Libra's Do you think this is a good or bad sign?

Well the Libra girl who was mad at me had i guess finally forgiven me, Yesterday i sent her a message saying that we need to talk because we haven't talked in like 3 weeks.... and I said i wanted to talk to her in person, and she sent me a message back saying that i did nothing wrong, and that i don't need to worry, If she is saying that does she mean it? because she seemed like she was annoyed, but i guess she has forgiven me, It's back to normal now, i say hi and she smiles, which makes me feel happy again, but do you think she has really forgiven me? or should i talk to her more about it because i feel like we need to, what do you think?

Posted by amethyst2002
..nvm. It's similar to mine in a sense. I get it.

My chart:
Rising Sign is in 25 Degrees Cancer
Sun is in 19 Degrees Aries.
Moon is in 00 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 29 Degrees Pisces.
Venus is in 09 Degrees Taurus.
Mars is in 25 Degrees Pisces.
Jupiter is in 12 Degrees Scorpio.
Saturn is in 08 Degrees Pisces.
Uranus is in 26 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 23 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 27 Degrees Scorpio.
N.Node is in 24 Degrees Scorpio.

Her chart:
Rising Sign is in 20 Degrees Sagittarius
Sun is in 25 Degrees Libra.
Moon is in 15 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 00 Degrees Scorpio.
Venus is in 17 Degrees Scorpio.
Mars is in 07 Degrees Leo.
Jupiter is in 18 Degrees Scorpio.
Saturn is in 06 Degrees Pisces.
Uranus is in 22 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 20 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 26 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.

Chances are she has burried it but is watching you like a hawk. She is "trying" to forgive you by trying to rationalize what you did. Chances are when she gets upset again, the anger will be bigger. At some point, she may explode and then hate herself for exploding. Depending on what you did, you are now on the downward spiral.

Talking about it probably won't help.

Unless, of course, she isn't that into you, then she is way over it.

Posted by little_sparrow
Chances are she has burried it but is watching you like a hawk. She is "trying" to forgive you by trying to rationalize what you did. Chances are when she gets upset again, the anger will be bigger. At some point, she may explode and then hate herself for exploding. Depending on what you did, you are now on the downward spiral.

Talking about it probably won't help.

She wasn't that angry it was more like she was ignoring me and didn't want to deal with it, now that she is "watching me like a hawk" what are the things i can do to make sure i don't upset her again, and to make her feel happy, I don't get to see her a lot so what are something i can do that would be meaningful to her? I still have a chance so i want to start out with a clean slate, what would be your advice?

Posted by little_sparrow
Unless, of course, she isn't that into you, then she is way over it.

and I know that she is interested, I had one day where i was really preoccupied and she was staring intently at me as i walked by and sighed, because i din't look back at her.

I don't think she's that angry because she's acknowledging your message, but Libra's are nice and we try not to be to cold. If you do get to talk in person I wouldn't dwell on the subject much, but do apologize. Try to throw in a date invite quickly, if she says no. It's over!!!

I don't think she's that angry because she's acknowledging your message, but Libra's are nice and we try not to be to cold. If you do get to talk in person I wouldn't dwell on the subject much, but do apologize. Try to throw in a date invite quickly, if she says no. It's over!!!

Posted by JOJOJO
I don't think she's that angry because she's acknowledging your message, but Libra's are nice and we try not to be to cold. If you do get to talk in person I wouldn't dwell on the subject much, but do apologize. Try to throw in a date invite quickly, if she says no. It's over!!!

Alright thanks for the advice =)

Posted by TasteOfChaos
To be honest, I dont think you are patient enough for a Libra... or an air sign for that matter.

We move at a slow pace, your aries sun AND moon (wow) wont be able to take Libra fickleness and indecisive nature!

Did you play it cool like I told you to?

Yes i can be patient, and yes i have =)

Posted by TasteOfChaos
Good! Libras like to be friends first, the best advice I can give you is to make that your primary goal for now...

alright thank you =)

Posted by FieryAries9
Well the Libra girl who was mad at me had i guess finally forgiven me, Yesterday i sent her a message saying that we need to talk because we haven't talked in like 3 weeks.... and I said i wanted to talk to her in person, and she sent me a message back saying that i did nothing wrong, and that i don't need to worry, If she is saying that does she mean it? because she seemed like she was annoyed, but i guess she has forgiven me, It's back to normal now, i say hi and she smiles, which makes me feel happy again, but do you think she has really forgiven me? or should i talk to her more about it because i feel like we need to, what do you think?

well,she is trying to, its best to just give her space, libras smile at anything no matter what sometimes so dont go by that, just let her come around b/c she will if she forgave you, i dealt with libra women and im a libra.


wait are u with her?

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Posted by FieryAries9
Well the Libra girl who was mad at me had i guess finally forgiven me, Yesterday i sent her a message saying that we need to talk because we haven't talked in like 3 weeks.... and I said i wanted to talk to her in person, and she sent me a message back saying that i did nothing wrong, and that i don't need to worry, If she is saying that does she mean it? because she seemed like she was annoyed, but i guess she has forgiven me, It's back to normal now, i say hi and she smiles, which makes me feel happy again, but do you think she has really forgiven me? or should i talk to her more about it because i feel like we need to, what do you think?

well,she is trying to, its best to just give her space, libras smile at anything no matter what sometimes so dont go by that, just let her come around b/c she will if she forgave you, i dealt with libra women and im a libra.


wait are u with her?

