Aqua female dating Libra male...

This topic was created in the Libra forum by starchild on Monday, June 2, 2008 and has 15 replies.

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@starchild
18 Years

Hello to all!!

I've never dated a Libra before and I just wanted to know what to expect when getting to know (what seems to be) such a wonderful person. He and I had a very long (3hours) conversation last night...he told me alot about his past which was pretty strange to me (Im ususally the one doing the most talking)...

What should I expect outta this male?

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@starchild
18 Years

I've skimmed through them...I dont feel like reading them...they dont seem to have the information that Im seeking. There are too personal...I was asking about in GENERAL...but 'preciate your post!

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@moonmadness
18 Years

lmao...such an Aqua thing to not want the long in-depth informational essay- gimme the cliff notes baby!!

I was just going to say something on a general post in regard to some of the draining info on some of these posts

I just want the facts, the yeah's or nay's

I am so into a Lib. but he hasnt called in weeks and I get the feeling something was said from the group (mostly his friends and his sister) or I did something stupid and didnt catch myself in time.

oh Star...just ride the wave - dont read the end of the book until you've at least read the first chapter.

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@starchild
18 Years

Moonmadness...Im with you, I really dont care how Jane broke it off with Jack and all the juicy details...I dont care too much for soap operas, so there it is.

I just wanted to see if he was anything like his sun sign thats all. Just wanted to know what to expect from this man, but in a round-a-bout way.

And hey Moonmadness, maybe your guy will call you and you could dissapear for a few weeks! Just a thought...

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@moonmadness
18 Years

Thanks Star...I kinda planned on that- I mean hiding in the Backstreets for awhile.

I can only do that to the ones that I see no potential and I usually can see that a mile a way.

Its when the shoe is on the other foot that I dont see to well- my rose colored glasses get the best of me.

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@libran
18 Years

starchild...

i would suggest instead of reading other posts, let that man speak, just make sure u r listening properly... see if he fluctuates and shifts in his opinions over period of time, if he does then he is trying to be someone he is not... moreover in begning start with keep some distance

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@starchild
18 Years

Joe...no he is my peer. He's only two years older than I.

He and I had about four dates last week...they all went well. Im actually planning on spending some time in anothe city for about a month so we were pretty much tryna get to know one another....

While out on our dates, I noticed something that wasnt a HUGE deal, but it was worth bringing up...he would HOG the conversation!...he would constantly speak only of himself and his family/friends. If I found out that he and I had something in common I would comment on it, then maybe speak a little about what it was, then he would just dominate the convo. from there...so unattractive.

He's a very selfish man....

I told him how I felt and I thnk it got the best of him....we hung out Sunday night, and I ended up spending the night with him, again....however, we havent had sex yet and more than likely never will.

Yesterday morning while he was in route to drop me off at home, he'd asked me if I could assist him in moving some cars around (he sells used-cars)...I told him that I would be able to help him and that he should call me when he was ready....

I sent him a text around 4ish...he didnt respond...I called him around 8ish and he said that he would call me right back(he was in the middle of a conversation)...so around 10ish he sends me a text message saying that he was sorry to say that our friendship could no longer continue and that he wishes me the best and many blessings...Im happy that he let me know what was on his mind...but via text? I guess its the thought that counts hugh—?