Mr Libra

Mr Libra is a man of action,always full of life. Pander to his ego if you want to please him.
He does not care to take decision on his own,he likes everything to be a partnership. He is a great ladies man until he settles down.
However,no matter how goodlooking and sucessful he is,he will be always looking for praise,for underneath that self aware exterior is an insecure and uncertain little soul.
He isnt comfortable naked,and there may be something abouty his body that he doesnt like.
Dont flirt with anyone else if you are his partner or he his interested in you,you will make him ANGRY & JEALOUS. You must have eyes only for him.

Libras top 5 turn offs
1)Spitefulness
2)Flirts(libra is the only one allowed to do any flirting)
3)Dirty jokes in mixed company
4)People who wears night clothes after 9 in the morning
5)Billy Liars


Another snippet from Claire Petulengro

lol i didnt know libra men had body hang ups or that they could get jealous??

Yeah but that list also says that dirty jokes are bad... it can't be relied on too much.

It's a pretty accurate list in my experiences. Except that I have no idea what a "Billy Liar" is.

#1 - touches on one reason most Scorp-Libra relationships fail.. Libra are all about fairness and justice.. humility.. doing the right thing, equality (except in #2 LMAO).. a Scorp tends to get hell-bent on spite, revenge, grudges.. so the nursing venomous anger baffles and eventually annoys Libra.... and Libra's perceived "wishy-washy weakness" baffles and eventually annoys the Scorp.

#2 - EVERY Libra I know (including my own) is a complete and total flirt! Half the time, they don't even realize they're doing it.. it's just a part of them and their social nature, like their eye color or their shoe size! And they tend to remain friends with ALL their ex's.. and it really escapes them why their current love interest should mind this. They're "JUST FRIENDS" even though they dated before. But don't YOU dare do either one - especially not intentionally, or as a "how does it feel, buddy?!" sort of thing.. you'll be blasted with his icy cold anger.. they need to TRUST their partner, and that's BUILT, not just handed out willy-nilly... jealousy, OMG they are quite jealous - usually that comes out as anger too, rarely would they admit to something so weak and insecure-sounding as being jealous.

#3 - A far as the dirty jokes go, the key phrase is "mixed company".. meaning dirty jokes are fine, in the company entirely consisting of friends considered close enough and/or "cool" enough with dirty jokes. The "mixed company" refers to.. if one of his "proper" friends or relatives is around... a coworker or boss that might think badly about him, were they to see his girl "acting the fool"... it's saying don't be telling off-color jokes and looking like an ass in front of his Mom or his boss.. Libras are usually VERY concerned about how they LOOK to other people... they want YOU to be a good reflection on them, not a bad one!

#4 - That's showing you're too lazy to get dressed in the morning.. shows that you don't care about yourself or how you look to others. Occasionally, or for a day off, fine.. but if it's regularly.. they won't like it, they'll think it's tacky and uncouth of you to always be flopped around your house in PJ's.

#5 - Whatever a "Billy Liar" is.. it's obviously some species of liar... which Libra doesn't like, no. Sure, plenty of (unevolved) Libras lie just to lie.. I've seen it myself.. and plenty will lie to "protect" someone's feelings.. but generally, they don't like liars.. they have to be able to trust you, without it how could you *possibly* be The One?

And body hangups.. oh yes, definitely common... I knew a Libra who didn't believe he was good looking.. he wanted to be more musculer, with a bigger chest.. he felt rather unattractive for it. A lot of Libras are really quite insecure underneath it all, no matter how tough and cool they act.. my own Libra doesn't think he's very good looking at all, doesn't think he's all that special... they WANT your approval, they want (sincere!) flattery.. they want to feel good. And they DO wonder a lot if they actually deserve and can keep this wonderful creature happy, if they're man enough and good enough and worthy enough. It makes them try very hard to be a better man, esp when they're in love. And if they're not in love.. well, it makes them try harder to get into your panties, I guess lol

I also think a few points are spot on!! Just interested to hear if the libra guys on here say yay or nay.lol

Posted by FemmeScorpion
I also think a few points are spot on!! Just interested to hear if the libra guys on here say yay or nay.lol

I find it amusing that women who are IN relationships with Libra men answering a question about their own man's behavior (and other Libras they've known) isn't good enough for you. Never is, you seem to always disregard everything they say, and you always want a Libra MAN'S opinion, when there are like, what, two Libra men here that post regularly? - and both are probably getting tired of your little obsession with a man who doesn't want you. You're a misogynist. You hate women. Explains a lot about your bitterness.

