Patience!

My dear Libra Girl went on a ski trip for two days and was planning to return last night. It is now lunch time in my time zone and I haven't heard from her, phone or e-mail. And KNOW Libras like that time going by thing. Gee, it makes us Fire signs so, er, fiery---cuz we're so impatient!

I'd like to call her to make sure she go back safe and sound and find out how she's doing after the ski trip, etc.

Okay, you Libra experts, what do you suggest? (Chatz, how long would you give it before contacting? nic', you are all-wise in these matters, what up, dude?)

I know you didn't ask me, but I would give her a couple days. Then call.

True, try to wait until she contacts you, if you can't then atleast wait a couple days...

Atom et all

The reason why we don't call immediately is because we have to make sure you don't consider us needy or desperate. When will all you lovely people realise this??

Feel free to call her. If she wants you - which I think we've established she does - she will be happy to hear from you...

Good luck!

If I like the person, it really hurts and I take it personally. I will hurt for awhile, then I will get angry, then I will forget you.

Atom

Call her tomorrow night.

Thank you, all---yes, including you, QS, you know I adore you! AND you, Libra, your wisdom is always so keen and gentle. kris, my experience is the same with the watery ones. little sparrow, you may be starting to think like an Aries now. We like a precise action plan. Ha!

And Libras like strategy.

Wednesday is prefect. You have given her some time to settle down from her trip. You had plans tonight (quick, go make plans ... something fun that you can tell her about) so couldn't call.

Wednesday = perfect.

Thursday = a bit better but I know you don't want to wait. 🙂

I really think you need to make her think a bit and wonder what you are up too.

And don't tell her who you did what with. Ambiguity at this point is your friend.

You went to the movie with your friend. You went over to a friends house. Oh ... no one you know ... just a friend. 😉

You need to get her wondering a little.

But ambiguity of the gentlest kind. Don't discourage her. Remember, we don't share very well...

* But ambiguity of the gentlest kind. Don't discourage her. Remember, we don't share very well...

True!

OK, LS, ya had me a little confused at first. But I guess I was right about waiting a couple days in the end. Per you and Libras advice, Wed or Thurs...

Kris, hmmm, we water signs do hate to be ignored, but, if you wait too long to contact us, we too will forget you...

Oh...and stand on one foot, touch your nose with your toes, jump, turn a pirouette, do a back flip and land on your pinkies, all while frosting a cake at the same time.

😉

Sorry, I couldn't help myself... Someone had to say it. 🙂

You want my opinion?? oooooh ok....ummmm I'd give it a day or so...then pick up the phone and keep it simple...let her do the talking and yeah, definitely keep her wondering as to what you got up to over the past few days....from my experience, they seem to love the mystery and will work hard to figure it out and of course that means they're thinking of YOU!!!

I sent mine a text last night...basically, I was wondering if we were still getting together tomorrow night, seeing we spent Sunday together (twice in one week?? unheard of LOL)...anyway he was being a little cheeky and wouldn't give me a straight answer so I didn't answer his last text before heading to bed last....I replied this morning and was a little blase about it....he wrote back some stuff and at the end he wrote "oh, and by the way, not once did I say I was busy on Thursday night"...so let the fun begin today LOL. He's impossible!!! Talk about hard work but I wasn't going to beg that's for sure!!

Mind games!! Gotta keep her guessing Atom, keep her analysing, keep the mystery alive 🙂

al', I TRIED doing that for her before and she just laughed!

*sob*

😉

Thanks, Chatz!

Shaka2, you DON'T know. You are starting a long journey to find out.

Just a heads up, Shaka2, they take longer to know than most people---operate in their own worlds in their own time and timing. They check you out for a long time. Yes, you will hear that phrase "long time" on this Board often.

"not that I regret having asked that but I think no one can really answer those questions"

I can...

42

Oh, come on... Am I the only geek here?!?

OH yes they do like to hang with the "lookers" but from what I can see, they treat EVERYBODY well and with total respect

Nah, we're all geeks LOL

Shaka2....well THAT is an excellent attitude to have when dealing with a Libra 🙂

LOL

Shaka, WE could use your aloof attitude...send some over!!!

"alcheme, I love geeks!!"

To answer your question, it is the ultimate answer to the great question of life, the universe, and everything. And, all things considered, it is about as close as you will ever come to figuring out that Libra girl... 😉

Uhhh so alcheme, does that mean you and Nic have hooked up— Yeah, what is 42?

yes you've both been quiet on the board.....do tell!!!

Shaka, the harder you play to get (for a certain amount of time) the more she will be interested... We all know that. You will see when you actually do persue her there we be a disappear/reappear act constantly... Ask Atom...

Funny, my first love was a Virgo... Virgo's are hot...

Alcheme back to the questiion, you know I have been thinking it since you or Nic haven't been on here much lately...

yes back to the question LOL

Shaka2 and you should know that you are the prize. Because they certainly know it and make sure you are aware too...

