Libra and Leo

This topic was created in the Leo forum by tiki33 on Wednesday, February 14, 2007 and has 15 replies.

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I found this on another site!

Thu, April 13, 2006 - 12:51 PM
I'm married to a Leo, and he's my best friend, my King, and I'm his Queen. We've been married for 6 months, but known each other for 10 years.

He's 100% Leo, me, 100% Libra. It totally rocks.

What happened in his previous relationships were that the women tried to cage him. They would say things like, "you have a great laugh, but does it have to be SO loud?" or "Your hair is beautiful, but do you have to spend THAT much time on your hair?". All the wonderful things about him they loved, but they didn't want him to do it TOO much. I've been in the same type of relationships. Leos can't be caged in any way, they need to be in a natural habitat. I just decorate the habitat.

Anyone harboring any type of jealousy or insecurity cannot keep a Leo for long. My man is beautiful and women (even some men) stare and try to flirt - whether we're together or not. I smirk because he's mine, and I know he's not going anywhere. He's no reason to go anywhere. Same goes for me. Men (and some women) try to flirt with me and he just smirks. He knows I'm his. It's not a "property" thing, it's a loyalty-heart-respect thing.

Leos like their bedrooms/lairs the way they want them (down to the sheets). He says he doesn't mind whatever I do, but I still know to ask. I don't mind at all. He steps out of the way when I decorate the rest of the house.

Leos need to strut. I decorate the stage for him to strut more. I need to shine. He provides the sun under which I shine. We enhance each other.

They marry strong women that can hold their own without needing to boss them around. They like most women, but they can immediately sense if a woman is going to be an important part of their lives or just a chew toy.

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Leos won't tell someone they're in a relationship with what to do. They'll either do it (to show how it's done) or help him/her figure it out. One thing my hubby got frustrated with was women claiming he either didn't care about them or he was too overbearing. Some people equate love with doing everything for the other person. It's an ego boost to them to be needed, but they enjoy the person more who just wants them around .

Libra/Leo can and does last, if insecurity & jealousy isn't in the picture. Whatever respect you have for yourself is the respect they'll show you. I have an overabundace of respect for myself and that's what he gets. He has tons of respect for himself and that's what he gives me. I know 3 other Libra/Leo couples personally, and they operate much the same way we do.

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I found this on another site and thought you guys might enjoy it.

Thu, April 13, 2006 - 12:51 PM
I'm married to a Leo, and he's my best friend, my King, and I'm his Queen. We've been married for 6 months, but known each other for 10 years.

He's 100% Leo, me, 100% Libra. It totally rocks.

What happened in his previous relationships were that the women tried to cage him. They would say things like, "you have a great laugh, but does it have to be SO loud?" or "Your hair is beautiful, but do you have to spend THAT much time on your hair?". All the wonderful things about him they loved, but they didn't want him to do it TOO much. I've been in the same type of relationships. Leos can't be caged in any way, they need to be in a natural habitat. I just decorate the habitat.

Anyone harboring any type of jealousy or insecurity cannot keep a Leo for long. My man is beautiful and women (even some men) stare and try to flirt - whether we're together or not. I smirk because he's mine, and I know he's not going anywhere. He's no reason to go anywhere. Same goes for me. Men (and some women) try to flirt with me and he just smirks. He knows I'm his. It's not a "property" thing, it's a loyalty-heart-respect thing.

Leos like their bedrooms/lairs the way they want them (down to the sheets). He says he doesn't mind whatever I do, but I still know to ask. I don't mind at all. He steps out of the way when I decorate the rest of the house.

Leos need to strut. I decorate the stage for him to strut more. I need to shine. He provides the sun under which I shine. We enhance each other.

They marry strong women that can hold their own without needing to boss them around. They like most women, but they can immediately sense if a woman is going to be an important part of their lives or just a chew toy.

Leos won't tell someone they're in a relationship with what to do. They'll either do it (to show how it's done) or help him/her figure it out. One thing my hubby got frustrated with was women claiming he either didn't care about them or he was too overbearing. Some people equate love with doing everything for the other person. It's an ego boost to them to be needed, but they enjoy the person more who just wants them around .

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Libra/Leo can and does last, if insecurity & jealousy isn't in the picture. Whatever respect you have for yourself is the respect they'll show you. I have an overabundace of respect for myself and that's what he gets. He has tons of

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Chatz gave up the ghost.

There are so many broken Libra/Leo matches at the moment. Sigh! These things aren't just about compatibility. It also comes down to luck and timing, which you can't do ANYTHING about. The compatibility just makes it vibrate in your mind longer. sucks!

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Hey Kris I would love it if I still had hope with mine LOL

I've just decided to not contact him - I know he'll make the move when he finally remembers me again, but what to say to him?? sheesh....I need to walk away for good or I'll be in this trap endlessly!!!

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I haven't quite given up as such...just protecting myself from any hurt coming my way...Im trying to delude myself into thinking I am in control now as I've bottled up my emotions for now but am still pursuing (I aint letting this one go so easily coz I know there's something amazing there - he just doesnt realise it yet or won't admit it hehehe)....see? I am deluding myself but its my fantasy ok?? LOL

He's now initiating all the times we get together and I allow him to do so as long as the in between times aren't too long and I think he has come to realise that I can also make myself invisible for a week now.....did this last week and he's a bit stunned and certainly made it known that I wasn't around for a week and that I hadn't answered one of his texts...he seemed a little worried - don't know if Im doing the right thing but he's got to realise that I won't be around forever if he doesnt pull his finger out so to speak 🙂

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So this whole thing with Leos being frustrated with Libras not wanting to have serious discussions in order to resolve things, except when the Libra decides they want to. How does the Leo deal with that? Do they just resolve it for themselves somehow, or do they have to decide if it's worth waiting for the Libra to decide they want to discuss it?

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Personally Im quite happy to wait and have learnt from past experiences and relationships that its just not worth pushing for something....some things just have to come naturally and if that means I have to wait— so be it 🙂

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Banini

I think in your case, she cannot give you the approval you want. I think if you did confront her you would only make things worse honey.

This is not something you can solve. You just need to let it go. At this point, you run the risk of harrassing her.

The only thing that will fix it is forgetting about it. Maybe in a year or two you will run into each other and you can make a fresh start.

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I must admit it makes me feel better knowing all these Leos are hung up on Libras. I would like to think the latest Leo still thinks about me fondly sometimes. 🙂

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LS...Im sure he would...how could he not?? Its quite bizarre though isn't it— Im a Leo chasing a Libra who just won't commit yet continues to pursue when he feels like it.......and you're a Libra who wanted the Leo who wouldn't commit.....what the— LOL

Hmmmmm strange world *sigh*