YOU can't answer your OWN questions about Libra male behaviors because YOU aren't WITH one, you're just obsessing over one... and clearly don't even know him at all. Which is understandable, since you're his stalker and not his girlfriend.

Posted by Nefer

Posted by FemmeScorpion
I also think a few points are spot on!! Just interested to hear if the libra guys on here say yay or nay.lol

I find it amusing that women who are IN relationships with Libra men answering a question about their own man's behavior (and other Libras they've known) isn't good enough for you. Never is, you seem to always disregard everything they say, and you always want a Libra MAN'S opinion, when there are like, what, two Libra men here that post regularly? - and both are probably getting tired of your little obsession with a man who doesn't want you. You're a misogynist. You hate women. Explains a lot about your bitterness.

YOU can't answer your OWN questions about Libra male behaviors because YOU aren't WITH one, you're just obsessing over one... and clearly don't even know him at all. Which is understandable, since you're his stalker and not his girlfriend.

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Are you been serious??....i have no issues with female...it says libra man,so i thought it would be interested to hear what the men feedback were....
Look love i said i agree with some of the points that you also agreed with.
Maybe you should start reading my feedback to other females post...i dont bash any female on here,i always give my feedbak based on how i see it.
I only get in fight with other female when they decide to get cheeky!!

Posted by sdgaf
I've always thought Nefer was a scorpio hater.

She doesn't like them,
because they receive more attention than pisces.

Omg you took the words right out of my mouth.lol

LOL I actually adore Scorpios, just not Grey Lizard ones. Until DXP, I'd only met ONE of those in my life.

I didn't say you bash females.. I said you DISREGARD anything they say about Libra males. Their words don't have any importance to you, and you've shown that over and over.

Posted by Nefer
LOL I actually adore Scorpios, just not Grey Lizard ones. Until DXP, I'd only met ONE of those in my life.

Blah blah your action speak louder than your words.

Posted by Nefer
I didn't say you bash females.. I said you DISREGARD anything they say about Libra males. Their words don't have any importance to you, and you've shown that over and over.

Maybe i like hearing from the monkey not the organ grinder!! i dont mind advice from women who have been with libra men....because they are speaking from experience which is always good in my eyes.

If it's "always good" why do you always disregard it? Any woman who posts HER personal observations about Libra males is completely dismissed.. uhh.. cuz you're trying to get to the monkey, not the organ grinder? Like I said, there are perhaps TWO Libra males who post here regularly. Including the one who answered in this thread, but only pondered that "dirty jokes" were considered bad according to the list.

And everytime an "organ grinder" speaks up, you basically come back with, "Thanks, but I'd rather hear from the 'monkeys'!" Perhaps the "organ grinders" who have experience with "monkeys" are a better source of observational information... since it would take a VERY self-aware "monkey" to know the good and bad about his own personality. We're lucky in that we have a couple "monkeys" here, seemingly quite self-aware, no less!... but like I said, it's really just a couple. So your virtual plethora of posts and topics are really aimed at hearing from only a couple people ("monkeys")? How very narrow of you.

Libra men aren't capable of evaluating ourselves, we'll flip back and forth all day. You think our indecisiveness is bad at other times try and have us self evaluate. Nefer's stuff was pretty spot on.

In general the list isn't bad.

Libras top 5 turn offs
1)Spitefulness
2)Flirts(libra is the only one allowed to do any flirting)
3)Dirty jokes in mixed company
4)People who wears night clothes after 9 in the morning
5)Billy Liars

Spitefulness irritates me at a very deep level, it's just not right.

