Newbie Here! Am I Wasting My Time With My Libra Man?

Okay so im a scorpio, on the cusp of Sagittarius. I am also a woman.

We met on social media. started off as sex and I informed him, because he is a great listener, really non judgmental type guy, that i was falling for him. He told me not to give up on him.... Ive flipped on him a couple times before and he seems to really not like that...dont worry it wont happen again. And ive done so because of how distant he is... he claims he is very busy, and i do believe that to a certain degree, How are you to busy to think about me enough to say hello or reply to a text?? I suffer so much in silence because i dont want to lose him, and he has made it very clear to me that i am the only one he is looking into long term with. and told me not to give up on him... And that we would work towards building this relationship. but we only speak every few days. and only see each other on the weekends. I'm so appreciative because he has been around like he said, he has made improvements for me. I dont even know why. I'm just really into the fact that he's really into me..

Am I wasting my time or am i just overthinking??

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
I don't know, but you're definitely wasting your time here.

why would you even respond? now ur wasting my time and you've wasted your own. good job

Posted by Tirano24
So the issue here is communication? Have you simply told this Libra that you need him to communicate better with you? Be more clear and verbally communicate your needs, get rid of this haze over the communication between you two by simply telling him you feel his communication is inconsistent. Or are you afraid of the backlash?

What do you mean by you suffer so much in silence? You've got to bring these issues to light. Put a grip on his ass if you think he's a keeper.

Yes, that's my issue. He doesn't seem to think it's a big deal not to speak to me... me on the other hand i need a little more attention than hat i'm getting.. or i'll end up finding it elsewhere which is something i'd rather not do. Yes I am afraid of the backlash, he seems very dominant, masculine, no nonsense. i dont wana seem clingy, or needy. I just want to be seen and heard, and thought of.

Posted by tiziani
Your story seems incomplete. You went from saying you have sex to telling him you're falling for him. It doesn't seem like you take a genuine interest in him unless you left that part out.

I didnt want it to be a long drawn out post

Posted by Arielle83
You start of sexually then you tell him you're in love then you get clingy and demanding because he doesn't validate you when you want. You're worried you'll lose him so you're possessive.

You're dickamatized.

If you loved him you wouldn't be so possessive.

when you run it altogether and generalize it like that, its gona sound bad. I never told him i was in love i told him i was falling for him. anyway, thanks for your response

I read just the title because I'm over reading all the repeat stories on this entire site. The title is usually adequate enough, sadly.

Answer- "Yes."

If you're coming to a forum and asking anything like "is he into me?", "I'm confused!", or "Is this a waste of my time?" the answer is almost always usually "No, he's not into you" or "he's not into you" or "yes it's a waste of your time."

A LIBRA WHO DOESN'T WANT TO COMMUNICATE DAILY WITH THEIR LOVER?!!!!

If we are in love with someone it's next to impossible to pull us away. You don't really do it for him, he's not in love at all; but he likes your adoration and attraction to him ... it feeds his ego and gives him something to do until the "one" comes along.

You will know when the "one" comes along, because he will be with her the majority of the time despite hectic schedules, deaths, births, jobs, etc.

We find it unbearable to be alone. So sometimes we do very unethical things to keep someone we know we don't really want around.

You are truly deeply sincerely wasting your time. But you already know this in your heart.