Sharing Frustrations

Libra Girl disappears for a few days; then writes me a nice e-mail thanking me for V Day. Closest thing to mush she's ever communicated. She disappears for a couple more days. Hear nothing; nada. THEN she calls today. She was cleaning carpets; her carpet machine broke. She was working on something else; that machine broke. She's taking a trip out of town to see her sister she doesn't get along with. (It think you can see where I'm going here). She's sharing her frustrations with me. EXPERIENCE tells me a woman will seldom do that unless she really likes you, and trusts you, of course.

Feedback?

I think you're right....she CLEARLY likes you by spending so much time with you and is comfortable sharing the things that go on in her life, such as broken machines with you 🙂 You're obviously the first person she thinks about when she needs support/an ear/shoulder, etc....THAT's good

she is interested. with her dealings, you will earn extra points if you not only listen to those statements, but offer sentiments. "It sounds like carpet machines and you don't get along. Need some help?"...stuff like that.

We like for you men to listen, but we also like it when you offer to help 🙂

Thank you, Chatz, dahlin'! It's nice to think I have a FEW things figured out!

(And what was the name of that perfume again? Where can I get it?).

HP, I'm usually good at both. My buds kid me about the "harem" I have in my life---girls / women that are just buds that I give a listening ear to; have coffee with; help with little things. BUT I'm a one woman guy so when I'm smitten, I only focus the IMPORTANT things on her. *blush*

awww...

name of the perfume is called ANGEL and the scent is like its come from heaven...certainly worth spending money on this for somebody special 🙂.....its by Tierry Mulger (I think that's how you spell it)...and you can order online I think but most good department stores should have it. Its not cheap though but most good things aren't *sigh*

I like the GOOD stuff---and it usually ain't cheep. A FINE woman is worth it! Thanks!

Guys

No perfumes. What if you get it wrong?

Big problem...!

Libra, good point. It wouldn't hurt to go shopping WITH her though when the time is right, would it?

"No perfumes. What if you get it wrong?"

Personally, I think that I agree... I am very picky about my perfumes. The way I smell is an important thing to me, and I like it to be an expression of my personality / being. Now, if the girl happens to mention one she smelled and liked (in conversation or you happen to be shopping with her) or you know some of her standard perfumes and opt to buy her one of those, that would be cool. But, to just randomly pick out one leaves a lot of room for error...

But, maybe that is just me. I suppose it is entirely possible some girls would enjoy that...

Now that would be perfect. Then watch her eyes; that'll be your cue.

And FYI - I like French perfumes that smell of very expensive soap, not synthetic ones like D&G.

Watching her eyes ALWAYS seems to be the cue!

!!! You know it!

(for shopping it is...)

"It wouldn't hurt to go shopping WITH her though when the time is right, would it?"

Opps... Missed your post.

That would definitely work for me, whether it was blatantly made known what the intention was or whether is was a bit more sly. The point merely being that you get her something she would really enjoy and want to wear (more than merely for the fact that you bought it for her).