me to reinforce that barrier. I hate the games, I'm a grown as man I need a woman who knows how to be real, and know a good thing that's in front of her. Yeah get past the "indecisiveness" and you have a person who will topple mountains and bring the heavens tumbling just for the sake of her entertainment. My hands are hands that have been tested. Dont get the lazy Libra saying, I work as hard as play lol good to see I'm not the only one out there

Posted by summer00
I've known this libra guy for a while now, and we're actually close. His friends been telling me that he likes me and he didnt deny it so I take it as joke. I had a past with a libra guy as well, like him but it didnt end up pretty. but now I wanna ask, is he playing mind games lately? because he purposely ignored me and sometimes he act normally close. sometimes a bit too close. I dont have eyes for anything like this so when should I start taking him seriously? And he posted something recently, about stalking someone even tho he didn't like the post, He had always been my biggest follower, liking all my post until hust recently he stopped. so libra men, if you're interested in girl what will you do?

What's your sign

If you have to ask, he's not into you.

Posted by mysteriousTaurus

Posted by summer00
I've known this libra guy for a while now, and we're actually close. His friends been telling me that he likes me and he didnt deny it so I take it as joke. I had a past with a libra guy as well, like him but it didnt end up pretty. but now I wanna ask, is he playing mind games lately? because he purposely ignored me and sometimes he act normally close. sometimes a bit too close. I dont have eyes for anything like this so when should I start taking him seriously? And he posted something recently, about stalking someone even tho he didn't like the post, He had always been my biggest follower, liking all my post until hust recently he stopped. so libra men, if you're interested in girl what will you do?

What's your sign

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I'm a virgo which I heard is not a good partner for libra

Posted by rockyroadicecream
If you have to ask, he's not into you.

I'm asking cs I don't want it to be me that pushed me away

Posted by LuckyLibra979
Virgo is actually a good match for us it was for me. All it takes is for Libra to understand that small things matter the virgo. Both can be devoured to each other, my relationship ended ugly but it truly had some beautiful moments and I can honestly say I was at my best in that relationship

I've been in relationship with libra once and it wasnt the best. in fact its the worst. Thats why I'm being extra careful with libra. not getting too involved. You're right about the small things. Thats why I thought it wouldn't work