Pros and Cons of a libra man ?

- don't surround myself much with libra men but I'm curious, what are some of the cons mainly ?
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  • - don't surround myself much with libra men but I'm curious,

    what are some of the cons mainly ?

  • Posted by Librasetting
    Posted by saweetz1988
    - don't surround myself much with libra men but I'm curious,

    what are some of the cons mainly ?



    Really depends on his chart.
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    I guess I just wanna know the basic lol. I know they r sweet talkers n romantic. That’s it lol. One used to see me and brought me 1 bottle of wine, 2 cards, chocolate .. on a second date lol. That’s why I never seen another libra man lol
  • We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

    That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?
  • Posted by Librah
    We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

    That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?


    lol

    1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

    2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

    lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

    anyway,

    ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

    how do they deal with conflicts then?

    do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

    or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?

  • i have a libra girlfriend.

    she's seeing an aqua man

    and what i remember,

    she was super super bossy

    so i kind of stayed away.

    lol


    i also had a libra housemate

    she was always super nice- and very easy going- i liked that

    she is dating a libra man too- lol

  • Posted by saweetz1988
    Posted by Librah
    We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

    That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?


    lol

    1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

    2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

    lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

    anyway,

    ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

    how do they deal with conflicts then?

    do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

    or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?

    click to expand

    lol of all of that I found the 2 cards to be the strangest. Now it makes sense...Kind of.

    So for conflicts I can only speak for myself, but if I find the conflict to be petty I avoid it. If in my opinion the conflict can't be discussed rationally, I avoid it. For me it varies from person to person. I just don't like to waste the energy on it. This goes for conflicts that can turn into physical violence too. If I can walk away I will. Not worth my energy. The other part is if I told everyone what I was really thinking they wouldn't like what I have to say. So yes and no to voicing opinions. If I can voice my opinion in a tactful respectful manner I absolutely will. Keep in mind too that this is just one libra's take and I'm 36 so I've had plenty of trial and error. When I was in my 20's I was a loud mouthed ahole. I hope this helps you and any potential libras courting you sans 2 cards, wine, and chocolates.
  • Posted by Librasetting
    Posted by Librah
    Posted by saweetz1988
    Posted by Librah
    We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

    That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?


    lol

    1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

    2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

    lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

    anyway,

    ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

    how do they deal with conflicts then?

    do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

    or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?


    lol of all of that I found the 2 cards to be the strangest. Now it makes sense...Kind of.

    So for conflicts I can only speak for myself, but if I find the conflict to be petty I avoid it. If in my opinion the conflict can't be discussed rationally, I avoid it. For me it varies from person to person. I just don't like to waste the energy on it. This goes for conflicts that can turn into physical violence too. If I can walk away I will. Not worth my energy. The other part is if I told everyone what I was really thinking they wouldn't like what I have to say. So yes and no to voicing opinions. If I can voice my opinion in a tactful respectful manner I absolutely will. Keep in mind too that this is just one libra's take and I'm 36 so I've had plenty of trial and error. When I was in my 20's I was a loud mouthed ahole. I hope this helps you and any potential libras courting you sans 2 cards, wine, and chocolates.


    Lol I use to be the silent type now I'm a loud mouth ahole. My own mother called me a evil ahole couple weeks ago 😈
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    HAHHAAH so not all libra men are nice!:p??? This is interesting and good to know for information lol
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Posted by saweetz1988
    Posted by Librasetting
    Posted by Librah
    Posted by saweetz1988
    Posted by Librah
    We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

    That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?


    lol

    1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

    2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

    lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

    anyway,

    ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

    how do they deal with conflicts then?

    do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

    or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?


    lol of all of that I found the 2 cards to be the strangest. Now it makes sense...Kind of.

    So for conflicts I can only speak for myself, but if I find the conflict to be petty I avoid it. If in my opinion the conflict can't be discussed rationally, I avoid it. For me it varies from person to person. I just don't like to waste the energy on it. This goes for conflicts that can turn into physical violence too. If I can walk away I will. Not worth my energy. The other part is if I told everyone what I was really thinking they wouldn't like what I have to say. So yes and no to voicing opinions. If I can voice my opinion in a tactful respectful manner I absolutely will. Keep in mind too that this is just one libra's take and I'm 36 so I've had plenty of trial and error. When I was in my 20's I was a loud mouthed ahole. I hope this helps you and any potential libras courting you sans 2 cards, wine, and chocolates.


    Lol I use to be the silent type now I'm a loud mouth ahole. My own mother called me a evil ahole couple weeks ago 😈


    HAHHAAH so not all libra men are nice!:p??? This is interesting and good to know for information lol
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    I have yet to meet a genuinely nice one if that tells ya anything. They can put up a nice front easy enough, but behind that..
  • OCJack
    Shwiggity shwag what's in da quantum electrodynamic bag?
    24 years old male from The Void, Damned To, Hell
    Shrug, we can probably seem more feminine compared to most guys? But not in an emotional sense like Cancer.(Though I have Pisces Moon so I'm treetrunked in this regard too lol)
  • Posted by saweetz1988
    Posted by Librasetting
    Posted by Librah
    Posted by saweetz1988
    Posted by Librah
    We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

    That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?


    lol

    1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

    2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

    lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

    anyway,

    ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

    how do they deal with conflicts then?

    do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

    or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?


    lol of all of that I found the 2 cards to be the strangest. Now it makes sense...Kind of.

