Libra Sun Scorp moon/Venus:affection yet distant

So I recently started dating this libra sun Scorpio moon/Venus man. We had a couple of amazing dates where he shared a lot of personal info and we talked for hours. I felt we were getting close, we keep in touch via text here and there to see how our days are. Second date came 2 days after the first and we fooled around but no sex. He is just extremely passionate and very much into kissing and cuddling and eye gazing. After this kind of emotional/affectionate date he went on vacation and it was almost a week since I saw him. I spent some time at his house when he got back but we really didn't talk much. He was cleaning and getting chores done and when he finished we kinda got straight to business and ended up sleeping together. It was really sensual and almost like "love making" which I never do. We cuddled all night until I left in the morning.
So my question about this is, all the body language says he's really into me, but lately he hasn't been talking much. Not in person on this last date or in text so I'm kinda confused. Do these guys just get affectionate with everyone or is he feeling it but just not expressing his emotions? He exposed so many personal details about himself on the first date but now he seems like he's putting his thoughts in check...

I'll just be blunt....if all he wanted was sex, well, he got what he wanted.

...are you new to life? :/

Posted by Mandapants
So I recently started dating this libra sun Scorpio moon/Venus man. We had a couple of amazing dates where he shared a lot of personal info and we talked for hours. I felt we were getting close, we keep in touch via text here and there to see how our days are. Second date came 2 days after the first and we fooled around but no sex. He is just extremely passionate and very much into kissing and cuddling and eye gazing. After this kind of emotional/affectionate date he went on vacation and it was almost a week since I saw him. I spent some time at his house when he got back but we really didn't talk much. He was cleaning and getting chores done and when he finished we kinda got straight to business and ended up sleeping together. It was really sensual and almost like "love making" which I never do. We cuddled all night until I left in the morning.
So my question about this is, all the body language says he's really into me, but lately he hasn't been talking much. Not in person on this last date or in text so I'm kinda confused. Do these guys just get affectionate with everyone or is he feeling it but just not expressing his emotions? He exposed so many personal details about himself on the first date but now he seems like he's putting his thoughts in check...

aww 🙂 this is how me and my ex started out! Just know that you shouldn't push or pressure him. You both like your space and freedom and the more you give him the more he'll come running back to you. Libras are very flightly people, it sounds like he REALLY is into but it's easy to think otherwise when they get distant.

Yeah sometimes they really don't express emotions but it doesn't mean they don't feel them. It's the same with us sag 🙂give it time to blossom and flourish

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...are you new to life? :/

What a nice way to talk to a woman asking for help!

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As opposed to beating a woman?

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
...are you new to life? :/

What a nice way to talk to a woman asking for help!

As opposed to beating a woman?

You're so stupid, I can't even argue with you, it's giving you way too much credit.

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Muah!

Posted by Mandapants
So I recently started dating this libra sun Scorpio moon/Venus man. We had a couple of amazing dates where he shared a lot of personal info and we talked for hours. I felt we were getting close, we keep in touch via text here and there to see how our days are. Second date came 2 days after the first and we fooled around but no sex. He is just extremely passionate and very much into kissing and cuddling and eye gazing. After this kind of emotional/affectionate date he went on vacation and it was almost a week since I saw him. I spent some time at his house when he got back but we really didn't talk much. He was cleaning and getting chores done and when he finished we kinda got straight to business and ended up sleeping together. It was really sensual and almost like "love making" which I never do. We cuddled all night until I left in the morning.
So my question about this is, all the body language says he's really into me, but lately he hasn't been talking much. Not in person on this last date or in text so I'm kinda confused. Do these guys just get affectionate with everyone or is he feeling it but just not expressing his emotions? He exposed so many personal details about himself on the first date but now he seems like he's putting his thoughts in check...

Sounds like all he wanted was sex. Libra's can be unsure of what they want though. Give him a little time.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
...are you new to life? :/

What a nice way to talk to a woman asking for help!

As opposed to beating a woman?

You're so stupid, I can't even argue with you, it's giving you way too much credit.

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Oh and I agree, you can't argue with me. You don't have the mental fortitude. Just google the word fortitude, you'll be fine.

Ok thanks for the feedback. He's still texting me and asking how I am so I'm just going with the flow.

And no I'm not new to life and I'm also not new to a fuck buddy scenario. I used to sleep with a libra that wouldn't even kiss me cuz we kept it sex only. That's why I asked about this guy cuz he's all feelings and I'm not used to that, hence me wanting some opinions....

