ladies who have fallen for libra men please read this.

hi guys, as some of you know, I am a taurus sun with libra rising. My libra rising is dominant, meaning I act like a libra quite a lot and have many libra tendencies, this may be why I get along with libras so well, because I understand them.
almost everyday there is a new thread on dxp about girls/women going crazy over libra guys.
this is what you need to know (from my experience with libras, female and male, and my personal experience being a libra rising)

- libras flirt, with almost everyone, IT DOESNT MEAN HE/SHE LIKES YOU, please understand this, please stop jumping to conclusions, please stop over thinking every little detail. If he truly, deeply, likes you, you will know it, as he will verbally confirm this.
- libras need alot of space, stop chasing him, stop worrying if hes going to call or text you back after some number of days, A) he could totally feel the same for you prior to him going ghost, but hes just busy, leave him alone, let him accomplish his work in peace, libras are very logical, they like brainy work, stop distracting him and let him come back to you when hes free B) hes not interested anymore, youre getting too clingy, hes indirectly and silently telling you give me A LOT of space, youre taking his flirting too seriously.
- libra want the perfect partner, SO you better make sure you have a gym membership, fitness and health are important, make sure you follow up on fashion trends *not to a T, but have some personal style, it makes them love you even more, also since libras are very artistic and absolutely adore beauty, they will deeply appreciate and admire your tailored, silky, and elegant clothing 🙂 top of the line makeup with play a benefit as well 🙂
- be intellectual, have something interesting to talk about, dumb girls aren't cute, well sometimes, but not too dumb, share common interests and hobbies.
- libras LOVE attention, just because you are his number 1 on snapchat, it DOESNT MEAN HE LIKES YOU, he likes the attention YOU are giving him.
- they are chatty, once again, i repeat, once again, just because he texts you a lot, almost everyday, it doesnt mean he likes you, he likes attention and enjoys feeling wanted and liked.

now here is what i really wanted to get to..
- don't ever forget this, read this carefully, ---> just because he flirts with you, doesnt mean he has feelings for you

- he goes out in public with you
- he looks deep into your eyes
- he asks you alot of questions, (hes interested and cares)
- he looks at you, alot, and especially in front of people, hes making it clear he likes YOU, read his body language.

but then suddenly he may pull away, entirely, its okay darling, dont panic. hes just afraid, hes afraid to get his tender, deeply loving, and caring heart shattered into pieces. during this time, do remain patient, give him plenty of space, its okay to ask what is going on in his fickle minded head of his, and dont freak out when he takes more than 6 hours to simply text back, hes just thinking, be glad the wheels are at least turning, finally, be open to what is to come next. its the journey, not the destination. if you really care about him, you'll want him to be happy regardless if its with you or without you, therefore, give him lots of thinking time. if he returns, congratulations, you have completed all 150 levels of winning this treasure, hold on tight, he is worth the ride! if he doesnt return and remains lost in wind, don't cry, there are 7 billion and counting people in this world, wipe the tears and try again.

well, its been a real pleasure here on the libra board
love you, my beautiful scales! xox

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
- libra want the perfect partner, SO you better make sure you have a gym membership, fitness and health are important, make sure you follow up on fashion trends *not to a T, but have some personal style, it makes them love you even more, also since libras are very artistic and absolutely adore beauty, they will deeply appreciate and admire your tailored, silky, and elegant clothing 🙂 top of the line makeup with play a benefit as well 🙂
- libras LOVE attention, just because you are his number 1 on snapchat, it DOESNT MEAN HE LIKES YOU, he likes the attention YOU are giving him.

sorry mt, but speaking for myself, these don't apply to me at all.

I found most of that accurate for the Libras I have dated, but none of them were overly hung up on perfection regarding looks/clothes/makeup/fitness, but of course I upkeep all that anyway so maybe that's why I never noticed any fixations, but still the Libras I know are all pretty down to earth, love being outside, being dudes, doing dude stuff...I can't imagine any of them noticing if I was wearing fine silk or a flannel.

Posted by ashley1734
I found most of that accurate for the Libras I have dated, but none of them were overly hung up on perfection regarding looks/clothes/makeup/fitness, but of course I upkeep all that anyway so maybe that's why I never noticed any fixations, but still the Libras I know are all pretty down to earth, love being outside, being dudes, doing dude stuff...I can't imagine any of them noticing if I was wearing fine silk or a flannel.

verytrue of the one I know. I would gomout starightnout of bed and that was okay as long as we could hang out.

