As many of you know, I've been going back and forth with Libra Girl; working the psychological maze and the unique time continuum; and per the advice of EXPERTS, primarily Libra, Chatz and Little Sparrow with a little bit of QueenScorpio and kennyg and, I hate to admit it, nicodemus, thrown in; I have kept Libra Girl at bay, incommunicado for now TWO days. Yes, TWO days. And, absolute shock---I know you can relate, Chatz---she CALLED me tonight; didn't leave a voicemail, but CALLED---at 9:45PM (er, her bedtime is at 9:00).
We talked for about 35 minutes. She REALLY wanted to know what I did today (I "think" she's checking on who I may have been with today!)---and I told her in a very aloof manner. Small talk. Lots of laughter. Asked about her day, etc. Did NOT mention anything about feelings or seeing her again or anything like that. Gave HER every opportunity to invite me somewhere or set up a time to get together, but she didn't. So I figured it was still in her hands.
So that's how I left it. And now I'll WAIT again.
But, gee, Chatz, isn't that a RECORD to ONLY have to wait TWO days— LOL!
You're cute Atom.. tickled me to read your post.. See what happens when you take peoples advice here.. I am living proof as well that it works.. they have always steered me right and now me and my libra and inching our way towards ecstacy..
OMG Atom only 2 days—? wooohooo well done LOL.....I am glad for you that SHE made the effort and yes I can relate 🙂
Looks like all the Librans might be coming out of the woodworks afterall....first all doom and gloom and now surprises galore *hands out the champagne*
ATom, Chatz, you guys and your Libras are seeming to trott along!!! Great!! Everyone's Libra seems to be coming around except my friend... I thought we were friends Geeeze. Does he ignore all his friends? He has never waited longer than a week to contact me evern when he was back with the ex... I have had so many messages (in the past) "Hey its ___ just calling to see how you are doing, checking on you, give me a call when you get a chance." None of those lately. He could be back with the ex. If so, this is the first time he didn't break his neck to tell me.
Sigh, oh well, more exploring with others - Aries are nice!!! 🙂
Oh, I am on my way to the gym just might see the Libra there, but then again, might not. not...
'Might be too early for champagne. (Hands out Ginger Ale). And now I'm back in wait and see mode. Would really like her to ask DIRECTLY to see me / go out. But I'll play the subtley act for now---which Queen knows is practically impossible for us!
GLAD you like the Aries, Queen! Would "told you so"---but you already knew in advance. The Libra Guy in your life? Keep being your flirty self. REMEMBER Scorps: you girls come on STRONG---I imagine MOST of the guys around you just wilt. Libra Guy is probably attracted to you as a woman AND for that sensual power vibe----and doesn't know what to do about it. He's probably figuring you out as a "just friend" right now---and it may not compute in his head! BUT, you know how Libran are, he will think and think and think and think and come up with SOMETHING!
It sounds like with your Libra girl it is still thinking mode, though perhaps we are slowing moving towards more. If you think she is worth it, then wait it out, seems to have worked some for others (to some extent)...
Perhaps you can spend your spare time getting a few of the things you have been wanting to do out of the way so that you will be free and clear to spend time with her when/if she comes around... Keep your mind occupied, make time pass quicker, get things out of the way... I like things that achieve multiple purposes. Somehow makes me feel exponentially more productive...
We talked for about 35 minutes. She REALLY wanted to know what I did today (I "think" she's checking on who I may have been with today!)---and I told her in a very aloof manner. Small talk. Lots of laughter. Asked about her day, etc. Did NOT mention anything about feelings or seeing her again or anything like that. Gave HER every opportunity to invite me somewhere or set up a time to get together, but she didn't. So I figured it was still in her hands.
So that's how I left it. And now I'll WAIT again.
But, gee, Chatz, isn't that a RECORD to ONLY have to wait TWO days— LOL!