How long have you guys known each other before you guys started dating?

I met him on a dating site. We've been talking for a couple of weeks

Posted by Mandapants
Ok thanks for the feedback. He's still texting me and asking how I am so I'm just going with the flow.

And no I'm not new to life and I'm also not new to a fuck buddy scenario. I used to sleep with a libra that wouldn't even kiss me cuz we kept it sex only. That's why I asked about this guy cuz he's all feelings and I'm not used to that, hence me wanting some opinions....

Well that appears to be the case.

But Scorp placements are weird as fuck. Going with the flow is all you can do, as long as you keep yourself emotionally distant. If a guy is gonna act a fool after sex, he isn't allowed to have any of your emotions until he quits acting like a weirdo/proves he isn't about sex only.

Given the situation, you should consider no more sex until you have a better grasp where he's coming from.

Thanks rockyroad, that's much nicer feedback 😉
He's texting me today (the sex was last night) asking me how work is and still being nice so I think what I'll do is make sure the next time we hang out it's a date and not me going to his house. If he's not ok with that then I'll definitely have a better grasp on his intentions.
But I don't blow up his phone or bother him with questions so I think I'm doing good on the space front. Cuz like sagg101 mentioned we do like our space too. I'm happy he's not always hounding me, I just wanna know how he feels

Posted by Mandapants
Thanks rockyroad, that's much nicer feedback 😉
He's texting me today (the sex was last night) asking me how work is and still being nice so I think what I'll do is make sure the next time we hang out it's a date and not me going to his house. If he's not ok with that then I'll definitely have a better grasp on his intentions.
But I don't blow up his phone or bother him with questions so I think I'm doing good on the space front. Cuz like sagg101 mentioned we do like our space too. I'm happy he's not always hounding me, I just wanna know how he feels

Oh, if he's asking you how you are the next day and is interesting in hearing about your well being, I'd say he's into you. Going out on a date is also a very good plan. Remember that just because he's Scorpio, doesn't mean he's not equally as scared/nervous about what you think of him. You seem like you're doing everything right.

Okay we've had a different experience with leeb sun, scorp moon. He observed me for 8 months first before he even opened up to me about his intentions. There are times he'd be quieter and brooding, that's normal and nothing to worry about, just cuddle.

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Okay we've had a different experience with leeb sun, scorp moon. He observed me for 8 months first before he even opened up to me about his intentions. There are times he'd be quieter and brooding, that's normal and nothing to worry about, just cuddle.

Did you find that the quiet and brooding times had nothing to do with you? I don't wanna be one of those women who asks if something is wrong all the time. I get lost in my thoughts too so I wanna give him that space. But I also know some people want you to ask what's up. So I'm not sure how to go about that. Right now I'm just not addressing it.

Ahh well, I ask first and if he says nothing, I don't keep asking more about it and just tell him I'll be here when he's ready to talk. Then I just leave him alone and cook something he'd like to eat. He talks when he's ready. Sometimes, it's about me, sometimes it's about something else. He plays the guitar so I can tell his moods by that.

Leebs are simple, they'll talk when they're ready. If you keep pushing then it'd get nasty. Just give them time to sort their issues. The cold shoulder isn't meant to be a passive aggressive thing like what most people say. We do that when we need to pick apart and analyze the issue in our head. Usually it's questioning if what we're feeling is fair, if it's right to feel that way, why we feel that way and if there's a solution to it or compromise.

Posted by Mandapants
Thanks rockyroad, that's much nicer feedback 😉
He's texting me today (the sex was last night) asking me how work is and still being nice so I think what I'll do is make sure the next time we hang out it's a date and not me going to his house. If he's not ok with that then I'll definitely have a better grasp on his intentions.
But I don't blow up his phone or bother him with questions so I think I'm doing good on the space front. Cuz like sagg101 mentioned we do like our space too. I'm happy he's not always hounding me, I just wanna know how he feels

Random- are you from Canada or California?

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Posted by Mandapants
Thanks rockyroad, that's much nicer feedback 😉
He's texting me today (the sex was last night) asking me how work is and still being nice so I think what I'll do is make sure the next time we hang out it's a date and not me going to his house. If he's not ok with that then I'll definitely have a better grasp on his intentions.
But I don't blow up his phone or bother him with questions so I think I'm doing good on the space front. Cuz like sagg101 mentioned we do like our space too. I'm happy he's not always hounding me, I just wanna know how he feels

Random- are you from Canada or California?