I think the thing about appearances is def true. I asked my guy (Leeb rising) if he would take me out with my hair purple. He started laughing and was like, "um, we can go to Red Lobster". I thought it was hilarious. He does NOT like the purple hair, but respects my right to rock it. I can't wait to kiss him in public wearing this purple hair. Lol ha ha ha ha

I find most of what you said to ring true with my guy as well. Since I've gotten sick he's called more than texted. He needs LOTS of freedom and flexibility though. We both do, but he definitely likes, no LOVES the attention. It's almost as if I'm required to lavish him with attention, but not expect it in return. That doesn't mean that he's not going to give it to me...but if he could express that he feels he should get attention without me expecting attention in return and still sound like a caring partner, he totally would. Lol

He gives the attention...like awesome quality attention in huge amounts and then he rests for a while. The cycle continues on that way.

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Posted by mysteriousTaurus
- libra want the perfect partner, SO you better make sure you have a gym membership, fitness and health are important, make sure you follow up on fashion trends *not to a T, but have some personal style, it makes them love you even more, also since libras are very artistic and absolutely adore beauty, they will deeply appreciate and admire your tailored, silky, and elegant clothing 🙂 top of the line makeup with play a benefit as well 🙂
- libras LOVE attention, just because you are his number 1 on snapchat, it DOESNT MEAN HE LIKES YOU, he likes the attention YOU are giving him.

sorry mt, but speaking for myself, these don't apply to me at all.

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could be because you're a female? not sure.

Posted by ashley1734
I found most of that accurate for the Libras I have dated, but none of them were overly hung up on perfection regarding looks/clothes/makeup/fitness, but of course I upkeep all that anyway so maybe that's why I never noticed any fixations, but still the Libras I know are all pretty down to earth, love being outside, being dudes, doing dude stuff...I can't imagine any of them noticing if I was wearing fine silk or a flannel.

they could have alot of earth placements, and their libra sun could be weak. my friend has 4 or 5 libra placements, its actually crazy, he is where my inspiration came from.

Posted by tiziani
There's a few things I could contest but it's not important. I respect the effort in taking the time and thought to write out a measured post.

you're welcome to your opinion regardless if you think its important or not, care to share ;p

For those who don't relate, if could also be due to an age factor. As you can tell, I'm in my early twenties, as are all my friends, including the leebs in my life. 🙂

Posted by tiziani
I agree with the rest fully. And I think you have a good grasp of where we're coming from.

Thanks and good stuff ^!

Posted by tiziani
I agree with the rest fully. And I think you have a good grasp of where we're coming from.

What are your placements tiziani

Posted by PV&Jellay
Note, I made no mention about flirtiness. I never give much thought to it. I'm Libra dominant myself so some people see flirtiness , I see playfulness and friendliness. Libras and Libra dominants are so misunderstood.😄

There is not much of a difference. Stop thinking so hard, it's simple

Posted by mysteriousTaurus

Posted by jeane

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
- libra want the perfect partner, SO you better make sure you have a gym membership, fitness and health are important, make sure you follow up on fashion trends *not to a T, but have some personal style, it makes them love you even more, also since libras are very artistic and absolutely adore beauty, they will deeply appreciate and admire your tailored, silky, and elegant clothing 🙂 top of the line makeup with play a benefit as well 🙂
- libras LOVE attention, just because you are his number 1 on snapchat, it DOESNT MEAN HE LIKES YOU, he likes the attention YOU are giving him.

sorry mt, but speaking for myself, these don't apply to me at all.

could be because you're a female? not sure.

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it might be because i am female. in terms of looks and clothes, all i want is someone to be well kept. no long hair, no long nails. i want him fresh smelling. as for clothes, i just want him to wear whatever makes he feel comfortable. my bull, if he has come straight from work, turns up in dirty clothes with holes in them. he may have grease on his arms and face. to me, that is perfect because that is who he is.

attention, i'd rather not have the attention. i think on the whole, libras are quite shy and introverted. to me leos and gems are the attention seekers. if someone gives me too much attention, i feel uncomfortable and uneasy. it creeps me out.

Posted by Goldigold
I agree 100% , even with the perfection of course it's relative. I never knew how much I would love the perfect man until I met him, and it's fall to my knees love. But he is also beautiful on the inside. There has to be depth too. But absolutley agree and very well written.

Finally, you're either a real libra or are interacting with real libras!

