No Patience... 4 Libras balancing acT

Im seriously tired of wating for this libra I met 4 months ago... to deicde if he wants to start a relationship with me. He has explained all the things that he has to take into account before he would consider starting a realationship , with me or anyone for that matter. From recent bad break up to a possible move. But he likes spending time with me and all that. I just dont see how people live like this... weighing this and that! Cant a Libra just throw caution to the "wind" and live off insticnt! GeeZ..

I know someone out there feels my pain..lol

((But he likes spending time with me and all that. I just dont see how people live like this... weighing this and that! Cant a Libra just throw caution to the "wind" and live off insticnt! GeeZ..))

I felt the same way about ex-libra. I just didn't get why he did the things he did. What's your sign? You sound like a Leo.

I felt the same way about ex-libra. I just didn't get why he did the things he did. What's your sign? You sound like a Leo.
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Nope No Leo... Just a impatient Gemini. But yeah theres more to the story... like a big thing with his ex. But im definately not gonna stop my life for him. id b old n gray lol..by the time he makes up his mind.

((like a big thing with his ex.))

There is always a ex somewhere in the background... LOL

I waited six months for my libra, than he finally asked me out. Well, actually I didn't wait, I was like were friends cool, I think everyone on a friend level. But ya, now he's playing games cause I'm moving, push and pull shit, it's fucking annoying so I'm cutting him loose. But yours sounds he's really into you, I'd go for it.

yall have already established a relationship. Be it friendship or whatever... Since he is being so hesitant abt going to the next level, u should move on to someone who's more up to your speed..


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yeah i woulda been gone.. but i gotta thing for him *wink. thats the only thing keepin me around...

plus i know he likes me but hes had a rocky past with exes.. I honestly think hes a lil scared of my free spirit. Thinking theres no way I could lock this one down..seein as all his other exes cheated on him.

YOU KNOW THIS WHAT CONFUSES ME ABOUT PEOPLE WHO COME IN CHAT ABOUT LIBRA'S.....
I HAVE BEEN WITH THIS LIBRA FOR ALMOST THREE YEARS AND WE MET IN HIGH SCHOOL AND I AM A SAGITTARIUS SO I DID NOT RUSH THE RELATIONSHIP THING AT ALL...MAN THAT LIBRA WANTED ME BAD HE SAID THAT HE COULD NOT WAIT AND JUST BE FREINDS HE WANTED ME NOW....THAT AGRESSIVENESS PULLED ME PUT THEN AGAIN WE HAD AN IMMEDIATE ATTRACTION FROM DAY 1 I MEAN INSTANT CHEMISTRY BUT THEN AGAIN I WAS SO DAMN SEXY TO HIM HE COULD NOT RESIST.....I COULD NOT RESIST HIM HE WAS SEXY TO.....WE HAD A REAL STRONG ATTRACTION.....BUT I MWAN I BELIEVE IF A LIBRA REALLY WANT SOMETHING THEY WILL GO FOR IT AND I BELIEVE THAT BECAUSE IF HE TAKEN THAT LONG TO TALK TO U THEN HE STILL INLOVE WITH SOMEONE, U MAY NOT BE DOING SOMETHING RIGHT, HE MIGHT NOT WANT TO HURT UR FELLINGS SO HE JUST SAYS HE DOESNT KNOW I MEAN HELL IF THEY WANT U TRUST ME THEY GO GET U AND U WILL BE GOTTEN THEY T DAMN SEXY AND CHARMING...I MEAN IF THEY LOVE BEAUTY TO AND I BELIEVE THAT IF THE ATTRACTION AINT STRONG ENOUGH AND YALL ARE NOT ON THE SAME TRACKS ARE HAVE A LITTLE IN COMMON THEN THAT'S SHOT TO HELL HE GOT U WAITIN 4 MONTHS MAN THAT LIBRA IS STILL IN LOVE ARE SOMETHYING...BECAUSE THEY NORMALLY DONT WAIT THAT LONG TO GET WHAT THEY WANT ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE INTO U ARE ATTRACTED TO U SO U BETTER SIT AND THINK ABOUT THIS ONE CUZ LIBRA MIGHT BE STILL IN LOVE AND NOT OVER A RELATIONSHIP ARE MAY NOT BE IN TO U LIKE THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG CUZ IT IS TAKING LIBRA WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY TO LONG

U REALLY BET TO THINK ABOUT THIS ONE AND RESEARCH MORE

what everyone is saying about libras has been true with this guy. He wanted my attention he got it. He wanted my company he got it. He wanted a kiss he got it. He has definately been relentless about getting me where he wants me or keeping me around. I am by no means sticking around cause he is ignoring me.. THat IS DEfinATEly not the case.

