leo girl bipolar libra guy!!!!!!!!!!

This topic was created in the Libra forum by cherieamour21 on Wednesday, May 17, 2006 and has 12 replies.

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@cherieamour21
20 Years

Hey ya'll libra's I need some advice on this libra dude im dealing with?He got my mind all twisted and I just wanted to know if that's something that

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@cherieamour21
20 Years

Hey ya'll libra's I need some advice on this libra dude im dealing with?He got my mind all twisted and I just wanted to know if that's something that

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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Leo and Libra are suppose to be well matched, and from what I have seen, we seem to go well together. We massage your ego and you let us. lol!

I have had a brief affair with a very nice Leo boy which will be unfortunately ending shortly. He isn't emotionally available at this time. He is a brilliant guy who I could totally fall for but he just broke up with someone and is starting to flake. He has freaked himself out, so I am cashing in my chips and heading for home.

Had he been in a better place emotionally, there is no doubt this would have been a keeper of a relationship, as he has a lot of qualities that I am looking for.

Unfortunately, the timing is shit.

Speaking of which, do you really want to be fishing in the bipolar pond lookin' for love? Might not be the greatest of ideas.

When Libra gets unstable ... look out.

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@cherieamour21
20 Years

well thanx for your advice little sparrow but I'm really head over heels about this guy.See the thing is he tried to talk to me when I was like in the 8th grade and I turned him down.So now that he got me he sort of feels like superior to me.I just recently reunited with this guy this year of april and he was open from the get when he saw me again.We had sex and now he acts as if he's better than me.He wants to see me on his time always unavailable when I wanna see him.And always wants ass when I'm in his crib.I'm falling for him and I told him he said he don't want a relationship but he still wants to contyinue to see me.I am so sad its ridiculous.I wanna turn the tables on his a@#.It's like he plays psychological games with me.I think he like the fact that I'm open off of him.!!!!

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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts

That is because you are accepting the relationship on his terms. It isn't up to him to stop seeing you. He gave you the terms, he doesn't want a relationship, you have agreed to those terms, because you continue to see him and sleep with him.

To turn the tables, you simply stop thinking he is superior. (Noone is superior to anyone.) And stop sleeping with him. You can still see him just turn him down. Date other guys. He can't complain about it because he said he doesn't want a relationship.

Fair is fair. Libras understand fair.

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@cherieamour21
20 Years

you absolutely right thanx so much for your advice by the way my name is mallory im 21 from new york manhattan.Where you from where you reppin—

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@cherieamour21
20 Years

You know these men are crazy but I defintely gonna take your advice and just leave him alone some dudes anit worth pursuing you feel me.Life is about learning im only 21 I got a whole life ahead ya heard!!

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@little_sparrow
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I hear ya!

Don't get drawn into the drama. Fly free! lol!

If he likes you, he will counter-offer with a relationship. He probably needs to miss you a little as he is taking you for granted. If he doesn't counter-offer, you'll find someone better.

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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Libras are a sign of illusion.

We are late bloomers. A Libra does not step into their power until they are much older. The older I get, the more Libra I become. At your age Kris, the girls are still ugly ducklings and akward. They aren't true to their sign ... yet.

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@thelibran
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Quote="I wanna turn the tables on his a@#.It's like he plays psychological games with me."

A liban guy hates to admit that easily that he is in love. He often stays detached but still loving far too much that whats seen outside. Its more of a time period when we do out balancing act. Wondering if he can find a better one(or is it just me), plus minus again plus minus and it goes on... During this time we play this psychological games, twisting words here and there, winding matters and then unwinding, displaying a sort of rejection just to see how different you may feel or behave.... just understand and play along.... If you like him, stay tuned... A libran guy cannot hurt you once he know how excatly you feel about him. He has to be fair and caring.