hello!its me again with a libra scare first off let me say read my topic love or hate this libra 2 get a lil understanding of the libra guy that i use 2 date i finally released my aries wrath on him yesterday but it wasnt in action i did mostly talk and a few threats i said some mean and cruel things 2 him so mean that i feel bad 4 even saying them an i also threatn him that i would let the whole town know about his deep dark secrets that me and him did together what sort of scared me some was the fact that he didnt say 1 word back and trust me the words i used would had made any 1 click off and the theats he knows that if i release what i know it would put him 2 shame.so do any 1 think hes hurt by the things i sayd?or is he takin it all in so later he can try an hurt me?
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thanks guys 4 the comments and yes im gladly moving on from mr.libra he was a pain in the butt 4 3yrs but i never in my wildest dreams that he was such a liar and a manipulator i never thought that he would b that way towards me after we have known each other so long i do feel sort of bad 4 roasting him yesterday but i also feel he deserved every bit of it 4 one i tought we agreed 2 move on in peace that didnt work he goes around town bashing me 4 things i did 17yrs ago and then he had the nerve 2 text my phone askn 4 sex thats what made me click off i ask him y r u textn me when u have a wife an other outsiders he told me fuk u and when he sayd that i went off he didnt say 1 word he just held the phone the reason im a lil scared because hes og blood an if hes angry with some 1 all he has 2 do is tell his goons 2 do what ever and they will do it i have 2 b in his city nxt week i dnt want drama matter of fact my team who im with all the time none of them likes him 4 the way hes treatd me i just dont understand if we decided 2 move on in peace y is he bad mouthing me and askn 4 sex? do most inmature libra men act that way?

Well one, think about what you were trying to accomplish when you went crazy on him & translate that into what you're going to get back from him in return.
And it's true, Libras aren't usually the ones who are constantly thinking about how they're going to get their partner's back (in terms of revenge) when their partner's have hurt them, especially with words. If anything, if you let a Libra know that you are intentionally trying to verbally tear them down, they'll give you just what you asked for. They'll hold on to those words & harp on the hurt for a long time. Of course some Libras would've given you the wrath right back in return, but be careful of the ones who don't b/c that symbolizes a deep hurt/wound that may not be able to be forgiven or forgotten, especially if what was said was unnecessary & irrelevant.
Now, on the other hand, if everything you were saying (although HOW you said those things was cruel) was true then he got silent on you b/c he knew what you were saying was true. And if he's never seen that side of you before (you being so bold & so cruel) then that explains why he gave you the silent treatment. Libras are easily offended and hurt, especially by their loved ones b/c Libras who are truly in love almost let their whole world revolve around their partner. And the minute they sense that their partners are not satisfied or that something they've done has upset their partners to the extreme, then they'll beat themselves up about it for a long time. But it all depends on how mature & acknowledging of faults your Libra is
And it's true, Libras aren't usually the ones who are constantly thinking about how they're going to get their partner's back (in terms of revenge) when their partner's have hurt them, especially with words. If anything, if you let a Libra know that you are intentionally trying to verbally tear them down, they'll give you just what you asked for. They'll hold on to those words & harp on the hurt for a long time. Of course some Libras would've given you the wrath right back in return, but be careful of the ones who don't b/c that symbolizes a deep hurt/wound that may not be able to be forgiven or forgotten, especially if what was said was unnecessary & irrelevant.
Now, on the other hand, if everything you were saying (although HOW you said those things was cruel) was true then he got silent on you b/c he knew what you were saying was true. And if he's never seen that side of you before (you being so bold & so cruel) then that explains why he gave you the silent treatment. Libras are easily offended and hurt, especially by their loved ones b/c Libras who are truly in love almost let their whole world revolve around their partner. And the minute they sense that their partners are not satisfied or that something they've done has upset their partners to the extreme, then they'll beat themselves up about it for a long time. But it all depends on how mature & acknowledging of faults your Libra is

Dont feel bad for what you did, he wont be feeling bad for you and everything you will be going through in the next 3-6 months trying to get over him. Now just concentrate on healing yourself, it's not easy but you have to build up a resistance to him for when he calls you again...and a typical Libran will! Be Strong!
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