@busy I'm sorry you had to meet vain libras, libras are really great once you meet the caring and intelligent ones

Posted by Koniucha
Haha, a Taurus female telling everyone what a Libra male is looking for and why

I mean I would know, libras are attracted to me like magnets 😉

Posted by Goldigold

Posted by mysteriousTaurus

Posted by Goldigold
I agree 100% , even with the perfection of course it's relative. I never knew how much I would love the perfect man until I met him, and it's fall to my knees love. But he is also beautiful on the inside. There has to be depth too. But absolutley agree and very well written.

Finally, you're either a real libra or are interacting with real libras!

A true Libra 🙂

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i can feel the love xo

idk why but i love everything about libras, is it crazy that i met a someone with a libra sun, mercury, venus, and moon. it doesnt get any realer than that. a pure breed *laughing hysterically emoji*

Posted by PV&Jellay
Call me naive, but I've found Libras simple to understand. Probably because I'm air dominant. I attract Libras a lot, and I can always tell they are interested by their degree of attentiveness. Also they sneakily insert themselves into all aspects of my life without me noticing, which seems to be the venusian way because taurus men do this too. "Hey you eat lunch here at 12 every monday, me too!" LOL. Also when they display that subtle Libra possessiveness that they pretend they don't have, where they passively monopolize most of your time, to the point you forget about all other interests...especially male ones. And some how they have a way of asserting themselves, ever so subtlely, in a way that scares off all my other male suitors, and gives my male friend the hint that they should fuck off too. Next thing you know, they are the only non-relative male in your life and you realize you may as well be dating cause you're always together. That's how it usually happens for me, they trick my aqua venus into a relationship. 😛

If they are into you, they like to spend a lot of quality time together. They do seem to enjoy intense intellectual conversations, but I wouldn't have it any other way. Neither of us really cares who wins the debate, it's really just mental foreplay. I don't really see myself as fashion forward, and that's never been an issue. What I love about Libras is I can be as sarcastic and bitchy as I like, and they just laugh and brush it off. Not that I'm that way often, but it's refreshing to not have to be "nice" all the time and not have to worry about offending your partner. Meh. Maybe these were just the libras I dated.

Very similar to my experiences too.

I agree a million percent on everything you wrote.....mmmmmhhhhmmm 🙂

except the space part.....every libra i know has hunted me down and wanted to spend every hour of the day with me....

Posted by 2Moon
MARRY ME? where do you live?
..im going to buy a ring tomorrow.. all you have to do is say "Yes!" 😄

Hahahah, who,me?

Posted by balblair
I agree a million percent on everything you wrote.....mmmmmhhhhmmm 🙂

except the space part.....every libra i know has hunted me down and wanted to spend every hour of the day with me....

Lol! What's your sun sign 🙂

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Posted by 2Moon
MARRY ME? where do you live?
..im going to buy a ring tomorrow.. all you have to do is say "Yes!" 😄

Hahahah, who,me?

a woman that understands me.. yes you of course! 😄

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No, I swear on God I wrote this all from my own observations from the libra man who I'm madly and deeply in love with. None of this is from a website. I take mental notes of my libra and try to figure him out because he's confusing sometimes. So far, I think I'm doing a pretty decent job at understanding him. I'm glad you liked my post! The things I wrote about how to tell when a libra likes you, comes from exactly what my libra did to me. I don't think people on dxp really believe me when I say I'm literally surrounded by libras. It's crazy, taurus and libra are like magnets.

@2moon I'm glad, you want to be with a taurus women. Libra male and taurus female are so perfect together it's almost unbelievable. There is no one on this earth better for me than my libra guy.
He's a leeb sun, moon, mercury, and Venus.

Woman*

@2moon my libra and I have been friends for about a year and have been intimate for a year and some change, so all together I've known him for a couple years now. I guess I know him pretty well. And when you love someone you pay attention to them intensely and actually listen to them. So yeah, this isn't from a website but I'm flattered you thought so ™

OMG! Thank you for the part about us needing space. I require space but lack the communication skills to convey this to prospects.

I have learned to take the space I need. This woman told me "you don't have to ask for space you take the space that you need!"

But I love love love love my space. Even when I am hopelessly in love. But then when my partner takes space I freak out. I know I know!

Posted by balanceduser
OMG! Thank you for the part about us needing space. I require space but lack the communication skills to convey this to prospects.

I have learned to take the space I need. This woman told me "you don't have to ask for space you take the space that you need!"

But I love love love love my space. Even when I am hopelessly in love. But then when my partner takes space I freak out. I know I know!

It's okay, sometimes we can't help the characteristics that make up who we are 🙂

Posted by tiziani

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