So once your relationship is established, which do you prefer? Or a nice mixture of both? In my relationship, we both tend to like it both ways, even in the midst of it.
Libra men, sex, dominance vs. submissiveness..

Men should ALWAYS dominate, hehehe 😉
Otherwise a mixture is nice. I dont know, i haven't had a "proper" bf for about 2 years now. Every time i start something i have to leave it..i cant trust anyone, its so sad. And now im so used to having my own life i find it hard to accommodate another person and their ways..i really need to stop being in denial and try and find something meaningful, as opposed to fun and frolicks 😢 so that i can find out what i like again within a close relationship..im scared.
Otherwise a mixture is nice. I dont know, i haven't had a "proper" bf for about 2 years now. Every time i start something i have to leave it..i cant trust anyone, its so sad. And now im so used to having my own life i find it hard to accommodate another person and their ways..i really need to stop being in denial and try and find something meaningful, as opposed to fun and frolicks 😢 so that i can find out what i like again within a close relationship..im scared.
Sola, sounds like you have your news years resolution already picked out!Though I wouldn't wait that long, instead of trying to "accomodate someone", why not find someone who you naturally mesh with. Figure out what you like in a person, analyze what has worked for you and what hasn't worked for you in past relationships and go from there.

No, i like loads of men 🙂 and we go out and stuff, and then i find out they already have gf or a WIFE..yeah, its happened on more than a few occasions..and in the last year alone. Honestly, i know that makes me sound dumb, but its because i lack interest from the start..my take it or leave attitude doesnt help!! Its how i learned to be and i guess its hard to change habits of a lifetime. I used to worry about it, but im sure the "right one" will come along at the right time?!! Right now isnt convenient..im living between 2 countries and find it hard to think of myself, never mind anyone else!

The libra man I knew didnt mind being dominated...🙂🙂
Sola, I don't have a gf OR wife! We'd have a GREAT time together!

Ok Atom..that sounds like a plan 🙂
(Big grin. Fanning self.)

Hhehehe..c?mon dont be shy!!
I am a libra girl and I have hooked up with a Libra guy before...and it was mmm..mmm..good...I love to be dominated, but I will definitely take the time to show a guy what's up too...I am very generous, but this Libra guy I was with was the first man to ever show me how amazing it is to truly be dominated, controlled...whatever you want to call it...I think Libras, Men and Women are equally the sexiest sign in the zodiac...truly.

Bias... LOL! Libra men, Scorp girls, sexiest. LOL!!!!
I like to be dominant but in a more subliminal way. I have a soft touch, it would seam that my style has a lot of tease to it. I tease to the point that she becomes forceful and prefer a dominant position I guess if it were to be classified. From there I dominate by pleasuring her more than she though possible. It is a reciprocating kind of dominance, because it coaxes and inspires mutual COMPLETE satisfaction.
It is domination in the perspective that she is not only letting but wanting me to pleasure her completely.
It is domination in the perspective that she is not only letting but wanting me to pleasure her completely.
Also, I am with the first person that has ever been able to do the above described to me. I used to be simply dominant, with her however I enjoy letting go and letting her completely please and satisfy me.
I also have to agree with the equal over the top sexuality between two Libras.
I also have to agree with the equal over the top sexuality between two Libras.
My Slavic amor prefers me on top.😉
My man and I are still being polite with eachother. Uhh.. he preferred being on top until he met me. hehe. Wish he were more dominant though, we both tease so getting to the point can take a while, but we both relish in it. That probably comes with being polite too. Sheesh.

When I look back on my libra relationships/envolvements. Most all positions were pleasurable. ALL 😉

hmmmmm all i can say is it was mmm mmm goood....
the times he could get it up...
ahhhh! does anyone know if sexual problems are common in libra men??
the times he could get it up...
ahhhh! does anyone know if sexual problems are common in libra men??

OMG No Never!!!
Scorp men, yeah....
Scorp men, yeah....

xoxo, how old is your libra?

