I'm sure all of you are familiar with my "disclaimer" from my other posts so just keep in mind that the same "disclaimer" applies to my opinion on this topic too.
Libra DO's: -Strive to keep circumstances mellow & harmonious-Libras feel the most comfortable when things are balanced. Don't ever pressure your Libra into something that involves unnecessary drama. Make sure your Libra is under the assumption that you will only "act out" when the time calls for it. Make sure you appreciate your Libra for being such a peacemaker versus always protesting to them about how they are too soft or too nice.
-Ask your Libra's opinion about things that are going on in your life-your Libra will like to have an equal say about things & can often help you make a reasonable, balanced decision. Libras need to know that their partners respect their opinions & intellect just as much as they respect yours. When a Libra is trying to open up to you or give you advice on something, just listen.
-Understand that with a Libra, life is about constantly weighing factors: cause and effect, good and bad. Librans bring balance and serenity into the lives that they touch. Libras feel that this very thing makes them special & different from all others so it's important for their partners to appreciate, accept & love this very same thing about them. If your Libra feels that they can't be themselves (emotionally) around you, they will eventually stray from you.
-Libras know that they are not the fastest when it comes to making big decison. But don't assume that when your Libra is trying to help you through a decision that they are leading you in the wrong direction or don't know what they are talking about. You'd be surprised at how your Libra will make you think in ways or think about things in ways you -never even thought of. Make sure your Libra knows that you've acknowledged this about them.
-Be willing to ?share? Librans with their other close ties. Your Libra takes his relationship with his close friends & loved ones very seriously & expects for their partners to have a good relationship & good appeal & reputation with those who they are close to. When your Libran wants you to meet his family or close friends, take it as a compliment & just go. Your Libran wouldn't expose you to those who mean the world to him if he felt that you would embarrass him or reflect him in a bad way.
-Always be definite & decisive (They do not want to be troubled with having to make your decisions for you, as they have too much difficulty in trying to make their own). Show your Libra that you know how to weigh the "scales" too. Your Libra will be turned off by a partner who jumps into things too quickly. When you tell a Libra how you feel, mean what you say. When you tell your Libra what you can offer them, be true to your word & make sure you are REALLY what you say you are "as advertised."
-When your Libran does something for you (even if unnecessary), just take the compliment, gift or gesture. If your Libra doesn't feel comfortable showing their "giving" and "thoughtful" side, they will not attach to you. Librans need to know that their partners love them even more for this very thing about them.
-When your Libran is having trouble making a decison, attempt to help them through it. But not with pressure or force or attempting to make them feel guilty for not rushing. A Libra will always be true to themselves & are only attracted to those who will let them be themselves. If your Libran can sense that you are trying to help them through a decision (not in a rushing manner, but instead in a more precise & steady manner), they will open up, let you in & allow you to do so. But "delivery" is everything.
"don't agree with that. Everytime i've said or people i know have to a libra there unique they look like they wanna kick the person in the face.(this applies to the guys not to the girls) but they are so they should embrace it."
I'm not saying OTHERS have to believe that Libras are unique for this. But Libras themselves often embrace that side of them & THEY believe it makes them more unique. How others take their "traits" is on them. What others may consider annoying or everything BUT special about their Libra, the Libra themselves may see it completely opposite.
It's no different than when a Scorp. sees their need for "control" or their high sex drives as what makes their sign drastically different & unique, others may not see it that way.
Libra DO's:
-Strive to keep circumstances mellow & harmonious-Libras feel the most comfortable when things are balanced. Don't ever pressure your Libra into something that involves unnecessary drama. Make sure your Libra is under the assumption that you will only "act out" when the time calls for it. Make sure you appreciate your Libra for being such a peacemaker versus always protesting to them about how they are too soft or too nice.
-Ask your Libra's opinion about things that are going on in your life-your Libra will like to have an equal say about things & can often help you make a reasonable, balanced decision. Libras need to know that their partners respect their opinions & intellect just as much as they respect yours. When a Libra is trying to open up to you or give you advice on something, just listen.
-Understand that with a Libra, life is about constantly weighing factors: cause and effect, good and bad. Librans bring balance and serenity into the lives that they touch. Libras feel that this very thing makes them special & different from all others so it's important for their partners to appreciate, accept & love this very same thing about them. If your Libra feels that they can't be themselves (emotionally) around you, they will eventually stray from you.