Libra-Leo help

Hi

I posted a few days ago on another thread and didn't know that there was a section here for the different signs. So, I'm posting here since I need opinions from Libras. Thank you to all the Libras that replied to the other thread.

Here goes. Libra man - Leo woman. He left me after I slipped and told him the L word. We were together for five months and in the beginning we both didn't know where we were going. During the time we were together he told me once that he loves me and that was in bed with him. I ignored it since it was only a month in. After that I could tell by his actions that he does love me. We are close as friends, crazy wonderful sex, chemestry as a couple just wonderful. We just have to be together and when we are apart we both love contacting each other. It goes both ways and we both agree that we do have something going on. He asked for a few weeks off to re evaluate how we feel about each other. Last time we talked he wasn't there, meaning he is not as deep in it as I am so he needs a break. Break I'm giving him.

Questions: Will he come back, do Libras change their minds later on or will he just keep on going without any turning back? As a leo, I'm willing and have already taken myself off the spotlight just to give him all the attention that he loves. I've pushed him away since I guess I was a bit agressive on the L word and stepping back. I know what I want and I want him and want him back. Any possibilities to get him back? This is by far, not a booty call situation since we both have talked about futures together, children and finances, etc.....

Ahhhh Libras.

In my experience, Libra men SHOW their feelings but have more trouble SAYING them aloud. Yes, the L-word can sometimes be tough for them, especially if the timing wasn't perfect for him, if he wasn't secretly wishing you'd say it to him. MY Libra isn't all wordy and mushy with the I Love You's.. he shows me everyday, with the little things he does to try to make MY life easier.

Also, Libra either play the field incessantly (esp before age 30 or so), or jump headfirst into "serious" early on (but God, not TALKING about the L-word!), and often those relationships don't turn out to be *quite* what they thought they'd be, and they cool off fast.

There is both good and bad to a Libra man, and a lot of it depends on his maturity level and where he is in his life. For example, a 27 year old Libra who is seeking love (they ALL seek love - they LOVE to be in LOVE!) and jumps into a serious relationship early on, pouring his ALL into it, maybe saying I love you, and the SEX, just pour his soul into sex ... then -- This isn't what I wanted, this isn't going like I thought it would. He was seeking something and once he got closer to his lover and knew her better, realized she was not The One. Like a switch *click* He's blowing hot and cold, waffling, undecided, weighing his options, trying to make the RIGHT decision. He disappears, she's heartbroken, and Libra gets a bad rep. Again.

Do they ever change their minds once it's made up? Sure. But not usually, no. See, they've spent a lot of time weighing their options, making a decision. A lot more time than YOU even know about, way before YOU even picked up on his internal struggle. Do they come back? Sometimes. But not usually for the right reasons. A Libra will not burn his bridges, and prefers to remain friends with ALL of his ex's. And yes, a lot of them (especially the immature, unevolved ones) WILL return to a willing ex, time and time again... for sex and companionship, something to ease the loneliness they hate so much. Which gives the Libra male a (usually well deserved) reputation as a ladies' man and a user, because he WILL use you to fill that emptiness for awhile, as long as you let him.

I don't know your Libra personally, so I can't say if the "break" is really a break like we think.. or if it's just his typically non-confrontational way to gently pull away in preparations for the final break. I don't know. But I'm afraid it's the latter and not the former, sorry to say.

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Leo's seem to impatient 4 me... Give him time..

my libra ex jumped in head first and was the first to confess his love for me (i'm a leo too). this was only after a couple of months of knowing each other. we moved in together soon after and were a monogamous couple for 7 years. we have a son together and, even though i broke it off in the end, it was a mutual decision. basically, we dived in way too soon. i was only 19 and he was 21 when we got together. we're still friends though! he does keep coming back to me for sex which is funny that u mentioned it! seriously it's because we both have this heightened fear of catching an STD so we know the other doesn't sleep around. plus we spent years getting to know each other's bodies and sexual preferences.

believe me, i KNOW what it's like to deal with their insane indecisiveness but i think it's a clear sign that he's pulling away from u. my libra was much more straight forward about everything. in the beginning, when we were just FWB, i expressed that i wanted to be exclusive. he told me directly that he wasn't ready for a gf so i didn't push it. then a month later he told me he loved me and that was that. he was all about brutal honesty. it's hard to tell what he's thinking. he may come back just like mine did. then again, mine never left in the 1st place. we still continued to hang out constantly. as far as i'm concerned, he's not really into u. most guys, of any sign, if they really like u they'll wanna spend as much time as possible with u. even the most independent of signs. even if they have super busy lives. they'll find a way. ask any guy.