He's 22

Hmmmm... Never heard of a Libra who can't keep it up. Never been involved with one who couldn't either. Nevvveeeerrrr.
pre-mature ejaculation. not that that's a problem.
"the times he could get it up..."
This is typically psychological from what I have heard. Being a Libra myself the only thing I could think of that would cause this is someone who is to forceful and rough. We like to lead and to lead with a more sentual form of passion. I really don't know though, I have alwase been on the opposite side of that issue, really easily aroused.
"pre-mature ejaculation. not that that's a problem."
Several sex astrology articles I have read associated this with Libra. I could imagine it being possible because of our active imaginations combined with being really sensitive down there. Since my current partner, I have not had a "problem" that I had from I was first sexually active until her, which is taking too long. I used to have sex for hours before getting off and it was kind of a pain, everyone loves a long roll in the sheets but everytime gets a bit prohibitive. Since I have been with her I have discovered orgasaming at someone elses will (she can just make me do it) and I have been able to do this with all of my previous partners but no one could do it to me, orgasming at the same time, and orgasaming in under an hour.
This is typically psychological from what I have heard. Being a Libra myself the only thing I could think of that would cause this is someone who is to forceful and rough. We like to lead and to lead with a more sentual form of passion. I really don't know though, I have alwase been on the opposite side of that issue, really easily aroused.
"pre-mature ejaculation. not that that's a problem."
Several sex astrology articles I have read associated this with Libra. I could imagine it being possible because of our active imaginations combined with being really sensitive down there. Since my current partner, I have not had a "problem" that I had from I was first sexually active until her, which is taking too long. I used to have sex for hours before getting off and it was kind of a pain, everyone loves a long roll in the sheets but everytime gets a bit prohibitive. Since I have been with her I have discovered orgasaming at someone elses will (she can just make me do it) and I have been able to do this with all of my previous partners but no one could do it to me, orgasming at the same time, and orgasaming in under an hour.
"orgasming at the same time" that's a good one. hahah! The libra i'm seeing and I are often on similar brainwaves. It's kind of strange, but oddly comforting. Anyhow, going off topic now!

hmmm well i can be a bit aggressive but nothing extreme. He mentioned that he is "all messed up in the head" and said it has nothing to do with me....although its hard to not take it personal.....I usually give the opposite problem to the man im dating....if you know what i mean 😉 Basically I think it all comes down to this: he is just not emotionally available and is obviously going through some stuff....maybe he is still in love with the EX? i donno, but its just funny. The few times our relationship was soley "Sex based" he didnt have this problem. Once emotions got involved, different story.

xoxo, what is your sign again?

i am very much a libra(see my profile)
anyhoo
i enjoy making women hysterical during sex
i find it funny that my fingers are in prison
and it is also fitting that i attract mostly Taurus women
followed by Pisces and Scorpio
Taurus and Scorpio i enjoy the most, for they are feminine, yet not too passive
and powerful enough for me to even want to guide their passions
however, i have yet to find a female that would guide me
which i want, just not all the time
perhaps in a slightly biased 50/50 would be best
oh well
any women out there who like to dominate but secretly want to be ruled.....lol
because this is my exact sentiment
anyhoo
i enjoy making women hysterical during sex
i find it funny that my fingers are in prison
and it is also fitting that i attract mostly Taurus women
followed by Pisces and Scorpio
Taurus and Scorpio i enjoy the most, for they are feminine, yet not too passive
and powerful enough for me to even want to guide their passions
however, i have yet to find a female that would guide me
which i want, just not all the time
perhaps in a slightly biased 50/50 would be best
oh well
any women out there who like to dominate but secretly want to be ruled.....lol
because this is my exact sentiment
sorry dude, I got her and I am not letting her go. 😛

I don't need to have physical sex with him to know sex with him.. in other words, the sexual aura and penetrating mentality is like having mind-blowing astral sex. What can I say? He is far away, but never fails to seduce in subtle nuances.
Oooooooh 😛
There goes that famous libran living in their head thing again LOL
There goes that famous libran living in their head thing again LOL

Lol Chatz.. I think sex for librans are more than 70% mental.. Me and my guy aren't really physical - we like our space; the mental realm is where we meet.
It fascinates me....I mean we all have a fantasy world we go into but I know what you're talking about....the Librans I know are very much like this....fascinating!!

It can be quite frustrating too - I think you should know that. 😉
LOL...Ummmmm yup

"xoxo, what is your sign again?"
I am an aquarius.
I am an aquarius.
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