I haven't been on here in a while because of school and work. I broke up with my Libra fiancee' about 2 and a half months ago. Things just weren't right between us, blah blah blah.
Anyway, I go out with a few girlfriends about a month ago. I am anti-men that night but there was this guy who was so sweet and persistent, and here's the red flag I didn't see - charming! I gave him my number and he called a couple of days later. He invited me out for coffee, and after comtemplating, I figured what the heck. I meet him at Starbucks and we just chat for about 2 hours. I told him about my recent break up and how the Libra turned on me suddenly and became such a hateful person, etc etc.
We talk more about him. I was running out of questions to ask so I ask him when his birthday was. October 14th!
Why do I do this to myself? Are there more friggin' Libras in this world than any other sign or are they just all magnetized to me—
This guy is head over heels for me already. Nothing like the other Libra at all. But I'm afraid it's all an act. All this charming and sweet personality has me cautious because of how my last Libra decided that he couldn't be friends with me after our break up and goes hooks up with someone a week after we say we need a break.
This new guy is very sweet, very respectful, and has already sent me flowers! I never got any flowers from the other Libra, unless you count the ONE rose I got from him 2 Valentines ago.
I'm just venting...not sure what to do at this point. He's quite different from the other Libra. He's 38, has a masters, working on his doctorate, and has more goals in life than what the other Libra could even phathom. Of course, the other Libra was lazy and self-centered now that I reflect on the last 2.5 years with him.
Wow he sounds like a good catch! Maybe you can apply what you learnt from Libra one unto this one, and make sure they don't get repeated.
There seems to me to be 2 types of Libras. The immature and the mature. This guy sounds more like the latter than the former. But make sure you hold back, because the threshold of romance may be like a whirlwind that gets engulfed in itself after a while. Oct 14 is as "middle" as you can get - nothing extreme. sounds pretty good~
Just relax and see what happens without putting guards up and expecting something to go wrong. If you attract the negative to happen than you will surely get it. relax.....
Oh thats so lovely Houston....I do hope this one is different, really different. Beware of the mature guy thing though because remember my Libra? he is 42 now but OMG what a selfish so and so he was...he also charmed, and made me feel like I was the most special.
I agree though, dont think back on the last one, and enjoy this for what it is and yeah take on board what you learnt from the last experience and use it wisely 🙂
As far as dating another LIbra for myself? blah!! Im happily seeing a Virgo right now - astrologically not the wisest move but he's the better of the choices Ive made in a very long long long time. How things have changed.
Hey if he's sending you flowers ALREADY? lap it up, enjoy it for what it is....seriously, just have a lot of fun and see where it goes 🙂))))
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Anyway, I go out with a few girlfriends about a month ago. I am anti-men that night but there was this guy who was so sweet and persistent, and here's the red flag I didn't see - charming! I gave him my number and he called a couple of days later. He invited me out for coffee, and after comtemplating, I figured what the heck. I meet him at Starbucks and we just chat for about 2 hours. I told him about my recent break up and how the Libra turned on me suddenly and became such a hateful person, etc etc.
We talk more about him. I was running out of questions to ask so I ask him when his birthday was. October 14th!
Why do I do this to myself? Are there more friggin' Libras in this world than any other sign or are they just all magnetized to me—
This guy is head over heels for me already. Nothing like the other Libra at all. But I'm afraid it's all an act. All this charming and sweet personality has me cautious because of how my last Libra decided that he couldn't be friends with me after our break up and goes hooks up with someone a week after we say we need a break.
This new guy is very sweet, very respectful, and has already sent me flowers! I never got any flowers from the other Libra, unless you count the ONE rose I got from him 2 Valentines ago.
I'm just venting...not sure what to do at this point. He's quite different from the other Libra. He's 38, has a masters, working on his doctorate, and has more goals in life than what the other Libra could even phathom. Of course, the other Libra was lazy and self-centered now that I reflect on the last 2.5 years with him.