    So for conflicts I can only speak for myself, but if I find the conflict to be petty I avoid it. If in my opinion the conflict can't be discussed rationally, I avoid it. For me it varies from person to person. I just don't like to waste the energy on it. This goes for conflicts that can turn into physical violence too. If I can walk away I will. Not worth my energy. The other part is if I told everyone what I was really thinking they wouldn't like what I have to say. So yes and no to voicing opinions. If I can voice my opinion in a tactful respectful manner I absolutely will. Keep in mind too that this is just one libra's take and I'm 36 so I've had plenty of trial and error. When I was in my 20's I was a loud mouthed ahole. I hope this helps you and any potential libras courting you sans 2 cards, wine, and chocolates.


    Lol I use to be the silent type now I'm a loud mouth ahole. My own mother called me a evil ahole couple weeks ago 😈


    HAHHAAH so not all libra men are nice!:p??? This is interesting and good to know for information lol
    click to expand


    It's important to realize too a man or woman of any sign can be a butter bag. Everyone's subject to their own environment and upbringing and other aspects of their chart too. Sometimes I wish I didn't have a scorpio venus and would gladly trade it for a one in libra or cap or something less consuming.



  • Posted by Librah
    Posted by saweetz1988
    Posted by Librasetting
    Posted by Librah
    Posted by saweetz1988
    Posted by Librah
    We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

    That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?


    lol

    1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

    2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

    lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

    anyway,

    ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

    how do they deal with conflicts then?

    do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

    or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?


    lol of all of that I found the 2 cards to be the strangest. Now it makes sense...Kind of.

    So for conflicts I can only speak for myself, but if I find the conflict to be petty I avoid it. If in my opinion the conflict can't be discussed rationally, I avoid it. For me it varies from person to person. I just don't like to waste the energy on it. This goes for conflicts that can turn into physical violence too. If I can walk away I will. Not worth my energy. The other part is if I told everyone what I was really thinking they wouldn't like what I have to say. So yes and no to voicing opinions. If I can voice my opinion in a tactful respectful manner I absolutely will. Keep in mind too that this is just one libra's take and I'm 36 so I've had plenty of trial and error. When I was in my 20's I was a loud mouthed ahole. I hope this helps you and any potential libras courting you sans 2 cards, wine, and chocolates.


    Lol I use to be the silent type now I'm a loud mouth ahole. My own mother called me a evil ahole couple weeks ago 😈


    HAHHAAH so not all libra men are nice!:p??? This is interesting and good to know for information lol


    It's important to realize too a man or woman of any sign can be a butter bag. Everyone's subject to their own environment and upbringing and other aspects of their chart too. Sometimes I wish I didn't have a scorpio venus and would gladly trade it for a one in libra or cap or something less consuming.

    click to expand

    my scorp venus is the best thing about me. i wouldn't trade it for anything.
  • Posted by jeane
    Posted by Librah
    Posted by saweetz1988
    Posted by Librasetting
    Posted by Librah
    Posted by saweetz1988
    Posted by Librah
    We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

    That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?


    lol

    1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

    2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

    lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

    anyway,

    ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

    how do they deal with conflicts then?

    do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

    or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?


    lol of all of that I found the 2 cards to be the strangest. Now it makes sense...Kind of.

    So for conflicts I can only speak for myself, but if I find the conflict to be petty I avoid it. If in my opinion the conflict can't be discussed rationally, I avoid it. For me it varies from person to person. I just don't like to waste the energy on it. This goes for conflicts that can turn into physical violence too. If I can walk away I will. Not worth my energy. The other part is if I told everyone what I was really thinking they wouldn't like what I have to say. So yes and no to voicing opinions. If I can voice my opinion in a tactful respectful manner I absolutely will. Keep in mind too that this is just one libra's take and I'm 36 so I've had plenty of trial and error. When I was in my 20's I was a loud mouthed ahole. I hope this helps you and any potential libras courting you sans 2 cards, wine, and chocolates.


    Lol I use to be the silent type now I'm a loud mouth ahole. My own mother called me a evil ahole couple weeks ago 😈


    HAHHAAH so not all libra men are nice!:p??? This is interesting and good to know for information lol


    It's important to realize too a man or woman of any sign can be a butter bag. Everyone's subject to their own environment and upbringing and other aspects of their chart too. Sometimes I wish I didn't have a scorpio venus and would gladly trade it for a one in libra or cap or something less consuming.


    my scorp venus is the best thing about me. i wouldn't trade it for anything.
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    Not saying I hate everything about it. I'm just overwhelmed by it at times.
  • ShyCappie24
    female
    I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing etc to keep himself looking good. Flirts without knowing it (this is very annoying to me as a Cap). Can lie about/hide little things just to keep the peace or to not 'ruffle' you (but my Scorp Venus always finds out :p). Gets scared easily. Kind of childish and playful forever.
  • 2Moon
    my revenge is going to be success
    Me when someone tells me No for whatever reason..

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    Librius: A Balanced mind
    Cons - check Aquas. You are accustomed with them. We have the same negative traits - sneaky, flaky, ghosting tendencies when we don't like someone. We can turn to cold ice in an instant. We can be very mean. And the top of it - we are the masters of the manipulation, but we are immune to it.
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