Who the hell does Libra think he is—

Okay, I told you about how I was seeing this Libra and than all of a sudden he decided to go back to his ex. So here I am doing my own thing since than and let him be on his marry way....right. Whatever

Well I get a message from him today. He is telling me basically that his life sucks. He lost this great job he just landed and now his woman is really mad at him for taking the job. My response was .....like dude what do you want me to do about it? I basically said "Look I am really sorry about your job loss and your GF are mad at you but I am not the constellation stad-by girl when all else goes bad ....can you believe he actually thinks I would welcome with open amrs—


WTF ....is he crazy—

I think so. LOL

M

wats his ex's zodiac—

dunno ....and I am not sure if I care ....no what I mean?

Last I knew he was working out with his ex .....and pretty much blew me off. The gull to thinkI would be around.

M

well you gotta find out. rest of your decisions can be based upon that..

"well you gotta find out. rest of your decisions can be based upon that.."

WTF—?? Are you crazy—? My decision was based on when he blew me off to go back to his ex. I basically told him that I was not the stand-by girl and I sincerely wished him well with all his drama but I have since moved on and reminded him I am a real human being with emotions.

Seriously, I don't even care what the sign of his current drama mate is.....You snooze you loose. I am just astonished that he has the odosity to come around asking me how I am doing and burdening me with his drama. Seriously .....do you Libra's think we stick around waiting around for your asses to come around when your drama becomes too much?

PD

If you really dont care like you say, why did you cared to post this thread?? 😛

Wondering if this is a common Libra thing .......are you all crazy like him— Seriously .......what is he thinking?

I seriously did not care.......just totally surprised me .....that he thinks I would be glad to hear from him.

I honestly will NEVER play second fiddle to ANY man ....whether he is a libra or whatever zodiac sign.

PD

hence the title of this thread "What the hell is he thinking?" This is not topic of someone who really cares. ;P

Trust me I have not been sitting around playing my sad violin waiting for him to come back.

PD

😛 lol. why do u care what he is thinking if u r through? 😛

lol

I DONT CARE!!!! That is why I told him to buzz off.

PD

Trust me if I cared .......I would be waiting with open arms .......The post is to demonstrate and find a common trait with Libras.....nothing more or less.

PD

There is no second chance for this libra. I am not going to be one of these poor pathetic chicks who goes around with the heart in her hand going ......what happened? I honestly see it done wayyyyyyyyy to much in real life with libra men. I am telling you Libras generally like someone to be a real beotch to them .......they are sadistic. That is not me ......coz I am not crazy. That song by Gnarls Barley 'Crazy' was written for Libras. 😛

PD

I can see why the combo of fish and scales don't work .....Fish don't put up with this shit.

PD

Here's my confusion. If you're done with him and don't care what he thinks, why waste the energy to post this thread? Of course you care or you wouldn't care to wonder if this is a Libra trait.....MHO.

You all have a twisted way of viewing caring. Caring is wanting someone to be in your life and wondering how they are doing, and care about their well being.

That is what is confusing .......because

1 - I am sorry he is going through a bad time ....but his drama is not my drama ......wish him the best but I am not interested in partaking in his drama

2 - If I cared I would have been glad to hear from him and probably continued on with conversation instead of telling him farewell.

3 - If I cared I would have probably met up with him and comforted him in his time of need. I have not done this or intend to do so.

4 - If I cared I would be interested in his unhealthy relationship with his ex. I don't care if he goes back to her AGAIN or if he leaves her.

5 - If I cared I could not wait to see him again. I don't ever want to see him again or even have contact with him.

Conclusion, the bottom line my partaking in a relationship with him has RED flags all over it. He is not finished with his current romance ...hence I would be the rebound girl. I am not interested in this. He has a history of back and forth with ex ....not something I am interested in. He is confused and I am sorry for that.

He is a great guy and we had great sexual and intellectual chemistry, but all the other stuff is more than I am willing to deal with. My heart could be at stake if I dived into that danger zone and I just did not find reason enough to gamble ......to much risk. It is easy to find people whom you have great chemistry with and not have that cargo attached.

So if that is your view of point of someone caring ......wow ......just imagine if I did care.

I don't know if it is my aries moon or my pisces sun, when I am done.....I am done. There is only one person from my past who hurt me that I would ever consider bringing back in my life ......and that is the Sag I met a few years ago. That is someone I care about deeply even if he is not with me. Libra did nothing to earn that kind of loyalty in me....especially with throwing me to the side while he went back to ex.