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oh okay and no not yet....

Posted by FieryAries9
Well the Libra girl who was mad at me had i guess finally forgiven me, Yesterday i sent her a message saying that we need to talk because we haven't talked in like 3 weeks.... and I said i wanted to talk to her in person, and she sent me a message back saying that i did nothing wrong, and that i don't need to worry, If she is saying that does she mean it? because she seemed like she was annoyed, but i guess she has forgiven me, It's back to normal now, i say hi and she smiles, which makes me feel happy again, but do you think she has really forgiven me? or should i talk to her more about it because i feel like we need to, what do you think?

She has evaluated your relationship and at this stage it's not that important to her...or rather you're sitting somewhere in the middle slightly tooing and frowing on the scales. You havent made any real impression to put it bluntly but then you arent a right off either!

When you do get time with her, cooly approach the subject apologising or explaining or whatever you need to do without expecting to harsh over it...this will go far in her further assessment of you.

She forgave you? ... for what?

Not the message you sent her saying you wanted her number right? You're not still trying to apologize to her for that are you? That would be a few weeks ago (when you said you last talked to her)...

Two weeks ago I told you this..

Posted by LibraSid
What image should you be giving off? It's okay that she didn't respond. It doesn't matter. It's her loss. You are not mad or hurt that she didn't respond. You have other stuff to do anyway. That is what I think others have meant when they said appear confident. More importantly, this shouldn't be just an image. It really is okay that she didn't respond... there's a lot of people out there, don't lose sleep over one who doesn't share your interest.

Re-read that bold sentence...

At this point I almost hope you did something worth apologizing over. Tell us you slept with her sister or her mother... hell, even her grandmother. Tell us you aren't apologizing for simply liking her.

Or did I miss something?

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Posted by FieryAries9
Well the Libra girl who was mad at me had i guess finally forgiven me, Yesterday i sent her a message saying that we need to talk because we haven't talked in like 3 weeks.... and I said i wanted to talk to her in person, and she sent me a message back saying that i did nothing wrong, and that i don't need to worry, If she is saying that does she mean it? because she seemed like she was annoyed, but i guess she has forgiven me, It's back to normal now, i say hi and she smiles, which makes me feel happy again, but do you think she has really forgiven me? or should i talk to her more about it because i feel like we need to, what do you think?

She has evaluated your relationship and at this stage it's not that important to her...or rather you're sitting somewhere in the middle slightly tooing and frowing on the scales. You havent made any real impression to put it bluntly but then you arent a right off either!

When you do get time with her, cooly approach the subject apologising or explaining or whatever you need to do without expecting to harsh over it...this will go far in her further assessment of you.

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alright that is amazing advice thank you

Posted by QLIbraMale

Posted by FieryAries9
Well the Libra girl who was mad at me had i guess finally forgiven me, Yesterday i sent her a message saying that we need to talk because we haven't talked in like 3 weeks.... and I said i wanted to talk to her in person, and she sent me a message back saying that i did nothing wrong, and that i don't need to worry, If she is saying that does she mean it? because she seemed like she was annoyed, but i guess she has forgiven me, It's back to normal now, i say hi and she smiles, which makes me feel happy again, but do you think she has really forgiven me? or should i talk to her more about it because i feel like we need to, what do you think?

. expect to be judged for anything you do from now on. talking may help but her judgements aren't going to disappear any time soon, if she chooses to forget lol.

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alright i shall be more careful.

Posted by LibraSid
She forgave you? ... for what?

Not the message you sent her saying you wanted her number right? You're not still trying to apologize to her for that are you? That would be a few weeks ago (when you said you last talked to her)...

Two weeks ago I told you this..

Posted by LibraSid
What image should you be giving off? It's okay that she didn't respond. It doesn't matter. It's her loss. You are not mad or hurt that she didn't respond. You have other stuff to do anyway. That is what I think others have meant when they said appear confident. More importantly, this shouldn't be just an image. It really is okay that she didn't respond... there's a lot of people out there, don't lose sleep over one who doesn't share your interest.

Re-read that bold sentence...

At this point I almost hope you did something worth apologizing over. Tell us you slept with her sister or her mother... hell, even her grandmother. Tell us you aren't apologizing for simply liking her.

Or did I miss something?

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She forgave me for being overly annoying/straightforward, I really wasn't respecting her boundaries.....

Posted by QLIbraMale
She forgave me for being overly annoying/straightforward, I really wasn't respecting her boundaries.....@FieryAries9------------------------If she ask for SPACE you gotta RESPECT that." as for overly annoying that sounds kinda harsh especially coming from a libra lady, when she's ready to spend time with you try to intellectually romance her, word search, bookstore, pleasant scenery like zoo or park. your goal should be make her want you, yet same time make yourself somewhat occupied. this sounds silly but when she fully ready to open up her heart to you, all your patience will be worthwhile. just my take on it lol.

hmm she didn't exactly say that but that's how she appears, and yes i have to be more patient

you didn't do anything wrong. she just didn't want to give you her number. it's cute that you've blown this so out of proportion, but you seriously need to chill.