what can I do take my Libra back?

1. Don't shrug off his little statement about him being in love with someone else. If he's telling the truth, you'd be a fool to chase after someone who is chasing someone else. And if he was making it up for whatever reason, you need to get to the bottom of why he'd be so dishonest & push you away. That has to happen before you guys can truly move forward.

2. He's not the 1 going through a tough marriage/divorce. He can probably see things more clearly than you can. B/c your husband is so horrible & b/c your marriage is so played-out, of course this Libra guy seems like your knight in shining armon. But the "honeymoon stages" might've ended alot quicker for this Libra than it did with you. His head isn't as into the clouds as your is b/c he doesn't have anyone to compare you to unlike you do him with your husband. He may finally be realizing that no matter how "right" you feel for him, a relationship whose foundation started with lies & deceiving another person (your husband) almost always never works out.

3. Get a divorce 1st. Finish 1 thing before you start another. If this Libra is truly meant for you, you shouldn't have a problem waiting. Be completely done with your husband emotionally, physically AND legally 1st. You won't know the true potential of this Libra's worth to you unless you can experience what he's about/like AFTER you've completely cut ties with someone else. I'm not saying that your Libra isn't worth it, BUT I'm almost sure that he only looks like "gold" now b/c you're comparing him to someone else. And when you compare you either over-exaggerate the true value of someone/someone OR you minimize the true value. My guess is that you're over-exaggerating.

4. Since you guys are having a long distance relationship, that means that you've both got to be even MORE dedicated/committed to effective communication & honesty with eachother, especially more than the average couple who don't have to go through the challenge of distance.

5. Get your head out of the clouds for 1 moment & really think about things. When you start being OK with chasing after someone who either isn't chasing after you OR doesn't want the same things as you, that's usually an indication that you're being naive, too wrapped up in your own emotions/desires to see clear logic OR that you're not thinking clearly. If he's worth it, thinking clearly won't seem like such a hard thing to do.

you're gross and stupid

You love the fact that you are able to get away from a marriage you no longer want to be in .... rebound is an experience many people have gone through .... once you get fully away from your husband and settled in as a single, you will find that you never loved this Libra man at all.

guys, I'm already divorced. and I still love my Libra. but you guys want to blame someone.

Excuses


The reason for your thread was to ask the question of how to get him back, so this means you don't even have him to even love.


again .. you are experiencing rebound ... once you have settled down in being single you are going to find that you never loved this man at all.


What you loved was a having a ****reason**** to leave. Because you thought that man was waiting for you on the other side, is why you were able to finally go. If he hadn't of been there, you'd likely have stayed.

And it wouldn't have mattered who was on the other end, it could have been anybody .... but, because it was him, you mistake that what you are feeling as love, when really what you love is what he stood for as your crutch.

You say we want to blame someone?

Why would we care about your plight to care about who's fault is who's?


You are the one here crying over a man who walked away from you BEFORE you even left your husband, and how long does it take to get a divorce in your country? In my country it is a whole year .. so, you are the one in here with a problem, not us.

You say he accepted your cat.


How did he even know your cat?


Was it your husbands bed in which you fucked another man?