Leo Female Looking For Advice With Libra Male

How do you get a Libra male to agree with you? To see your side of things? My Libra male seems to not stick with things alot. He says something will happen, we set a date, but then he gets cold feet and backs out with it. He puts me in charge and then when the time comes doesnt like what is happening and changes his tune. This is regarding a baby, but hes like this with everything in his life. He knows im the one, but is scared from alot of things from his past. He trusts me and loves me and definatly wants children. How can I help him move foward, get him to stick to this, and not wait forever for him to move forward at that? Thanks.

hmmm sounds like libran indecisiveness to me! It takes librans a very long time to make a decision of any kind, even more so with such a big decision like having a child. I don't know how you can get him to agree with you, although librans usually put others first, which is why he probably firstly agrees things with you but later backs down as he realises he needs to think about every perspective. They definitely need a very long time to be sure before committing themselves 100% with something, they just need to be sure they are doing the right thing and when they are finally certain they will truly commit themselves. I don't know of course whether you are rushing things or not but all I am saying is you can't rush a libran into anything as they need lots of time.

You don't. He isn't ready to move the relationship forward. It is best to find someone who wants the same things as you do.

The only thing you could try is to argue his point. If he has a lot of Libra in his chart, he should swing around and fight for the side you want, but that is pretty manipulative. It is best to find someone you are more compatible about.

sorry should read more compatible with.

awww........... I don't know if you should split up, that seems a bit harsh, hopefully things will work out in time, but it depends how long you are willing to wait! It might be worth the wait!

It sounds like she is on the baby train and he isn't sure he wants to go into the station.

She could force him into it but he would always resent her. I think it is easier to find someone who is in the same place she is. I don't think you can push any man to commit before his time without real resentment and fall-out. Men either have a cablight on and are looking for marriage/babies or they aren't.

JMO.

Thanks guys. He does want the same things and we are both very happy with eachother. He does want a baby as well as I do. I dont want to be with someone else. I know alot how Libras are and I do not want to rush him nor trick him, but I dont want to wait forever as well. We have been together 6 years and we are just now ready for a baby. See because of his past he doesnt think he can keep a child. 2 woman he was with had an abortion, one miscarried, and the other ran off with his child and doesnt know where she is. He feels like there is something wrong with him and he also feels like that I may run off with the child. Even though deep down he knows thats not the case. He totally trusts me, but he cant get past things in the past enough to actually go through the process of well ummm doing the act to get the child. His daugther he didnt even know she exsisted till much later either. Also his mother died about 10 years ago and he doesnt like dates. To him making a child would consist around a date. Every date and every holiday he corresponds it with a bad thing because his mom dying.

also I am not one to force anyone. That is not my personality. Neither is tricking.

aqualibra how long usually is long. See to him I think he expects everything to be perfect with this. If that makes sense. The perfect time. The perfect money. Perfect house. Car, etc... he wants the best for his children which is very understandable, but there is never a right time and no one is ever truely 100percent ready for a child.

Also I am willing to wait a long time, but not to long. Im 34 and have two kids already 12 and 13 which he considers very much his own. We are on the same page, its just moving foward with that page if you know what i mean. Maybee I should ask how can I help him get past the fear, the past, the perfectness, wanting everything right, etc— Does that make more sense? Thanx!

Here i am again something I wanted to ask as well..lol how do you loosen a Libra up in bed. I am the one with the higher sex drive. I feel its weird he doesnt have a high one due to i hear Libras do have a high one and are really open with sex. He hasnt had a high sex drive in a long time and thats due to his past too. So what can I do to get him going sexually as well and perhaps want more sex. What can I do to really get him passionate in bed. Maybee if I pushed the right buttons in bed it will help with letting go of the baby making fears?

Seeing as its everything visually beautiful that turns on a libra man on I would say try dressing up and maybe try role plays, for example get in a sexy nurses uniform or have the 'cuffs ready if that hasn't already been tried! Wont go into too much detail here, but remember it has got to be visually pleasing for him and that'll turn him on no doubt!

In fact this probably works on most men no matter what their star sign! I'm off now to do similar to my Aquarius! (TMI I know, sorry) x

I don't like that he isn't into having sex with you Rhiannon. It sounds like this guy needs a bit of therapy.

Could it be that he is holding back sexually because he is afraid you will get preggers and isn't ready yet? Libras are very weird about children. We aren't like Cancer, for example, that are driven by the desire to parent. We are driven by a desire to mate. Our mate ALWAYS comes first. If he thinks he would loose you to the baby, he might not want to have one with you? just musing again. I don't know.

I have never dated a Libra man ... so this may or may not work for you. lol!

Sex really begins days before you actually have sex. You have to imply sex. Hint without saying. Always suggest never be blatent. A tongue down the throat is not a good move. lol! Be sensuous.

Do thinks like hug him from behind just so that he can feel your nipples on his back then move away. Touch his arms gently. Stroke his face. Lean over him to turn out the light and let you breasts touch him as you do it. Wear something that can be seen through but only in the right light. Give him a massage and run your nipples over the lower part of his back. Touch and caress the lower part of his back very, very lightly(especially hot if you are kissing)

Ty I am going to start another thread. Cuz I think my Libra male is a freak of nature then lol.

^^^ what she said lol! ^^^

Thanks again. Any slow, passionate, delibrate examples lol. sparrow not to sound mean, but I laughed my butt off when you said dont be blantent. Boy is he blantent with me, but why cant I be with him and suggest? Since when do we have to "ask" for sex it just seems that that would be centered around him? I always very giving to my partner.How can I get him to give to me?

He can be blatant but you can't. You need to get him to think about having sex with you. It is all about what isn't said, as oppose to what is said when you are trying to get our attention.

Again, I have never dated a libra so I don't know.