He text me calls me wants to hang out ALL the time. But no talk of relationship, doesnt wanna talk about his ex. He just wants me around its so strange....

im thinking yella is right

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HE TAKEN THAT LONG TO TALK TO U THEN HE STILL INLOVE WITH SOMEONE,

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but im starting to feel like a charity case/ when I respond to text or go to the movies with him.. like we've already been past the friends mark.. n he knows that. I can usually figure people out quick.. but this guy has me confused. Cause his actions are saying I like you ALOT... but time just keeps on ticking like hes waiting for something..ionno

whyd u hide your comment sag89 lol... it was good advice.

Oh good, I got shy haha

DEEZIRED BEFORE I TALK IM NOT SHOUTING THIS IS JUST HOW I TYPE ON THE REAL SO IM NOT SHOUTING....

BUT I NOTICED U SAID THAT U ARE FEELING LIKE A CHARITY CASE...WELL YEAH BE CAREFUL WITH THAT TO....I AM CLOSE A LIBRA GUY WHO IS STILL INOVE WITH HIS EX TODAY AND WAS FINDING WAYS TO GET OVER HER AND COULD NOT GIVE GIRLS AN HONEST ANSWER BECAUSE HE WAS STILL INLOVE AND TRTING TO FIGHT IT BUT IT WAS DEFINETLY WAY TO STRONG HE WAS INLOVE.....BUT HONESLTY HE IS WAITING TO LONG AND IM BE HONEST IF I WERE U I WOULD HAVE TO ASK UNLESS HE REALLY TREATIN U LIKE A FREIND AND U DONT WANT TO RUIN IT ARE MAKE UR SELF LOOK DUMB?


BUT HONESTLY LIBRA'S LOVE HANGING OUT WITH PEOPLE THAT ARE JUST AS LAID BACK AS THEM AND THEY MAKE THEM FREINDS AND FROM THE LOOKS OF IT THAT OLD FLAME HAS HIS HEART AND U WELL JUST HAVE HIS FREINDSHIP...HE REALLY ENJOYS U AND UR COMPANY BECAUSE U GO WITH THE FLOW WHICH IS WHAT LIBRA'S DO.....BUT U NEED TO STUDY INTO IT MORE U ARE A FEMALE AND I THINK THAT MEN MAKE IT OBVIOUS WHEN THEY WANT U BUT LIBRA MEN GET CONFUSING...I AM A SAG AND MY MOON SIGN IS SCORPIO SO I RESEARCH U KNOW U GET SUPICIOUS ABOUT ALOT SO I DIG IN MORE SO THAT I CAN MAKE SURE TO SEE THINGS ARE WHAT THEY SEEM ARE MAY NOT BE WHAT THEY SEEM ALL THAT STUFF...BUT JUST BE CAREFUL BECAUSE U MIGHT JUST BE COOL AS FEMALE TO HIM AND A FREIND AND THE EX SEEMS TO STILL HAVE THIS LIBRA'S HEART...THE EX MIGHT NOT HAVE ACCEPTED LIBRA BACK YET BUT LET ME TELL U WHEN SHE COMES BACK U WILL KNOW BECAUSE LIBRA WILL BE LESS AVAILABLE AND VERY LOYAL TO HIS TRUE LOVE...HE SEEMS TO JUST BE WAITING ON HER?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA thanks ashleysagstar. Yeah, I guess I write something and if no one responds, I'm like...oh shit, I offended some stranger hahaha, but yeah I get what you mean thanks for making me feel welcome to the DXP!🙂

the girl is not in the same state at the time. He is also leaving within a year or 2. So he would rather keep things casual with anyone he meets which is understandable. Plus you know he just got out of a long term relationship. But Im just confused,because I have alot of caution when entering or contemplating a relationship with someone new. But then again... when im with him.. i never want to leave. I just want to take what we have and run with it..

ionno what to do either walk away or ... stick around and risk looking dumb.

Yeah, we'll your not gonna marry the guy, so have some fun! No one can make you look dumb if your just having some fun!

i def agree sag lol .. good thing i read that one before u hide it.

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