Alcheme— Alcheme— Yeah Chatz, our suspisions are correct. Scorps don't make it a habit to kiss untell unless it isn't really going well... Hehehe....

***Scorps don't make it a habit to kiss and tell****

Oh, that is just soooo not funny. Damn, a perfect example of my complete lack of luck... Decide to actually get some of my piles taken care of at work, considering how so the forum was going, and it just happened to be when someone was judging my response time. That is just wrong!?!

To answer your question... I am going to move to Phoenix and we are going to start a commune and wait for the end of the world (or the lack there of) in our his / hers matching assless chaps (and I get matching pasties and he gets a matching bandana), the remainder of the people at the commune will be wearing thin, see-through whitey-tighties. Wanna come and join our commune?!? It'll be fun...

🙂

will there be balloons and party poppers— streamers and loads of red cordial—

"will there be balloons and party poppers— streamers and loads of red cordial—"

Sweet! Yeah, baby...

And for the more traditional, there will be lots of whiskey, guns, and sex!

oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh let the fun begin!!!!! 😛

LOL...come over to Oz....our tax time is 30/06/07....when it gets to that time, go back to your own country!!! Easy fix LOL

"Yeah, what is 42?"

Whoops... To answer your question, "42" is the answer...

"it is the ultimate answer to the great question of life, the universe, and everything. And, all things considered, it is about as close as you will ever come to figuring out that Libra girl... 😉"

Has no one actually read The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy?!?

oh God...my Libran has!!! Maybe I should read it to understand some of the things he says...*sigh*...I don't do reading so well LOL

Yeah see, we figure we can't go wrong. We are going to stock up for the end of the world, and when it comes were going to have lots of sex, drink lots of whisky and make lots of head shots.

If the end of the world doesn't come, were going to have lots of sex, drink lots of whisky and shoot lots of guns.

Things become so simple and clear between libra and scorpio.

And I'm not joking either, this is our long term plan. No we havent gotten an opportunity to meet up yet, youll know when we do, instead of light posting there will no posting...and the stories thread will come back to life. Now with 10% more assles chaps and bandannas.

Yeah queen, Scorp girls don't really kiss and tell, but Libra guys do more than enough to make up for it.

"Now with 10% more assles chaps and bandannas."

You forgot the pasties... 😢

Now with 10% more assles chaps, bandannas and PASTIES!

Nic and Alcheme... Definitely people after my own heart... Oh, wait... Libra/Scorp. 🙂

So the question is, how do I know shes just being friendly and has no other intentions or...that she really sees me as a potential "lover", I know its sort of a silly question but I also know that Libras are pretty much social butterflies so how different do you act when just being friendly and when you have serious intentions? btw..Im a Virgo. If anyone answers,,thanks!

Why would she have serious intentions about you? She doesn't even know you. She needs to get to know you before she really knows her intentions. She is interested and attracted, but who knows? (wouldn't that be superficial?)

* I dont believe they believe in love at first sight unless some libra female here convinces me otherwise....hehe.

I have fallen in love at first site, well I think 5 minutes. Still counts. I was with him for three years, I have known him almost 5. He happens to be a Virgo-Virgo, who by the way I am looking after at the moment because he had an accident and is bedridden. We are loyal to the end if we love(d) you. There is nothing superficial about it. When we love, we love.

Alcheme

42 is the meaning of life. (Takes a little bow!) I knew what you were talking about. 🙂 I know my sci-fi!

should say .... it took 5 minutes.

"42 is the meaning of life. (Takes a little bow!) I knew what you were talking about. I know my sci-fi!"

Awesome!! I need a bunch of Libra friends...funny, sexy, charming, and geeky (just like me 😉)... And, they know their sci-fi! What more could anyone ask for?!?

That makes 3-0, in favor of Libras, in getting my geek joke.

hee!

My roomie is a libra as well. We have a HUGE collection of Sci-Fi movies and books. We have an entire bookshelve devoted to Sci-Fi books. Most people would never in a million years guess that either of us were into it. It is our little secret. 😉

He is a Virgo with a Virgo Rising. His moon is in Sag. Our charts are very compatible actually.

I will tell you how it happened.

I thought he was full of shit by inviting me and my friends somewhere, his treat, so I thought, I will teach you and agreed to go. We all piled into a cab but he didn't fit, so he was going to grab the next one. I looked out the cab window and he lit up a cigarette. I was overcome by an urgency and knowledge that he was the guy I was meant to be with next. If I don't get out now, I will regret it for the rest of my life. I was completely smitten.

A lot of bizarre things happened that night and I ended up talking to him, pretty much alone, until 6 in the morning.

I think Libras instinctually know who their partners are/or will be. We can look at you and just know.

Something similar happened with the latest Leo. I saw him and was blown away. I thought "shit. what have I done? I am not ready for this." lol! It hasn't worked out as I had hoped, but maybe one day. And trust me, this guy has made a HUGE impact on my life. There is some bizarre stuff between me and this guy (that I don't want to talk about) but it is a weird situation.

I think Libras just know.