Libran Girl + Cancerian Guy = —

So I'm completely confused about this cancer I??ve been seeing??_VERY confused??_so I thought well why not write out everything in full detail for those who can nit-pick & read between the lines & so I came up with one very lengthy —saga-ish?? post which I??ll be posting in several parts since this has been going on since October 2011!...

A brief intro:
??I had just come out of a —no ring?? relationship (with a virgo!....yikes!)

??He had just come out of a —ringed?? relationship with his fianc?e whom he had known for 3 years before & who he was planning on marrying in September 2011; they??d designed their house together!...OUCH!

??My natal chart: Sun-Libra, Moon-Cancer, Mercury-Libra, Venus-Virgo, Mars-Cancer, Jupiter-Cancer, Saturn-Leo,Uranus-Scorpio, Neptune-Sagittarius,Pluto-Libra,Lilith-Gemini,Asc node Libra

So here goes part I of the libra girl & the cancer guy??_We were introduced (on my birthday!) through a mutual friend??_he immediately starts chatting away, asks to facebook me & for my number??_he was charming, but I was just coming out of a relationship & not into the whole rebound thing??_too cruel for me to do??_gave him my number & let him add me
From that night, we continued to see each other almost everyday, but in our mutual friends?? group??_& not a day went by when he didn't poke me on facebook, or call??_very sweet & funny??_I was starting to like him, but didn't want to fall too fast??_

Then one night, me & the mutual friend that introduced me to him went out, he calls & asks to see me??_told him I was out??_he asked where??_told him he came??_had his friend drop him off, sat very close to me & said he had to leave in 10 min, but just dropped by to see me??_how sweet!...starting to like him even more, but still don't want to fall??_
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The next night, I was out with the mutual friend??_he calls??_asks where I am??_tell him & he comes??_again he sits very close to me??_then all of a sudden, he picks up my hand & covers it in kisses! & then looks into my eyes??_tells me how beautiful they are??_how beautiful I am??_mind u I was embarrassed & started to blush, because this is all in public & people were starting to notice??_he noticed & stopped, but had a boyish grin on his face the entire time!...when we got up to leave he asked if I could give him a ride??_said sure??_

while I'm driving & near his house, he asks if I have time to cruise??_I didn't have any plans so I said sure??_so we??re cruising, talking, listening to good music??_I didn't know the area very well??_so he's guiding me??_at a stop sign he turns his head back toward the rear passenger seats??_exclaims??_wow! What's that back there?...i turn my head back to look & just as I'm turning my head back to ask what he's talking about??_BAM!...he plants one phenomenal kiss on my lips??_didn't want to rush things so I break away & playfully berate him??_he acts all offended & demands that I make it up to him, by kissing his cheek??_I give in??_lean in to kiss his left cheek??_he shakes his head, it's not enough & points to his right cheek??_I roll my eyes & lean in to kiss his right cheek & just as I'm going back??_BAM!...it's like there are magnets in our lips!

I eventually drop him off??_going home feeling all light-headed & giggly??_

Next night, the night I'm set to travel abroad for a month, I'm out with the mutual friend & other friends??_he calls??_wanting to see me??_I tell him I'm out with the mutual friend & other friends he doesn't know??_of course he comes 😉??_I have my back to the caf—s door & am involved in a heated conversation on politics with a guy when he walks in??_places his hands on my shoulders, looks the guy in the eyes & pointing at him says —she's mine!?? then to all the others on the table —make a note of it??_she's taken—?_I was in shock??_I mean yes I really liked the guy??_a lot??_but I didn't expect it to move fast like this!...on the other hand, & to tell u the truth??_I LUV IT when a guy takes control! Don't get me wrong??_I'm very strong & independent??_but still appreciate a man who??s man!...massive turn on??_

I end up dropping him off??_his car??s still in the shop??_& just as we??re pulling in near the sidewalk??_

he grabs me??_pulls me in close & kisses me??_deeply??_when he pulls away, I'm —drunk—?_he pulls me in close again, hugs me hard then plants kisses all over??_telling me he's going to miss me, how he doesn't want me to go & how he doesn't know why he feels at peace when I'm with him??_OMG!...i'm dying??_can't even talk??_he then gives me one last passionate kiss saying, so you don't forget me when you??re away??_hugs me hard, then gets up & leaves??_so I'm trying to —collect myself—?_recover from this very heated moment??_& just as I'm about to drive away??_he knocks on my window, signaling for me to open it??_I do??_he reaches in & yep! One more deep passionate kiss...only much longer??_long enough for my brain to start racing & for some reason I open my eyes to find that his are open!...i immediately close mine, hoping he didn't notice!...he kisses my cheeks & forehead??_tells me to take care & be safe??_

END OF PART 1

What are your thoughts on this? Is this normal Cancerian behavior?

Yuuup sounds about right. I think the Cancers that move this fast either have sagg,or Leo in their chart. Both move at the speed of lightening, heck he might even have some Libra in him.

I have a current situation with a cancer that acts like this, and crazy part is I'm a Libra so I don't mind moving fast, so long as its not something that's going to affect me long term. However my situation is slightly different. The Cancer that's "trying" to get me to jump to his beat is too bossy. One must know NEVER try to boss a Libra into anything, it WILL back fire and they will rebel altogether. Plus he's cocky and stuck on himself. Wants me to give up the booty and commit to him on the spot and "trust" that he will do the same. We have not been on one date, and I cant even chill with him without him trying to get in my pants. Its so irritating. Yet he's crazy about me. Follows me whenever we are out at parties. He will grab me and start hugging all tight I think just to show other guys im "his" one time he told every guy that walked into the door "Don't nobody try to talk to my girl." I swear if my head could do a 360 turn it would've. Huh?? I am NOT his girl. But he's cute, and I actually really like him. I just want him to stop treating me like a piece of meat.

I've tried to explain my feelings to him but we just end up at a stand still from going back and forth. He gets mad if I don't text back fast enough. He gets mad if I don't come see him. One time he called me at 8:00 in the morning just to argue and let me know he didn't want to talk to me anymore. I said okay. And that really made him mad, we argued all day until about 3pm. SMH. We've been at this for a 1 1/2 now. He wont bend and neither will I. I love an Aries anyway so I don't care "that" much.

thanks for ur replies! 🙂...ok so this is normal cancerian behavior...but is it normal, male cancerian behavior with EVERY girl they meet...or just one? & if so, does this kind of behavior mean they're serious about u or just playing around?

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Follows me whenever we are out at parties. He will grab me and start hugging all tight I think just to show other guys im "his" one time he told every guy that walked into the door "Don't nobody try to talk to my girl."

Hahaha. (Sorry, but that was funny🙂)

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LMAO! That is hilarious! I knew cancers were this crazy/possessive. Lol

Do you know any of his chart other than his sun sign?

I can't speak to his behavior being typical of a cancer, but it
sounds to me like he is smitten! 🙂

The one cancer guy I dated was actually a cancer/leo cusp. He
also had a lot of other leo placements as well. He definitely was
very up front (with me and anyone else that was around) about his
interest in me. He was persistent but did not bother me, patiently
persistent I guess is a good way to put it. He did "take control" as
you mentioned that your cancer guy did as well. He knew what he
wanted and he eventually got it. But he was not jealous or needy.

You should know soon enough how serious he is... Let us know!!