PD

HP - Just because I am posting about my experience about a Libra does not equate to caring. Read above ^^^

Besides I am venting so to speak on this thread and doing nothing with Libra....not sure how you all equate that to caring. Again read above ^^^

PD

oooooookie doke.

ok

How was your relationship with him from the get go- you know they are very unbalanced

ooooo I did really like him at one point. That point faded when he walked away. That is why I am not so sure that he thought that point was so sharp. I am not here to stroke his ego. Distance will either make the heart grow fonder ......or far away. In this sense ....it is far away. That is why I think his ego is very huge to think I would be waiting in the midst.....just sitting waiting for him.

PD

BTW - ArianLatay .....thank you!!!! I WAS FINALLY HEARD. LOL

Don't get me wrong I got along great with Libra. Excellent chemistry. It is just my rule of thumb to NEVER play second fiddle. I don't ever want to be the girl who is the constellation prize when his heart was with someone else to begin with. Perhaps it is my own ego. Perhaps it is just healthy self-esteem. I honestly want to find a man who holds me in equal esteem. I don't ever want there to be an imbalance of love and care for one another. Make sense. It is my Piscean nature to analyze stuff way too much. I will say the short amount of time Libra and I spent together was pretty fantastic. It was good memories with him.

sounds like a guy thing to me, sweetie. detach. move on.

BRAVO:***** It is just my rule of thumb to NEVER play second fiddle. I don't ever want to be the girl who is the constellation prize when his heart was with someone else to begin with. Perhaps it is my own ego. Perhaps it is just healthy self-esteem. I honestly want to find a man who holds me in equal esteem****

You have a very HEALTHY self respecting level of high esteem!!!Congrats!! You make an EXCELLENT point of wanting to know/understand WHY libras assume they can just pop back into your life after you move on. Why do they do this again and again— I vote: " they do it to placate their ego". Because the point you stated is: He's currently with another woman in a relationship that's having some strain so why is he trying to open up communication with an ex-GF (Pisces_D)?? Or any other woman besides the current"GF"?? Isn't this the question? The libra board is full of threads of women asking this same question again and again but you Libras fail to answer it again and again. That's why it keeps coming up!

When there is a breakup with a Libra......and the other person is trying to move on, and just when you think they're gone from you life for good........Libra pops back up into your life again. WTF??

Sorry if I offend my Libra friends here in stating this but dang it........it really, really is a Libra thing whether you want to admit it or not. To some varying degree you all do it! The question is: BUT WHY,WHY, WHY do you do it—?

The Libra man is quite possibly the only man I'd ever wait for. Being a Gemini, that's really tough for me to admit!

Yes it's a Libran trait, we think that people will care for us forever probably because we do think about you all even after the fact of what we may have unintentionally done to hurt you. I know when I'm thinking about an ex I always remember the good stuff and I guess that's what will make me wonder what they are up to... but like drunk texting it's taboo to go there...

Glad though that you are strong enough to realise you are better than what this person wants you around for. Stick to your guns and YES I believe you can care for someone that you have been intimate with but not want anything further from them. It even annoys me when guys are coming back into exs lives for their own self fish reasons and it's not only Librans that do it!!!

Why because when were down we need to feel better so were bored and we look for an easy target to talk to us. atleast till we fill better about ourself but once were back up .poof were out of there lol yep mental stimulation yep but I'm a libra 3 so atleast that's how we fill the last true 1oo percent libras

I can truly understand your anger or animosity towards him. But perhaps maybe if you would have waited to hear him out you could've known what his true intentions were. I've went back to ex's or people I've talked to but not to rekindle. It was simply because I missed something about them, not the relationship in particular though. Oh no, and when they get it twisted into thinking that that's what I'm doing. I find it humorous. Especially if "I" was the one that ended it in the first place. Anyway if I go back to them to try and be cool or something and they aren't willing, then my thoughts will be like this "Fair enough. I only missed (blank) about/with them anyway, Hope they good, or hope everything goes good for them" but I won't be pissed or hurt that they didn't want to talk to me. If you and him were friends, or if you listened and supported him during your courtship with him, or if he felt comfortable telling you his problems (which libra's a very picky about) then that's probably why he reached out to you. He just needed to vent to someone whom he felt wouldn't judge him, because as you can see his girl is pissed. Surely he's getting what he had coming, but im just saying this is most likely his reasoning behind reaching out to you.

Think PD well and truly moved on after this Leeb for sure lol

Hate it when someone pulls up old threads for no apparent reason!