Leebs and Observing Crushes From Afar

Hi there everyone. I am kind of intrigued by something. The Libras I know (I like you guys so I call you Leebs) are very observant people and I like that about them. The Libra I was friends with (wrote about him a few posts ago) took simple observation to almost the next level. He used to notice simple things about me like if I changed my hair, what different perfumes I would use, what type of jewelry I would wear and who bought it for me (he would ask) ect. He even took the time to look through my travel bag and ask me about every stitch of clothing it in. When he decided to blow hot and cold, he would ask mutual acquaintances about me and ask them who I was dating and he would know what was on my Facebook even if he wasn't on it or I had him blocked. I don't believe that most of you guys take it to that extreme but if you did, who would you direct that type of attention to?

Gem moon and lilith with a Scorp Venus

Too effing late there, kind of why we are going/had this back and forth jacked up relationship. I was a youngin' and in typical Leo fashion told him I liked him. Fast forward four-five years, he still swings in back and forth watching, inquiring from a far and then getting close enough to spout off a few hi's, reminisce about supposed missed opportunities with me and then he is off again, being his typical airy self. lol

I don't expect anything from him to be honest. He still floats in every once and a while and this last attempt of his was different than the previous ones with him asking me to come up and see him and all but I just don't see it. I just find it weird that he would.

LMAO! I love you guys but I know that that one isn't for me. The impetuousness of my Leonine youth combined with his overall squeamishness over said impetuous youth and throw in a dash of everyone in your effing business equals a relationship fail, but yet that last attempt (I know it isn't the last) was quite intriguing. lol

Haha, I'm a Gemini female and this sounds exactly like something I would do, lol. I'm really observant and curious about people who are interesting to me, whether I like them or not. However the more I'm into someone, especially romantically, the more I check out and pay attention to every little thing they say, do, wear, and own. Some people just fascinate me, lol.

I guess I just fascinate him. He slowly tries to waif close but I am kind of tired at this point so I give him some straightforward "real talk" and he balks and flits away just to watch from the shadows. I care for him deeply as a person and if things work out nicely between us, I am more than open but I don't have the patience for waifery. lol

redlily, he is a facinating guy in his own right. He is fun to watch and he does things that I would never even think to do in my life. LOL When we were friends we would do some of the goofiest stuff and it was absolutely great.

Posted by TasteOfChaosss
*cue rockyroadicecreams bitter rant about her libra ex*

Haha did anyone ever clarify if.rocky was the old amethyst??

Anyway I have gemini rising and am always checking in on.and enquiring about people lol. Usually end up giving them.the wrong idea because reality is I am just curius and nosy lol

I''m a Libra with Gemini moon as well, and yes there are a few people that I have studied in great detail if they tickle my fancy. i't really a compliment to the muse , we are very selective

I kind of think it is sweet but the funny thing is, he downplays it dramatically. It's funny when I have asked him about it. He asked friends of mine and even one of my officers what I was doing and if I was dating someone. 😕 He tells me, "Oh I just asked if you were ok, that is all." 😕 Ok guy, I wouldn't have been mad if you were just truthful. lol

Haha, wow, his Gemini moon is really showing through. I'm definitely very secretive when it comes to my nosy ways, lol. Because I don't want people to get the wrong idea and think I'm obsessed with them or something, when I'm just ridiculously curious. I even peek around to see what my ex's are up to from time to time, even the ones who I would never want back in million years, lol.

I'm cool with him being nosy because I am relatively open about my life, no need to lie about who you are and all. He takes it just to another level and it makes the curious cat in me wonder why. I think it is kind of interesting that someone who has no romantic interest in you (possibly, dunno and not too fussed about it) would take so much time to learn so much about you. Hell, the guy went through my travel costume jewelery case and asked me who bought every item in there and he always wanted to know if a guy bought it for me. LOL No guy, I buy my own jewelry. That threw him through a loop. 😛

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Posted by TasteOfChaosss
*cue rockyroadicecreams bitter rant about her libra ex*

Haha did anyone ever clarify if.rocky was the old amethyst??

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Aw, TOC is acting like a 12 year old again. It must be sad to be that age and be so immature. No wonder so many people really don't like her all that much. She's not even aware, either. I seriously feel sorry for her.

Yes, it was confirmed several times, dear. I think you've asked that like 5 times. :p Someone has, anyway.

Tbh, I skimmed through this thread. Too many blocked users, so all I saw was the OP's post, after post, after post. Too confusing...

I'm not too bothered by it to be honest, he strokes my ego......lol

RRIC, dang that is rough. Makes me feel like a loon talking to myself. 😆

He isn't that kind of factor, that road was explored and off-roaded long ago. He just has an interesting personality and I am intrigued by what his aim is. Focus-wise, I don't observe people unless I have an interest in them.

Posted by ReinaDelMar23
RRIC, dang that is rough. Makes me feel like a loon talking to myself. 😆

Haha, I know you weren't. But after the 4th comment in a row from you, I was like, "eff this, I have no idea wtf is going on."

Wow, I didn't know my dear little Leebs can be that hardcore. lol

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Posted by Goddessproxy
Seriously, a Gem Mooner MALE, is a no no.

Drink Rat Poison & Spare yourself the pain.

Wow! So what's the deal with a Gem moon male? I'd like to know for future reference.

I recently dealt with a Gem Venus male. Smh, chile.........ain't nobody got time fa dat!

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Guh, Sweet Brown?! *dying laughing*

I like to observe someone I may find interesting from afar or observe things about them in general. I'm looking for more info about the person, things that I like about them, things that I might not..but could ponder upon later lol. I'm weighing my person of interest, seeing if he's worth the pursuit. I'm attracted to pretty things, but I also look for things that will keep my interest. Being a Libra, I live in my head. It's my process of seeing ones potential.

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Posted by TasteOfChaosss
*cue rockyroadicecreams bitter rant about her libra ex*

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What is this tomfoolery? LMBO

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Posted by libra sun

Posted by TasteOfChaosss
*cue rockyroadicecreams bitter rant about her libra ex*

Haha did anyone ever clarify if.rocky was the old amethyst??

Aw, TOC is acting like a 12 year old again. It must be sad to be that age and be so immature. No wonder so many people really don't like her all that much. She's not even aware, either. I seriously feel sorry for her.

Yes, it was confirmed several times, dear. I think you've asked that like 5 times. :p Someone has, anyway.

Tbh, I skimmed through this thread. Too many blocked users, so all I saw was the OP's post, after post, after post. Too confusing...

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Actually I asked once before and it wasnt answered so I asked again. I have been away from the site for a year