Libra vs Aqua: Ladies who would you chose??

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Ooooh.. does the Libra have a girlfriend then? I guess I missed that LOL

... But I figure only an Imaginary Aries Boyfriend would be soooo friggin' cool and amused by her wild antics with not one but two other guys. A Real Aries Boyfriend would be kicking her ass to the curb, not laughing with her about the guys she plays mind-fuck games with and telling her that us "bitchy" women are "jealous" of her and her relationship.
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If she'd have said Pisces or Cancer.. as much as I'd hate to admit it.. I'd have to concede that (for Pisces at least) it wouldn't be impossible to imagine that he's just soooo in love with her that he's limping along, putting up with her behavior and convincing himself if he could just figure out how to give her what she seems to be lacking, it would be sunshine and rainbows forever and ever. You know, that it must be HIM, not HER.

Or a fellow Scorpio if they have a bunch of kidlets -- though he'd be whoring around too, and making no secret of his revenge best served cold.

The only way an ARIES is gonna keep dealing with this shit is if he's comatose, or quadriplegic and depends on her to change his nappies.
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Oh oh oh.. I just thought of something... maybe Aries is a 1st Decan, almost a Pisces, or with a crapton of Pisces placements (Moon, Mars, Mercury, and/or Venus). Or maybe he's an addict and she helps provide for his "recreational pleasure" and/or he can't make it on his own financially (yet) and still maintain those things. If so, he just needs time to line up someone new, someone that can provide that security.

Orrrrrrrr.. how about this... her Aries boyfriend cheated on her before, probably at the beginning.. and she gave him her Scorp brand of "forgiveness".. which is to pretend forgiveness while plotting revenge. She'd wait until he was deeply in love with her, only occasionally reminding him that he CHEATED on her, and she FORGAVE him, triggering his guilt. And now she has her chance... she's just flirting with the Libra.. then the Aqua.. (though we ALL know it's an emotional affair and/or simply Scorp obsession for wanting most what you can't have!) .. now, Aries boyfriend doesn't know EVERYTHING she does.. certainly not the 1,493 posts about Libra (and now his Aqua brother who got pulled into this clusterfuck).. he only knows what she TELLS him.. and her Scorp Revenge? "Well, honey.. I'm just FLIRTING with other guys, I've been totally 100% physically faithful.. UNLIKE YOU!" Oooh, ouch, hiss. His guilt is triggered again, and so he shuts up about what she's doing... cuz he's done worse, remember? At least, that's what he thinks. Actually, this scenario still works if the Aries boyfriend once was heavily flirting and emotionally (but not physically) involved with some other chick... the Scorp will still get her revenge, still claim she forgave him his mistake, while throwing her antics in his face to "show him how it FEELS".

*chortles* It's like a Spanish soap opera.. where's my popcorn? Oh wait, I don't like popcorn. Flamin' Hot Cheetos then 😉
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I'm not looking out for your Aries man.. IF he exists, HE'S the one putting up with your antics. *shrug* Big boy can take care of himself, I'm sure.

Truthfully, Femme... it's no wonder people on DXP are starting to believe you've totally made up the Aries boyfriend - or that you used to date one and now base your "current relationship" on pretending you two never broke up and are still together. Seriously, some of the things you do are just waaaayyy too out there to be believed. I've pretty much NEVER known a man willing to tolerate most of this - well, expect possibly in the aforementioned cases. It's baffling me, honestly. Human nature is such a fascinating subject, the way some people self-sabotage and jeopardize loving relationships for the fleeting thrill of chasing something new, something we can't have.

If your Aries man is so wonderful, maybe you should leave the other men alone and concentrate on the Aries you hardly ever mention unless someone else throws him in your face? Doesn't he deserve better from you? You're like the "ex-gf" most women's current man has in their past, the one that messed them up and made them unable to do a real relationship. At any rate, I do so hope you stop mind-fucking him before it's too late. It would be very sad indeed if he's completely fucked up for the next girl, and he makes her pay for your sins.