paries.... I so know what you mean... I was there the other day with my crab... it wasn??t anything i did. It was just stress and pressure he was feeling and I got caught in the cross fire and he ended up saying things to me that really hurt.. But I gave him a day or so.. asked him how he was ... and told him i missed him.. he told me he was sorry and it should have never happened and he didn??t mean the things he said.. my very first encounter with this.. man, it broke my heart!! but things are somewhat back to normal.. you can??t help but love them.. I just wish my crab could see all that reasons why he is such a great guy like how i see him..
he's been in a funk like this before but not to the extent where he has said these hurtful things to me, not called, or ignored me. I did tell him when he told me to find someone else, that I didnt want anyone else.
I am so heartbroken??_ I can??t seem to shake the tears.. I care for him so much .. He has been so accepting with the things in my life and the things I have been through. I have been just as accepting with the things in his life and what he has dealt with. Something happened in those minutes where he was silent while online, and I have no idea what happened.. He has always told me things that bother him and I have always been there for him when he has felt this way. I don??t know what to do. He hasn??t called and is now ignoring me??_I don??t know if I should send him a little note, text him to see how he is doing, or say I??m sorry (for what I do not know) I feel like he is either taking something out on me that someone else said or did, or I if I did do or say something wrong. In our conversation he did tell me it wasn??t anything I did. So I??m guessing it??s something someone else did. I miss him terribly!! Is he just going to keep ignoring me. It hurts to see him so down and not know what to do. Please give me some advice..
The other day we were online and just having a conversation about what I was going to do the next day. He was silent for a little while and came back on with a whole different attitude and was all ???don??t worry about me, I??m fine , don??t bother?? ??_ I don??t know if he was talking to someone else or if I had said something wrong. I asked him if we could talk and I could tell something was troubling him and told him I was there if he wants to talk about it. He told me no he was fine. I told him I care for him deeply and I hated that he was feeling this way and wished that there was something I could do. He told me he cared for me and missed me too. Then he asked why I cared for him, that he wasn??t a good person, that he always seemed to hurt people. I told him the reasons why I cared for him and that I thought he was a great person. We talked for a little while longer, and even talked about me coming up for a visit soon. He told me he would like that and it would be really good. Then he said he was going to go to bed.. but he didn??t he got back online and told me he was sorry for everything, that he lived so far away all alone and that I should find someone else and I should give up... I asked him doesn??t he trust and care for me. He basically told me no.. I asked him to call me back and he did. I asked him on the phone if he trusted me and cared for me and he said yes he does. I told him that I didn??t know what was going on and that I wished he would talk to me and that I am always here for him. He said some more things like I should find someone else that he??s not worth it. I told him that he was worth it to me and that I don??t walk away from people that I care about. I asked him again if he cared for me and he said no.. Now he is ignoring me. I have only sent him one message since this and told him that I wasn??t mad at him and that I will always be here for him. That we were friends before these feelings, and I will always be that. He was online all day that day and never said anything back to me.
I have known a cancer guy since high school.. He found me years ago through Myspace, and then through FB. We??ve kept in touch through messaging because he??s always been away at school. About a year ago our conversations were picking up and found ourselves setting times to be on together so we could chat more. Then this past October he told me he would be coming in town and wanted to get together. He was here for just over a week and we hit it off really good. Since he left and went back to school we have talked and texted EVERY day. EVERY night he called me and we would talk for a few hours before he went to bed.. We??ve had conversations about each other??s secrets, what we want, that we don??t believe in just giving up on people or just walking away from someone, how loyalty and trust is the most important to both of us, ect. He even told me that he would never just walk away. We??ve told each other countless times we miss each other a lot. He??s told me he wished I was there or he was here. He??s told me he cares for me and that I??m important to him. We are not in a ???relationship?? because of the distance but there are feelings there.
I love this feed!! My cancer man is such an amazing guy and I wish he could see himself through my eyes.. He is so careing, non-judgemental, and accepts everything about me. I am in amazement with him. Recently he opened up to me about something that caused him such pain.(I hope this is a good sign)He told me this same night that he missed me so much and really wished I was there with him. He lives in another state but we see each other every couple months. I am thankful everyday for the person he is. I can not wait to see him for the holidays!!
