what does Mr Libra mean by this ?

Guys help me out here, is this guy in love with me or not!

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We're friends and i love you even if you're seeing someone else. It shouldnt and it wont take away from the bond we have formed in the past few months.

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He's never ever said he loves me before!!! Ever!!!!!!!

I don't have time for games no more? I don't have time to waste on this anymore

fuck it

I'm laughing my ass off right now, why do I get fooled so easily

He has never ever used that word with me, he's given me all sorts of things but not the I love you bit that was kind of shocking!? he has a girlfriend and sometimes the friends part I think he uses as a cover up for his guilt of falling for me while he is with someone else

This a shame? I'm walking away

Flip flop so what do you think he means ? he's confused or he's not confused ? you know confused is good! If I get him confused then that's a good sign where I'm concerned!!! LOLOL

I heard that Libra is looking for a friend in a partner and somehow I thought this would be the way to his heart ?

Sheesh kebab!!!

LOLOL

Thanks coppy I appreciate your input hun, I still feel though there was a big thing for him to spill out to a friend——??!!!!!!!!

But I could be wrong

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the reality has to be compatible with the waffle.

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ahahahahaha

I like that part! AGREED.

P.S>>>>> I am not seeing anyone at the monet, but Mr Libra don't have to know nothing about that right now!!

LOLOLOL I'm having so much fun with this

Wow very insightful!! thank you flip flop

Now he is sulking and mad with me and refusing to talk to me because I had a date with someone else..

Why would you be mad at a friend for starting to see another person ?

bizarreeee

Oh hes just playing games.

When a LIbra says they love you it does not mean they are "in love" with you....there is a HUGE difference.

If he's with somebody else walk away - why are you even wondering about this? Libras love everybody (well most LOL).

Dont lose any more sleep over this one.....he's not that mad at you - he has no right to be .... what he wants is for you to sit on the sidelines waiting for HIM but he can see others? pffffftttt....tell him to go....well never mind.

Read other posts on here and you'll see theh ride you're about to go on if you continue even fantasizing about the idea.

you guys are hillarious! I'm diggin this honestly

so what you all are saying is those words mean nothing to Libra, to say to someone I love you means nothing to Libra

I don't say that to someone I have known for two months no I don't think, not someone of the opposite sex.... i can say that to very few very close long time friends and family

But in anycase, I'm feeling this

And Chatz, I found him with someone already, we are not yet officially anything and I don't have much expectation... I was just wondering what I should do with this new information from him

I think I'm getting some good ideas here

thanks guys

So what are some of the signs that will help me know if he has fallen in love with me

he has said he likes me

and then another time he said it, and then followed it with .. as a friend

I was like ..ah

And then now he uses the owrd love

what the fuck

Im certainly not saying it means "nothing".....but unless his actions match his words? ummmmm....dont read anything into it.

My Libra said I love you after 9 months...yep 9 months we were seeing one another then one day he said I love you....yep my heart did backflips and I went crazy trying to figure it all out....then off he went when I wanted to be "serious"....he said "Im not ready for a relationship"....continued for another 3 months, got over it and walked away....now after 8 months of no contact he comes back into my life...why? still not sure...maybe he wants to tell me he loves me again and then go again?? LOL

My heart doesnt do backflips anymore though....Im happy to be a friend....I think they make AMAZING friends, just not any more.

you asked if he is in love with you based on those words....the answer is no.

he may love you dearly, but he's not in love with you. when one is in love, they say the words, they don't skirt it.

WOW you guys! I feel really enlightened

I could never be too careful

Thank you fo this

WOW you guys! I feel really enlightened

I could never be too careful

Thank you fo this

Ok guys I am also playing here? I am deeply in love with him I would give him the world, literally, but obviously I have to cover my tracks at this stage! LOLOL

I wrote him an email the other day with something like :

?I appreciate our friendship a lot, I hope you know I don't need anything more than that.?

This is intentional to just keep him uncomfortable and figuring out how on earth he could ever win my love!! LOLOL

Is it possible he might be covering his tracks too?

Ahhhhh the joys and the pains of seduction! I'm happy to accept if he is not, honestly, I just don't wanna fool myself thats all

xoxoxoxoxox

It's exhausting? I'm exhausted guys

I wish I could just take a break from him, Libra is hard work!

I wish I could just do work on myself and make me happy! But I don't want to lose him

thelibran

talk to me

lol. find out wats his ex's zodiac if you really want to know what are the possibilities. its not easy for a libra to leave his past behind all of a sudden. we will keep traveling back and forth for a while. Just to make things easy for our ex as well as ourselves. You will have to live with that for a while. pisces-libra is not a bad combo. so may be you will have to prepare yourself to invest a bit more time, effort and understanding into it.

Ok,

You nailed it.

This thread's now closed

LOLOLOLOL

He's testing the pisces waters. When all the other "verbal flowers" of flattery haven't got you hooked on him yet... he'll come on strong with some words to "charm you" like ...throwing the L word out there ! And NO it does not mean he is "in love" with you at all. Nobody else throws that word out there loosely but a Libra. It's manipulation but in Libra-Land it's called...uhm..."CHARM". They'll say whatever they think you want to hear and you'll be swimming straight for them if you fall for it.

Recognize it for what it is......just verbal flowers. He loves you in a FRIENDLY way. Nothing more!!!!!! Don't delude yourself into believing he is saying it because most everyone else doesn't use the word unless they really mean it.

Hey, He eventually could fall for you but you'll also have to remember you'll be sharing him probably with someone else or even several others.

Unless his actions are backing up his words .........their just words. It just means you are special (of course you are). But you are NOT the women he is "in love with". Get it?
He's with someone else right? Then pay attention to the red flag and NOT the flowery words!

damn.. i got it confused. thought it was same thread as pisces_dream. apologies.

wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! templeofjaguar

wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOLOLOLOLOL

templeofjaguar, what kind of actions should I look for to back up his words... like calling me and sending me flowers or something ? I don't really like that corny stuff and I heard Libra is a helpless romantic and I just wonder when will I ever see the romantic

when he does fall for me, what will be the signs to look out for ? pls help me here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOLOLOL

thelibran, you can still comment hun

Guys

I have decided to start opening up some line of communication with him, and I have decided instead of relying so much on guesswork, I will ask my Libra directly some of these questions

We are really close and trust each other as friends, why would it be so hard to just ask someone : do you think you might have some feelings for me ? I mean why can't we all just be honest. Even if it's intruding, I could also ask him about his other woman... would he answer me truthfully ? hmmmmmmm

And if he says no, great! Why can't life work like that...

I'll be honest with him too

ahhhhhhhhhh what do you guys think! LOLOL there i'm asking again

ok maybe this won't work... LOLOLOL

lots of love

ohh and I also learnt that Uranus rules Libra's house of true love

Uranus is in Pisces until 2012 I think!!!! Is this some kind of co incidence or something

I think we are really falling in love with each other!

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we even accoommodate each other's oddness sometimes... I tolerate his intellectual abstractness sometimes and he can stand my sentimental dreamy nature, he responds to it with such undertsanding and tolerance 😢((((((((

he must love me!!!!!!!!!!! LOLOLOLOLOL

ok I'm sorry i've compltely diverted and lost it

LOLOLOL

Libra's dont use the Love word not unless they mean it! He is not in love with you YET, but he loves ya babay!

Now stay focused and play the game right.