Oh no Mr Libra is Back!!

Have not been to his bar for over 2mths nor ran into him. My feelings towards him have cooled. I dont really think about him anymore.
Now he's back intouch,he asked for a app at my firm on monday and asked to be booked in with me. I was made aware of this on tuesday afternoon but I left it....trying to think it over. Today he emailed me and asked if I am aware he want to see me on monday 18th @ 4pm and can I please find a space for him. I left it for 2hrs then emailed him back asking if he can come in @ 3pm. He emailed back immediately saying he need the app to be @ 4pm,because he would like us to go for a coffee after wards,and that will gaurantee he will be the last client I see that day.
I have not replied...because I dont know if I should see him. I just feel numb,my aries his due home in 2hrs and am planning to run this by him.
Mmmmmm.😢

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Haha. So umm.. you have a boyfriend.. and you gonna ask him if you can go out with your other boyfriend that isn't really a boyfriend but you can't really say no because, lets face it, there are still some wet spots in your vag for him. Ooomph. Must be hard to be a chick 😛

Oh I am not planning on going out with him for coffee. I just want to see if my aries will be ok with me seeing him @ 4pm. Purely business.

Posted by THEKingofLibra

Posted by FemmeScorpion

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Haha. So umm.. you have a boyfriend.. and you gonna ask him if you can go out with your other boyfriend that isn't really a boyfriend but you can't really say no because, lets face it, there are still some wet spots in your vag for him. Ooomph. Must be hard to be a chick 😛

Oh I am not planning on going out with him for coffee. I just want to see if my aries will be ok with me seeing him @ 4pm. Purely business.

I know how these things go down.. A smile here, a hand rubs on yours, then feelings emerge and before that coffee cup is empty you banging in the restroom

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What a vivid imagination you've got. 😢
What the heck is his motive?

Mmmmm men!!

Why does he have to see you? Tell him to make an appointment with someone else in the company. You and this Libra have some type of history together. There were feelings there on both sides at one point and there still are at least some. Look, if you're done with this guy and getting married with your Aries then just tell the Libra to buzz off. If you are dealing with him in business (mistake in my opinion) keep it 100% business, no coffee dates after work etc.

Posted by LibraSid
Why does he have to see you? Tell him to make an appointment with someone else in the company. You and this Libra have some type of history together. There were feelings there on both sides at one point and there still are at least some. Look, if you're done with this guy and getting married with your Aries then just tell the Libra to buzz off. If you are dealing with him in business (mistake in my opinion) keep it 100% business, no coffee dates after work etc.

I completely understand what your saying but the last time,he saw someone different they messed up his accounts and I had to sort it out. My manager insisted I sorted it as he was in my pirtfolio. Its silly but I cant go to my manager and say sorry I cant see ths guy because we had a past. Not sure what he wants though. The last time when he was been spiteful and a jerk,he went to the other branch and saw someone else.

Why can't the work situation be helped?

Why can't you go to your manager and say, "This customer is trying to take our interaction beyond the professional realm and I am no longer comfortable dealing with them. I respect the fact that they are a customer and would be glad to assist whoever is assigned to this client but I cannot be the lead on this account"? That's generic enough to be used no matter what you are doing.

Stop thinking about this as someone you have a history with and think about it as any other customer. What if other customers wanted your last appointment of the day so that they could take you out when you got off? It is inappropriate for a vendor/customer relationship. Even in an environment where a sales person is taking a client out after hours there is still a level of professionalism required. He runs his own business so whether the client is him or his bar... it is him. It's not like he'll get in trouble with his boss. Tell him to buzz off... unless you do want to just keep him around for drama.

I was trying to be nice 🙂

I will speak to my boss-not that it will do much good.😢

I agree that you should talk to your boss. The fact he sent you an email saying he wants the last appointment of the day so you can go out to coffee together afterwards is clearly pushing beyond the busisness-appropriate behavior in the first place. Could always say to your boss...
"If you want me to act like a call girl then I need to be paid like one.." Money always seems to talk with bosses.

Or you could just be an adult, conduct business and bid him good day. Stop stressing over it and just do the job, snap shut the briefcase and say 'Sorted, have a good afternoon on behalf of the firm'. Walk on out the door.

