libra confession after 11 years

Sorry that was long.

What I woukd love to know is:

Do u think he is sincere with his love for me? Or he's just obsessed bec I was hard to get. & he only lust after me.

Once he's cheated on his ex (sort of) would he do it again?

I think if I give him a chance he will ask me to marry him right away. Once on my vacation he asked me to stay & said I can stay with him, he will take care of me like his wife.

What if he's only obsessed with the idea of me. After all we haven't really been togther..then when I give in..like most libra might lose appetite :p...what do u guys think abt this situation?

Thanks so much. Ill appreciate any input.

By the way im a gemini with moon in cancer and lots of air signs.

He's a libra with moon in cappy and lots of scorps.

Talk to him about it. From what you wrote it sounds to me like he was never really in love with aynone else. But the best thing to do is bring it up. "The only thing that ever concerned me about you was that you would have cheated on other girls to be with me." See what he says.

My fiance and I both cheated on our partners when we got together, and we HATE cheaters. When it came down to it our feelings for each other were so strong that it made us willing to do something with each other that we thought we would never do.

It all depends on the two people. Similar to you, we were really good friends before all of that, so we knew who the other person was before things got intimate. While the friendship provided the opportunity to represent a quality we don't like in people, without it we never would have had the ability to observe each other the way we did, and fall in love the way we did.

And the way we got together doesn't make us insecure that either of us would do it again with other people. We both saw each other as the person we wanted to spend the rest of our lives with.

Thanks so much nic. Ok I will try to open that up with him & see what happens.

& by the way.. My old libra friend..the one before this.. He stopped talking to me for almost a year now..but I still want to be friends...don't know how to break that ice again, any advice?

Thanks so much nic. Ok I will try to open that up with him & see what happens. U know even if we've known each other for a long time now, were still kind of getting to know each other (inside) I still don't even know how he really thinks, and how his mind works etc.

& by the way.. My old libra friend..the one before this.. He stopped talking to me for almost a year now..but I still want to be friends...don't know how to break that ice again, any advice?

By the way also, my other concern is after a loooong chase for him..coz I didn't give him much attention..was a bit mean to him..once he got me he will feel like its game over..not fun anymore? Lol

Do libras feel that way.. Once youlve caught what ur chasing you lose interest?

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By the way also, my other concern is after a loooong chase for him..coz I didn't give him much attention..was a bit mean to him..once he got me he will feel like its game over..not fun anymore? Lol

Do libras feel that way.. Once youlve caught what ur chasing you lose interest?

I guess it is possible, he could be in love with the fantasy of being with you. I can't really speak for him on that but if it were me....no. I don't think a Libra would hold on to something that long without genuinely wanting it to happen.

Ok, thanks nic. I always respect ur wisdom.