libra/scorpio man: he's bluffing or sincere?

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not sure if I should post this here or - aargh - on the scorpio board.guy his libra/scoprio usp, scorpio rising, scorpio mercury. ) but, story made short: I met this libra man on facebook (friends of friends), he works same place but at night shifts (tv network), I had seen him once or twice but never talked or been introduced to each other. I even didnt' like him particularly, just thought "funny guy, a little short, a poetic look". He's into poetry in spare time as I am into ballet. so one night I happened to meet a post of his with a line from my absolute, pluriennal, from university and from old love stories poem, a cummings one. I wrote him two lines, just saying " I am amazed, boy, someone in this fucking place knows cummings, my complimets, I had to telle you". Long, long answer, very flirting and we strted emailing each other for kind of two or three mail a day fro two weeks. I didnt' ask him to meet me. In the leter he first talked about his "past girlfriends", then from my anser he got I knew he had an actual one, (very ugly, friend of mine and his told me "he he just see you he's lost!!".), so he slowly confessed thsi: has this long itme grilfriends , things going bad (translate boring form his words9, and had a crush on onather. both women dont' live in in the city, the first in another city, the second (she doesnt' want him, he says), in another country. I le him know I'm not really interested in this, I make clear I like him but I am tto still in love with A ghost (my ex scorpio torture machine. this is not precisley true, but since he semmed so "overcrowded2, though in stomach I didnt' and dont'"feel2 this guy to be in love with anybody), I told him I was not thinking of this man only when I daned and whne I made love with somebody else. all the rest of the time I was at risk). he withdrew a little and pushed me to "talk2 about this, but I cut it off. then one day we met in person, because they changed a shift for him at day, and we were all flriting, and getting both emotional, nervous, and strange. after this I withdrew, I dont' know why, and since then I was kind of backing off, he wrote, and call, and I was like" look, you dont' like me, according to me or you woulad
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you would have already invited me out2. but I wasn't being hones, I was just, I dont' know.. scared. he was always nice and tryng to keep in touch continuously, and I know he reads what I write on facebbok, and sometimes some stuff on the scoprio man like something lost and of which I am stil thinking comes out. we went back and forth till three days ago, me backing off saying you dont' like me, (it'snot what I think, it's evident he likes me) he trying to keep me there, kind of stand by stuff. two days ago it was areally sad "anniversary" to me, so, taking for granted this guy wanted just to jkeep in a stand by position, I wrote something ina converstaion with my girlfriend about the fact that a I still was thinking about the scorpio man, an dthat "past is hard to let go". today the libra guycaled ma. like two hours ago. he told he is "in love" with the second girl, (he HAD nver USED THIS WORD. H eu used avery blas? kind of words), na dos I asked "so why are you calling me?". he said "I dont' want to loose you as a person". I told him I am a phiscal person, I like him and I will not weant be a friend. stil he didnt' let me go, he ate back his words saying 2but anyway thi is nothing, this person doesnt' want him, I just need a little time to put things togheter, can I call you in the futre?". I told him you can cal me but this is like throwing water on fire, so what can I tell you? try, and by. and he still kept me on the phone, till I ended it up saying ok, but I know how thes ethings work, it's born bad and it 's dying bad.

so now: my inpression is (but I meay be wron, that he's not in love with this girl. that I was too open on the sexual thing, (he told me he's very shy and insecure from his schol days), and that he's keeping me at bay because he doesnt' want to be morphine for my mind and the pain I still felt for the scorpi man.) used, unfortunately, this term in a letter). why call me, and keep me there without even touching me, when the two women ar not even in town? I acept whatever opinion.
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ladymacbeth
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thank you N.node. so do you think he likes me and he's lying about being in love with this second girl? I think he gets the impressione that my lost love was dramatic and real, while he's kind of ... dont' know, the libra thing, like scattred around wiht more than one but loving nobody. but I told him 2ok, so this changes evrything. love is a big owrd, good luck2.
dont' know what happnes.
i like the guy though.
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sits beside amethyst on the wth did she say bench? EE Cummings got it wrong. This is the REAL wonder that keeps the stars apart. HA HA HA! I am so clever.

I am going out on a limb here and despite not understanding 1/2 of what you said, I am going to tell you a simple truth that will make life a lot easier for you. Listen to what a man tells you. If he says he is in love with someone else, he is in love with someone else. If he was interested in you in anyway, he wouldn't have said those words about someone ELSE, he would be saying that about YOU.