My libra did this to me for many years. You gotta cut him off completely. Are you wondering why he wants to see you b/c maybe he still wants to be with you? Cuz that's what I kept thinking each time my libra asked me to see him. I realized that he just wanted to keep me around. I cut him off completely, got over him, bumped into him recently, and I felt nothing for this dude. It was an amazing feeling 😄

I am very good at my job-my boss,aries n libra knows this.
I have learnt never to mix business n personal. I did have the convo with my aries,asked if he had any objections to me conducting a app
With the libra. He replied why would he? I should do my job,flash him my mega watt smile n bid him goodbye!

Posted by lookoutbelow84093
I agree that you should talk to your boss. The fact he sent you an email saying he wants the last appointment of the day so you can go out to coffee together afterwards is clearly pushing beyond the busisness-appropriate behavior in the first place. Could always say to your boss...
"If you want me to act like a call girl then I need to be paid like one.." Money always seems to talk with bosses.

lol.....Its hard to explain it,but my firm see the —— b4 anything else. And he's a valuable client.
However as a professional,my intention is to see him on monday close the sale then bid him farewell.
Last time he asked for a 4pm app it ran over unil 5.30pm. My office closes @ 5pm. My aim on monday is to keep things concise-although @ times I dont have much control esp if he's going to have 21 question.

she must have some good pussy

"Are you wondering why he wants to see you b/c maybe he still wants to be with you?" Cuz that's what I kept thinking each time my libra asked me to see him. I realized that he just wanted to keep me around. I cut him off completely, got over him, bumped into him recently, and I felt nothing for this dude. It was an amazing feeling 😄



Hell no,we cant be together....its just not feasible. There's just soo much history and bad blood between me and him.
The games,been spiteful,pulling the jealousy card,ignoring each other etc etc etc etc.
The good thing about him,his he always confess why he does stuff. It would be closure to find out why he acted or said suff BUT who am i kidding. In doing that I possibly will be opening a can of worm.

I dont even see this as an issue unless you have no self control. He probably doesnt even see you like that anymore. Personally when I say coffee I mean coffee. Libra's often like to check in on their ex's just to see how there doing or out of curiosity, I definately do this. Or they want to go to the person they know who can definately get the job done right, saves them trying to make a decision about who else to go to lol. Yeah sometimes its because there fishing for some sex but I dont think "coffee" is enough to suggest this unless there was a wink or something— I dont see why this is all being blown out of proportion. He said he would like to go for coffee, why didnt you just email back saying "the appointment is fine but the coffee isnt" if you dont want to go?

I only see there being a problem if deep down you actually want him, which if thats true then you have a bigger issue to deal with.

Posted by libra sun
I dont even see this as an issue unless you have no self control. He probably doesnt even see you like that anymore. Personally when I say coffee I mean coffee. Libra's often like to check in on their ex's just to see how there doing or out of curiosity, I definately do this. Or they want to go to the person they know who can definately get the job done right, saves them trying to make a decision about who else to go to lol. Yeah sometimes its because there fishing for some sex but I dont think "coffee" is enough to suggest this unless there was a wink or something— I dont see why this is all being blown out of proportion. He said he would like to go for coffee, why didnt you just email back saying "the appointment is fine but the coffee isnt" if you dont want to go?

I only see there being a problem if deep down you actually want him, which if thats true then you have a bigger issue to deal with.

No ones blowing anything out of proportion....I guess most ppl are just saying to not conduct the app or to conduct the app and leave it @ that.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Have a nice day too 🙂

Your as crazy as your avatar!!lol

So something as crop up which will result in me having the wk off work (family emergency). So I need to juggle my apps-see if I can reshedule clients in or get one of my colleague to see them instead.
Out of courtesy I email mr libra. That do to a family emergency,I will be off work tomorrow. However another advisor will be able to see him. They will phone him tomorrow to confirm. Sorry for any inconvience cause.

He emailed back,I can see you on tuesday,if thats ok with you.
Damn what shall I do now? Email back and say sorry but I wont be able to see you tues,weds,or the rest of the wk.
Am sure he's going to take it has me brushing him off.

Advice needed.😢

Posted by everevolvingepithet
You need to take the week of for a personal issue.
It's a professional email/contact.
Problem solved.
🙂

Ok thanks. Just thought my 1st email would have sorted it. Am tempted to just leave it now.

Posted by DazedScorp
My advice? You're a scorpe, kill three birds with one stone. Business, coffee, orgasm....in the coat room 🙂

Tutu am been serious here.🙂

I dont want to be with the libra and am really happy that the time I had away from him as help to dissolve how I felt about him. However I know he will see it as a brush off. And i dont want to explain that am having a wk off work,so cant see him the following day.
I seriously thought he would have answered ok thanks for letting me know.