Looking for help from Libra

So I have a new relationship with my first libra man. He has Taurus moon, Venus Scorpio and I’m sun Aries, moon Scorpio, Venus Aries and cancer asc. So we are both out of long term relationships and I know he’s got a lot going on but won’t tell me any more than that. He has been either really into me, great sex, go out and have fun. He says he really likes me, I am the only good thing in his life and doesn’t want to hurt me. Then last few days has been really mean, almost as if he wants me to end it but he can’t do it himself so I have. My problem is my Scorpio moon is finding it hard to just forget it, we see each other a lot any way so can’t avoid him completely, I’m just very confused as to what the hell happened other than I think I may have scared him off

I have a scorp venus. If he's into you he won't get scared off. Not sure how taurus moons are though. I say call him out and get how you feel out in the open so you can resolve it or move on. He could be scared of getting close after the failure of his last relationship or you are just a rebound. Either way call him out and do it tactfully. How is he being mean exactly?

Posted by Librah
I have a scorp venus. If he's into you he won't get scared off. Not sure how taurus moons are though. I say call him out and get how you feel out in the open so you can resolve it or move on. He could be scared of getting close after the failure of his last relationship or you are just a rebound. Either way call him out and do it tactfully. How is he being mean exactly?

He’s being mean I guess by blowing hot and cold, cancelling plans at the last minute, not contacting me for a few days etc. I admit I started it off by playing it cool and then got a bit heavy too quickly without explicitly saying what I wanted. I know how intense I can be and it definitely affects a new relationship as I’m worried that people can’t handle it! It became very sexual very quickly which is normally how I am

Posted by 2Moon
Taurus moon probably acting weird...

Some Taurus guys tend to embrace the negative aspects of their sign...

They can be really annoying, dangerous and "dark"

Yes I see that especially the dark bit, I think that’s what attracted me if I’m honest

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Posted by Librah
I have a scorp venus. If he's into you he won't get scared off. Not sure how taurus moons are though. I say call him out and get how you feel out in the open so you can resolve it or move on. He could be scared of getting close after the failure of his last relationship or you are just a rebound. Either way call him out and do it tactfully. How is he being mean exactly?

He’s being mean I guess by blowing hot and cold, cancelling plans at the last minute, not contacting me for a few days etc. I admit I started it off by playing it cool and then got a bit heavy too quickly without explicitly saying what I wanted. I know how intense I can be and it definitely affects a new relationship as I’m worried that people can’t handle it! It became very sexual very quickly which is normally how I am

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His venus should be all about sexual intensity. Without knowing shit about taurus moons I'd blame that. As far as blowing hot and cold I can attest that I do this when I really like a person, but am unsure or insecure about how the other person really feels. Which is why blunt honest communication could clear everything up possibly. It's what I'd want, but I have a lib moon not a taurus moon so ymmv.

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Posted by Greeneyes70

Posted by Librah
I have a scorp venus. If he's into you he won't get scared off. Not sure how taurus moons are though. I say call him out and get how you feel out in the open so you can resolve it or move on. He could be scared of getting close after the failure of his last relationship or you are just a rebound. Either way call him out and do it

tactfully. How is he being mean exactly?

He’s being mean I guess by blowing hot and cold, cancelling plans at the last minute, not contacting me for a few days etc. I admit I started it off by playing it cool and then got a bit heavy too quickly without explicitly saying what I wanted. I know how intense I can be and it definitely affects a new relationship as I’m worried that people can’t handle it! It became very sexual very quickly which is normally how I am

His venus should be all about sexual intensity. Without knowing shit about taurus moons I'd blame that. As far as blowing hot and cold I can attest that I do this when I really like a person, but am unsure or insecure about how the other person really feels. Which is why blunt honest communication could clear everything up possibly. It's what I'd want, but I have a lib moon not a taurus moon so ymmv.

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Thanks, good advice. I think I’ve been giving confusing signals tbh. Is it true that Libra mirrors? If so it could be he is mirroring me? You’re right though, blunt communication is the only way to sort it out and at least I know where I stand then

Posted by Greeneyes70

Posted by Librah

Posted by Greeneyes70

Posted by Librah
I have a scorp venus. If he's into you he won't get scared off. Not sure how taurus moons are though. I say call him out and get how you feel out in the open so you can resolve it or move on. He could be scared of getting close after the failure of his last relationship or you are just a rebound. Either way call him out and do it

tactfully. How is he being mean exactly?

He’s being mean I guess by blowing hot and cold, cancelling plans at the last minute, not contacting me for a few days etc. I admit I started it off by playing it cool and then got a bit heavy too quickly without explicitly saying what I wanted. I know how intense I can be and it definitely affects a new relationship as I’m worried that people can’t handle it! It became very sexual very quickly which is normally how I am

His venus should be all about sexual intensity. Without knowing shit about taurus moons I'd blame that. As far as blowing hot and cold I can attest that I do this when I really like a person, but am unsure or insecure about how the other person really feels. Which is why blunt honest communication could clear everything up possibly. It's what I'd want, but I have a lib moon not a taurus moon so ymmv.

Thanks, good advice. I think I’ve been giving confusing signals tbh. Is it true that Libra mirrors? If so it could be he is mirroring me? You’re right though, blunt communication is the only way to sort it out and at least I know where I stand then

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Personally I do mirror to a certain degree. I try to put the same effort into a relationship the other person does. So it's possible. I think you'll have good luck with being blunt.