Libras fall quickly?

So the guy I am dating.. alright I am not over analyzing.. just trying to let things go with the flow.

But.. He already is starting to say like I love you to me.. and it's only been a week of dating.

Is that odd? It feels like it's pretty fast.

I know right?
That is what I am thinking. I've told him that he can't feel so strongly for someone that fast. But he has been coming over everyday since we met.. and We are still pretty young I'm 19 and he is 21, but I am the type of person I don't like that kinda stuff. I need breaks from people.. time to be alone.. or else I feel smothered. ANd I feel like he is smothering me.. but at the same time I think he just likes me alot and is confusing it with love.

So I've told him not to say it, until we know each other well enough to know it's love.. but I'm just like.. bleh.

so, you say a week of dating, but how long did you know each other before you started dating? libras tend to start falling for someone as soon as they meet them, so however long that's been is the timeline you should judge this by.

but even if it was only a week ago, yes libras do fall that fast, and they can mean it 100 percent. some fall out just as easily, but some don't. look at the moon and venus placement (maybe others?). my moon is leo and venus is scorpio (both fixed signs, btw), and it takes forever to get over someone when i want to. lots of brooding on their flaws and the hurt they caused me, forcing myself to meet new people, forcing myself to keep busy with hobbies and work. it's horrible. i've hurt people by not starting to date them in the first place, but i've never ended things with anyone.

a gemini, sagittarius, or pisces influence would worry me. taurus, leo, or scorpio are probably safe. the rest could really go either way.

Libras move fast for one reason, out of passion and if we are turned on. When we are immature we confuse passion with love and by passion i mean strictly sex so the first thing you do is hop right in a relationship b/c you are confusing your lust with your heart


I dont move fast in relationships never have and never will, i like to take things slow and go from there and when i feel rished it makes me panic.


thats why relationships thta libras get in never last, b/c eventually they see that it was truly meant to be sexual and nothing more and the veil slowly comes off when the relationship grows and b/c we dont MEAN to hurt people feelings, we string together more lies and just become distant and will never be home, its a way of ending things with out actually saying it.

Thats why its best for some of us to be alone for a while to sort out things. So we can KNOW what our emotions feel like and put them where they belong, so we can know what turns us on and when we have been provoked by something.


We just like to hold on to what turns us on, dont know how to be honest about it b/c we dont want the opportunity to run off, so yea relationships can be used as a way to manipulate you


some of us never mature, some of us do

Posted by curious visitor
so, you say a week of dating, but how long did you know each other before you started dating? libras tend to start falling for someone as soon as they meet them, so however long that's been is the timeline you should judge this by.

but even if it was only a week ago, yes libras do fall that fast, and they can mean it 100 percent. some fall out just as easily, but some don't. look at the moon and venus placement (maybe others?). my moon is leo and venus is scorpio (both fixed signs, btw), and it takes forever to get over someone when i want to. lots of brooding on their flaws and the hurt they caused me, forcing myself to meet new people, forcing myself to keep busy with hobbies and work. it's horrible. i've hurt people by not starting to date them in the first place, but i've never ended things with anyone.

a gemini, sagittarius, or pisces influence would worry me. taurus, leo, or scorpio are probably safe. the rest could really go either way.

lol we have the same moon and venus and i do the same thing

Posted by Pride of 0ctober
Libras move fast for one reason, out of passion and if we are turned on. When we are immature we confuse passion with love and by passion i mean strictly sex so the first thing you do is hop right in a relationship b/c you are confusing your lust with your heart


I dont move fast in relationships never have and never will, i like to take things slow and go from there and when i feel rished it makes me panic.


thats why relationships thta libras get in never last, b/c eventually they see that it was truly meant to be sexual and nothing more and the veil slowly comes off when the relationship grows and b/c we dont MEAN to hurt people feelings, we string together more lies and just become distant and will never be home, its a way of ending things with out actually saying it.

Thats why its best for some of us to be alone for a while to sort out things. So we can KNOW what our emotions feel like and put them where they belong, so we can know what turns us on and when we have been provoked by something.


We just like to hold on to what turns us on, dont know how to be honest about it b/c we dont want the opportunity to run off, so yea relationships can be used as a way to manipulate you


some of us never mature, some of us do

This seems to be what it is probably. We are very comfortable around each other.. I can talk to him easily, but I think we are better as friends because the relationship chemistry isn't really there. There is passion, but alot of it is from his side and i think I do turn him on pretty easily because he is always trying to go far with me, even though I wont let him. He respects my limitation on not having sex or anything sex related, but he is always trying to go further never the less. And we met and started dating the next day and than after a week he was wanting to say I love you. It was way to fast so I think it was lust and he confused it.

Posted by QLIbraMale
most libras like starting out as friends, so even months as friends can gradually grow with hidden feelings, keep this in mind, than ask yourself is it really too soon?

We met one day and dated the next and after a week he wanted to say I love you.

It certainly is lust and I want to fuck you and you won't let me!!! he thinks if he says I love you then he's in! That's all it could be after a week!

Fall quickly? Puppy love or even infatuation I have have..

True love? It was a slow culmination, and once fallen, impossible to get out.
And only with one person for the last 8 years. Time has told me nothing's going to change.

I have Venus, sun, saturn and pluto loosely tied w/in 8 deg.. Flaky that I am not.