Newbie wants to throttle Libra guy

I have read these boards for sometime regarding Libra guys. Yes it would seem its the age old Libra/Aries thing!!! I want to throttle him and tear his clothes off in equal measures.

We dated for a a few months from the beginning of this year. We had lots of silly misunderstandings in that time. I adored him but it never felt safe to show it as he was always so cool. He ended it.....but never gave solid reasons for it. I could never understand it so became angry and frustrated which as we all know does not go down to well with them. I told him I did not wish to be friends with him and wanted nothing to do with him. I removed him from my Facebook account etc etc. 6 months later I get a random text from him. So I have moved on and don't mind a little polite conversation via text. He adds me on Facebook. Whenever he thinks I am unhappy he tries to cheer me up online. I still don't take it as anything as him wanting to be friends. Anyhow this weekend gone I am out in a club with friends when who should I bump into but Mr Libra. I say Hi and thats it. He does not leave me alone all night. He hangs around everywhere I go and its a big club!! I then leave. I did not want the awkwardness of goodbye, plus the fact I did not trust myself around him after one too many drinks. I text him to say "Was good to see you but I've had enough x" he texts me the next day to say he was sorry for getting jealous over the guys trying to dance with me it is not my place!! I hadn't even noticed he was jealous. So text him to say just that. He tells me he wanted to kiss me as soon as he saw me. I then went on after this encouragement to say that he will always have a special place in my heart. He replied that he felt the very same. I then went on to tell him that he had broke my heart all those months ago. He replied by saying he did not know that I felt as serious about him as that. I told him I knew and hadn't I hid it well!! So I then go on to say that I just want him to be happy and I'm sorry I couldn't make him happy. That he was right to end it and stay true to himself. Thats when the communication stops......nothing. Not a "take care". I wish you well. Nothing.

Sorry I know its long!!

I won't deny I still have very strong feelings for him. But had accepted that it was over and respected his decision. So after mulling it over I start second guessing myself. Maybe he wanted to try again. Maybe he was just toying with me. Blah blah blah. Anyhow today his facebook status reads Mr Libra has been known to put happy over good.... What does it mean— I can not believe he has got under my skin again.

Michelle

Best guess is that he thinks he blew it.

I wouldn't do anything. Eventually, he will pull his head out of his ass ... if he doesn't ... you will move on and he will be uncomfortable until he does.

Thankyou little sparrow. I have too much pride to put myself on the line after he was the one that dumped me. I can not stand how those darn Libra guys talk in riddles!! This was the second Libra to break my heart. I'm drawn to them like a moth to a flame lol

Well, I always thought that libra the the diplomatic sort. Anyway, an aries friend, same gender by the way so don't mistake it, has been a bit cold lately. I think he knows that i'm mad at him for breaking my PSP(total accident). Maybe I was too cold or something.

Thing is, I don't stay mad that long. Maybe i'll send him a phone call instead of texting him.

The first hidden message is the same as this. But for a spelling error.

I just don't understand the whole text "conversation". The time it took to go back and forth with text took longer than had someone picked up the phone and called.

Thanks for your replies.

Houstonpeach: I think you will find the whole texting thing is a Uk thing. I believe we spend more on texting then talking lol

nov_scorp: I think you may be right. I messaged him online last to ask outright ( I'm such your typical brash Aries lol) whether the Facebook status was referring to us. He will either a) not answer or b) give me a riddle of an answer. I'm kinda wishing I never asked cos after thinking about it I don't know if I could go back to all those misunderstandings. We see things too differently. I will let you know anyhow if he replies or not. He is probably in a blind panic trying to decided what to say lol