distant love?

Iiz there a way ii can diistance myself completely from thiis liibra guy nd let hiim know iim done wiit these chiildiish gamez He liikez to play? Ii don't want to hurt hiim but Ii thiink He takez me for a joke nd expectz me to run after hiim every tiime He comez back from hiis funny actiin dayz .. he'z a HEAVY pothead now siince He haz been hangiin wiit thiis new crew nd Ii thiink he'z spazziin out or somethiin becuz He haz defiiniitely changed *,* iim completely turned off.

Lol sorry I don't usually write like that I was just pissed off!

Is there a way i can distance myself completely from this libra guy nd let him know im done with these childish games He likes to play? I don't want to hurt him but I think He takes me for a joke and expects me to run after him every time He comes backfrom his funny actin days .. he's a HEAVY pothead now since He has been hangin wit this new crew and I think he's spazzin out or somethin becuz He haz definitely changed *,* im completely turned off.

I am done I just don't want to be mean about it. I really wanna cut him off I don't like hurting People even after him treating me the way He does.

I'm completely turned off now due to his actions & newfound life style . Is there a nice way to do this?

See I don't wanna hurt him so should I just tell him I'm done and tell him about his self?

You know, Libras are the easiest to get rid of. Just delete everything associated with them. I don't think they will clamor to contact you if they get the message.

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Posted by spica
You know, Libras are the easiest to get rid of. Just delete everything associated with them. I don't think they will clamor to contact you if they get the message.

are they? 😉

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Those that I know of?
Gohollywood seems like the instigator anyway

Sheesh haha I didn't know it was that easy😄 I would have did this a long time ago It's been screwing with my brain forever!!!! I really didn't wanna hurt him lol Thanks so much guys!

& your very right I shouldn't worry about his feelings I should worry about How I feel & my heart is saying He needs to bounce! 🙂

thanks!

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Posted by Gohollywood
I am done I just don't want to be mean about it. I really wanna cut him off I don't like hurting People even after him treating me the way He does.

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It's not about hurting anyone...its about you being done, isn't it? like I said, there are many ways to cut someone off...you just have to figure out what angle is best for the both of you.

Your right I need to just cut it off do it my way and do what I feel is best. As I have read on here It's easy for them to take a hint so now that I know this I feel better doing what I have to do without worrying

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Posted by Gohollywood
I am done I just don't want to be mean about it. I really wanna cut him off I don't like hurting People even after him treating me the way He does.

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It's not about hurting anyone...its about you being done, isn't it? like I said, there are many ways to cut someone off...you just have to figure out what angle is best for the both of you.

Your right I need to just cut it off do it my way and do what I feel is best. As I have read on here It's easy for them to take a hint so now that I know this I feel better doing what I have to do without worrying

Ahahahahahaha you guys are hilarious: ) nah I know he's not gonna stalk lol I just don't like being the bad guy lol I didn't want to cut this off I really like him but It's something I got to do.

Friends always tell me I let People walk all over me and I'm too nice and i never speak up lol I'm ready to stop starting here

You know what I never thought about that.. I think your dead on. I would rather keep People I care about in my life no matter how they treat me instead of putting my foot down and letting things go .. I'm scared to let go That's the problem I'm afraid of change!!!!!

DeeGee you are right!! I let him be a damn jerk to me.. I gave him so many chances and He still walks in and out my life whenever He pleases with the same bullshit lines. I'm not the bad guy I deserve way better! Like I said before this new side He showed me completely turned me off so I should have been called it quits!!

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Just be nice about it...

I really feel this isn't gonna work out....I think it's best we both move on with our lives..

End of Story....

Next Chapter...🙂

^^^^ Right!! Thank you so so much and now I understand why many have said cancers and libras are not a match made in heaven lol totally get it! (:

DeeGee yes!! I am goin to do that.. everybody has a breaking point and I have reached mine.. Thank you for these words of encouragement 😄 I'm really motivated to cut the cord and walk into 2013 brandnew

I will no longer answer his calls, reply to his texts, have him as a fb friend nothing I am DONE!

Awesome! 🙂 my family even told me quit trying to settle down and just enjoy my youth! I have plenty of time to find Mr.right lol they were right!!!

I,m a Libra its easy to walk away from us if you want If you feel like you want to make your feelings known tell him were done and walk away with your head held high Thats what I,d do and never look back.. he sounds like a irresponsible man child so your better off without him and his addictions

Lblibra That's exactly what I plan to do is just walk away and move on with my life .. I'm not even going to explain anything He should know why I am no longer in his life and I'm not looking back (:

I've experienced almost the same thing It is no fun its tiring after a while .He sounds like a jerk by your description & moving on would be the best solution. do not feel bad for dropping him feel Good for picking yourself up & pushing forward . nobody likes change but It's part of life. Best of luck (;

Tell him you want nothing else to do with him... Whats the problem?...

thank you everyone for your real words of encouragement I am feeling much better since then I have deleted him completely and I am ready to bring in the new year with a new start. 🙂

Last weekend of 2012