I am a Libra and I have to say that I do jump in with both feet.. Sad I know... sometimes it's a good thing but sometimes it's the worst.. right now I am head over heals for a cancer.. I care so much for him but I feel like me spilling my guts to him has pushed him away eventhough he has told me how he feels.. grrr!! :/
Is there any other Libra woman and cancer man match ups out there. I have recently started talking to an old high shcool friend and we've been out 3 times. We held hands, kissed cuddled, and care for eachother. We both live is different states but he comes home for holidays and other times during the year. After he left town I told him how I felt about him. That I was really interested in seeing where this goes, that I deeply care for him and I cant see not giving this a chance. He has told me he really cares for me as well and that he could see himself happy with me. I know he's been really busy with work lately and we havent talked in 3 days. He usually calls me before he goes to bed every night unless he has alot of work but he's never gone 3 days. I have texted him short messages asking how his day was but he's answers are short. I know he's busy but I just thought he would find a little time to text me or call me. I miss even just the sound of his voice. Is that crazy?!?! LOL.. He is such an amazing guy (and I've told him that). I have told him a few times that I miss him and he has always responded telling me he misses me too. We do plan on spending time together during christmas and he's even mentioned me coming to where he is at. I seem to worry about telling him so much of how I feel, and when I told him my concern he told he I shouldnt worry about it. He's even mentioned me metting his parents. Am I just stressing to much over this? I've opened up to him about some issues I deal with that isn't very easy for me to talk about (health wise). I know that loyality and trust are a major factor for him and I've told him how important those are to me as well. I totally trust him but my fear is pushing him away with telling him how I feel. It drives me crazy not to hear from him, even if it's only been 3 days. Can someone give me some insite on this? I also have no idea on how to read charts.. is there anyone that can help me with his and my chart? THANK YOU SO MUCH IN ADVANCE!!!
I have recently fallen head over heals for a cancer guy that I went to high school with. It's new and cant really say we are a couple yet. He knows how I feel about him and I know he cares for me alot and he says he could see himself happy with me. We talk every night and he is simply amazing!! He is so understanding, supportive, and doesnt judge me either. It's so easy to open up to him. I miss him so much (he lives in another state) but he calls me every night before he goes to bed and we talk for hours. I know trust and loyality is a major thing to us both. I just cant get enough of him. I just wish I knew more of how he felt..
he has been so easy for me to open up to.. I have some medical issues from a birth difect and he has been so understanding and supportive even though he's in another state. He is such a busy man with school and work but he makes a great effort to call me every night before he goes to bed and we end up talking for hours. Most of the time I am the one that texts him during the day but he always responds. He does seem to be the type of cancer that seems strong on the outside but during converstations about us I see his soft side and I LOVE IT!! Is it wise to tell him I miss him? I really want to do something nice for him when he comes home for the holidays.. any suggestions?
I've known my cancer guy back in high school.. I always though he was a great guy but didn't really get to know him until recently. We have kept in touch through social sites and have become close. The last time he was in town we went out a few times and I have become head over heals for him. We live in different states but he comes home for holidays and other times during the year. I am a VERY loyal person and I know this is what I want. I am all for traveling to go see him as well. We both care deeply for each other and we both know we could be really happy together. We both have been hurt in the past by past relationships and me with my divorce. I totally trust him and feel I can tell him everything and I know he is trying to trust me, he says he does anyway ..LOL.. the last time he was home, which wasn??t all that long ago, we has so much chemistry, he didn??t want to leave and I so hated to see him go. He is coming home for Christmas and we plan on spending a lot of time together again. I am excited to see where our journey takes us. I can not wait to see him again.. is there any advise you cancer guys can give me.. he is shy but so am I. I really want him to know that I am and want to be invested in this relationship with him. How do I know he is as into me as I am with him? He calls just about every night and we text all the time. Any advise will help.. Thank you!! ??_