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Southern California

Hey, me too.

I saw the blurb under your icon and wondered.

...that and the guy you described sounded a lot like one I used to date. Doubt it's the same person, but the scenario was all too familiar, haha.

He's not from Cypress, is he?

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Hey, me too.

I saw the blurb under your icon and wondered.

...that and the guy you described sounded a lot like one I used to date. Doubt it's the same person, but the scenario was all too familiar, haha.

He's not from Cypress, is he?

No! so i think we're good lol but if you have some more insight on your experience with one that would help. So far he's been distant the past couple of days. Not responding to texts when he used to text me every morning....wondering if the come and go is something I should get used to

Posted by Mandapants
So I recently started dating this libra sun Scorpio moon/Venus man. We had a couple of amazing dates where he shared a lot of personal info and we talked for hours. I felt we were getting close, we keep in touch via text here and there to see how our days are. Second date came 2 days after the first and we fooled around but no sex. He is just extremely passionate and very much into kissing and cuddling and eye gazing. After this kind of emotional/affectionate date he went on vacation and it was almost a week since I saw him. I spent some time at his house when he got back but we really didn't talk much. He was cleaning and getting chores done and when he finished we kinda got straight to business and ended up sleeping together. It was really sensual and almost like "love making" which I never do. We cuddled all night until I left in the morning.
So my question about this is, all the body language says he's really into me, but lately he hasn't been talking much. Not in person on this last date or in text so I'm kinda confused. Do these guys just get affectionate with everyone or is he feeling it but just not expressing his emotions? He exposed so many personal details about himself on the first date but now he seems like he's putting his thoughts in check...

Sooooo basically with everyone else you just fuq or have sex—...Anyway, the sensual lovemaking scene should have been a clue that he really liked you. If he's going distant again, that means he's thinking REAL hard about where he now wants to go with the relationship. Just keep doing you. Either he will come around or not. I'm a Libra sun and Scorpio rising, but Virgo moon, so his emotions are all over the place.

Posted by Mandapants


No! so i think we're good lol but if you have some more insight on your experience with one that would help. So far he's been distant the past couple of days. Not responding to texts when he used to text me every morning....wondering if the come and go is something I should get used to

Haha, sorry, had to ask. Socal can be smaller than you realize sometimes, you know?

Generally speaking, this could just be a guy thing where he got the goods and now is going hot/cold on you. I've had this happen with guys of other signs as well. They weren't quite cold turkey after, like you'd assume it would be, but their behavior change was definitely noticeable and I learned later that it was indeed sex they were after.

I mean, the fact that you met on a dating site (aka hook up central) and then hooked up relatively quickly, it's not a possible outcome to shrug off. You Sag chicks love to put out too fast and it ends up biting you in the ass sometimes due to the guy being a jerk about it.

However, in Libra terms, this also could be the whole "OMG AM I REALLY INTO HER" bs where they second guess whether they like a girl and go hot/cold. Neither are promising because if he doesn't make up his mind, then you're gonna get dragged along the entire way while he figures his shit out.

In the meantime, just do you and let him reach out to you. If he doesn't, well eff that shit. It sucks, but at least you found out now before he strung you along. And if/when you do hear from him, you can figure out your next move from there, based on what he does/says.

Posted by Mandapants
So I recently started dating this libra sun Scorpio moon/Venus man. We had a couple of amazing dates where he shared a lot of personal info and we talked for hours. I felt we were getting close, we keep in touch via text here and there to see how our days are.

Libra influence.

Second date came 2 days after the first and we fooled around but no sex. He is just extremely passionate and very much into kissing and cuddling and eye gazing.

Scorp influence.

It was really sensual and almost like "love making" which I never do. We cuddled all night until I left in the morning.

Scorp influence.


Throw in the Libra charm in all 3 because that's what got them panties to fly off, haha.

Do these guys just get affectionate with everyone or is he feeling it but just not expressing his emotions? He exposed so many personal details about himself on the first date but now he seems like he's putting his thoughts in check...

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Libra influence, and the Scorp bit getting all stupid and secretive. That placement makes people weird. Scorp is controlling and all secretive and private and it just makes you think they're hiding things, thus wtfery and you being confused.