Flirting is one of the few areas where I know I hold a double standard. I do it all the time but wouldn't like if my partner/spouse did.

I don't agree with the dirty jokes thing. I would like it if people thought well of me but I don't change to try and make them. I have a filthy mouth and mind and I speak it freely... I have often been told that I lack that filter.

I wanted to say that it wouldn't bother me... but if it's all the time it kinda does.

Lying is another thing that is just wrong.

No one said her stuff was not spot on!!
"Libra men aren't capable of evaluating ourselves, we'll flip back and forth all day." Now thats just simple unbalace.lol

Unbalanced? Then they pretty much ALL are.. That's true LIBRA at the core! It might SEEM "wishy-washy" to an outsider who does not have that particular struggle (back and forth, seeing all sides, what's the best way, don't make a mistake you can't fix, what would be best for the most people involved, don't needlessly hurt anyone, what's the fairest way to do it) but that's the way Libras do it, and he's right -- Libras aren't that great at figuring themselves out... they see toooo many sides at once, almost nothing is black and white or cut and dried to them. They see infinite possibilities so nailing them down to just ONE is like.. nailing Jell-o to a tree 😛

Now, a Scorpio.. plenty of black and white (Scorpio it IS or it ISN'T vs. Libra maybe it is, maybe it isn't), lots of cut and dried.. a greater ability to just MAKE a tough decision and DO it, and not worry themselves into an ulcer if it was the "right" or "best" way or if it could have been done another way, or if it should have been done at all! Scorpios (Waters) are a lot "deeper thinkers" than Libras... my Libra has a little catch phrase he uses when he wants me to stop thinking and feeling so deep, and to just take something at face value, because it's NOT fraught with hidden meanings I have to suss out! He says, "Puddle, Ocean." ...because he's compared me and my deep thoughts/feelings to an ocean.. and says HIS are more like a puddle compared to mine. No, he's not saying Libra men are shallow (though they can be).. he's just saying he's not all deep thinking and analyzing someone's motives and picking apart a situation to find some hidden meaning... he SAYS what he thinks, it doesn't MEAN something else entirely. (After he's done waffling back and forth and deciding if he should say anything, if it's important, and what's the best way/time to do it. LOL)

Posted by Nefer
Libras aren't that great at figuring themselves out... they see toooo many sides at once, almost nothing is black and white or cut and dried to them. They see infinite possibilities so nailing them down to just ONE is like.. nailing Jell-o to a tree 😛

That is dead on. When I am involved in a serious situation where I have to decide it can be really tough because I play out every possible outcome. I go over what would be involved in making each outcome reality, how likely each is to succeed, over and over. If a friend is in the same situation I give good advice quickly and know what should be done. If it's me I second guess if I am making the right choice. If it involves another person and me, it gets worse. Then I have to decide what is best for me without hurting them... or what is right for them without hurting me... so many ways to go, which is right?

Posted by LibraSid

Posted by Nefer
Libras aren't that great at figuring themselves out... they see toooo many sides at once, almost nothing is black and white or cut and dried to them. They see infinite possibilities so nailing them down to just ONE is like.. nailing Jell-o to a tree 😛

That is dead on. When I am involved in a serious situation where I have to decide it can be really tough because I play out every possible outcome. I go over what would be involved in making each outcome reality, how likely each is to succeed, over and over. If a friend is in the same situation I give good advice quickly and know what should be done. If it's me I second guess if I am making the right choice. If it involves another person and me, it gets worse. Then I have to decide what is best for me without hurting them... or what is right for them without hurting me... so many ways to go, which is right?

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Good lord,live life, make decision on impulse,make mistakes,have regrets!!
In the words of Frank Sinatra...."yes they were times,am sure you knew that i bit off more than i could chew. But through it all when they were DOUBTS i eat it up and spit it out."
And did it my way!!

It sounds worse than it is. I think quickly =)

I do make decisions and I do make mistakes; however, I have no regrets. I make my choices based on the information available at the time. Even if the decision turns out wrong, I stayed true to myself and did the "right" thing throughout the process and therefore have nothing to regret.