Libra wont let me go........

My special Libra gentleman friend hasnt seen me in over a year, however every few weeks he would sent me a txt saying he wanted to catch up and take me out to dinner then a romp in the hay, after 7 months of NOT catching up, we got in a very heated argument about this, and he told me never to contact him again. I was crushed, heart broken, then moved on, not even 2 weeks later, he contacted me on msn, and stated he wanted to give us another try, we never caught up and I didnt want this to drag on like last time, so I told him that after all this time I was filing him away in my "regretful and forgot mistake file" Needless to say I havent heard from him, Needless to say if I contacted him again, I know for a fact he would be happy to hear from me and tell me that he'd want to catch up, even though we never would. Why would he still want to see me again after all this time, and why wont he let go of me even though he doesnt ( and/or cant) want to see me?

libras really suck at burning bridges.

he's clearly a pain in the ass, though. regardless.

Posted by lovelygirl89
whats your sunsign lady k ? 🙂

I'm born on the 21st May so on the Taurus/Gemini cusp.

If he's doing this to me, I wonder how many other ex's he is doing this with? No wonder he was too busy to see me! he was flirting with another 100 women or so!

Posted by Indie_Scorp

Posted by Lady_K
If he's doing this to me, I wonder how many other ex's he is doing this with? No wonder he was too busy to see me! he was flirting with another 100 women or so!

It sounds like you miss him. Do you? I thought you were flattered despite being slightly annoyed with his behavior

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You're spot on! Its exactly how I feel.

Well Libra's aren't ones to hold grudges that often. They have the ability to get just as upset to the extreme just like everybody else, but them actually harping on things for long periods of time (when dealing the same person persay) is not something they put alot of energy into. Of course them dropping their short-term grudges may come off as wishy-washiness to another person dealing with them, BUT in a Libra's mind, they literally see this as them not necessarily having any shame to come back into another's life once their anger is gone.

Libras are known for doing everything they can to keep up communication/contact even with the people that don't necessarily mean the world to them. To others, they question why a Libra would even go out of their way to contact/communicate with someone under certain circumstances, especially the ones that they're not emotionally connected to. But to Libras, while yes they might agree/admit that keeping up the contact isn't necessarily necessary, they also don't see the big deal or problem in still keeping in touch either. That's why it's very common for Libras to keep contact with their ex's, even if they have literally NO intentions on rekindling anything. For Libras, since they don't mind doing anything that is harmless. For them, it's "just flirting" or "just talking" even if they aren't necessarily getting any personal gain/benefit from it.

And hey, if this Libra guy IS still emotionally attached to you, expect periods where he'll disappear just to randomly (and with no specific motive) reappear again. Their actions usually reflect their literal emotions; thus if they're loving life b/c you're in it, the communication b/w you 2 will be up to par & at it's finest! But when things are very rocky and/or when their emotions are literally going back & forth, it only makes sense that their contact with you will be the same...in and out with no steady pace. If you don't want any more contact with this Libra, then SHOW him better than you can tell him that you mean what you say. Every time you answer that phone or respond to him when you really don't want to, you're sending him the same mixed signal he's sending you

But I want him, so I have to pick up that phone when he calls......

My Libra just txt me Happy Easter, he'll always be there 🙂

Guess I just have to accept him flaws and all.