On & Off Libra boyfriend ...his confusing me!!!!!!

Hi all...i come across this website just to ask advise or any input from someone who have a relationship with Libra. My boyfriend on & off giving me mixed signals, and sometimes confused me a lot. We have a relationship since March, and everything went well and we connected so much and great chemistry. Until one day he seems so distant to me, and me wondering what is going on..or did i did something wrong (which i know IM NOT!)...i am very caring towards him, taking care of him even cooking him foods and share some bills every time we go out. Until one day he told me he needs his space, and which i give it to him...maybe he feels suffocated of us both seeing each other everyday + sleepover too!.....after giving him space after a week, he broke up with me and told me that seems he don't feel connected to me!...Im so crushed and devastated and hurt....but never show it to him, but rather accept it and stay strong...but i did unfriend him on my FB......i did not communicate with him for a week and he suddenly text me out of the blue asking me how i am doing.....(Jeezz.! why is he doing this to me!!)...i did reply him of course because i am still care for him....after that day, he stop texting again.........days past and turns out almost 2-mos.....he text me randomly asking me how i am doing, and he told me that he keep thinking of me quite often, and he misses me so much....,and he wanted to see...which i did and it turns out we get back again and very intimate with one another again....after being together again for almost a month...he showed being distant again , and this time i let him be and give him space he wants..until one day he called me and telling me that he is not ready for a relationship and everything seems so fast(plus he has so many probs at work).....OMG he is acting like Bipolar and stupid of me to allow his behavior.........i told him i can move on, and maybe were not meant to each other.(btw, were friends again in FB, i added him as a friend the day we get back, and he accept it)..we parted ways like no confrontation,no drama....and as in i accept whatever he wants...........my question is, does he going to bother me again knowing he is very indicisive?....he is a Libra in scorpio cusp, and i am a Leo. I love him but its not fair what his doing towards my emotions.....I need some thoughts, and a very good advise....

I have no idea why you're here asking for advice. We're going to be seeing a lot of you for the next 5789435 months asking the same shit about the same shitty behavior.

And no, nobody is going to tell you that he secretly wants you or that this may work down the road. You already know the answer to this garbage. Nobody is going to validate such shitty behavior because you're desperate to stay in a dysfunctional relationship.

This is normal behavior for a Libra actually, especially if they are on a Scorpio cusp or have a Scorpio moon. I too have gone back and forth with mine (and actually am right now). Sometimes they can be super sweet and the next you just never know. I, being a Gemini with a Leo moon think everything is fine one moment and then the next, poof, there is an issue that seems to come out of nowhere. You get the impression that they don't appreciate your feelings. I called mine an ungreatful brat, because that is essentially what it reminds me of. What it really boils down to is the communication factor overall, mainly on Libra's part due to their indecisiveness. It may seem like they don't really know what they want, and maybe he doesn't...yet.. He likely texts you because he is having second thoughts about where he stands or like Rockyroad stated, maybe it's just a sexual thing and he is doing it for the convenience factor because he knows you have feelings so he uses it to his advantage because you allow it. Hard to say, but the bottom line is you need to place the ball in his court. State what you feel and make it known that there will be no more "benefits." Libra's can require a lot of patience and if you push them, they will pull away even after you have been together for a while. Hate to tell you but it's a waiting game. Be strong, or end it.

How about you quit fluffing it up for her and encouraging her fixed sign obsession and give it to her straight?

She's suffered from the typical Libran "oh, this isn't what I thought it was in my fairy tale thinking" mentality and now he's jerking her around. Even if she sticks around and tolerates his nonsense, he'll ditch her in the long run. You do not want to be stuck in the viscous loop that this situation is. When they're into you, they don't do this crap. When they aren't, they will string you along and jerk you around until something else shiny distracts them, just like he's doing. They give the runaround because they're too chicken to be real about it and rather keep up the facade of being nice, even if it means being cruel by lying by omission and stringing individuals along.

He just wants to keep her around for his benefit and doesn't really care about her feelings. It's all about his. It's that simple.

he probably will come around again when he feels sentimental. you shouldn't let him. this is a fleeting emotion for him. like rocky says, he puts on the rose tinted glasses and convinces himself that everything will be ok and that he has made a mistake. when he is back in the thick of it again all the old feelings that he had when he wanted to break up will return to the surface.

tell him thanks but no thanks. go for someone who knows what they want.

thank you guys for all the replies.......i am giving all the words a deep thinking....you guys cant blame me. I love him, but i guess i need to teach him a lesson and stand for myself....I do have a strong feelings he will bother me again..dont know when, dont know where it going to lead me. I am a leo and always love a person if they are so upfront, whether it could hurt me, at least i admire for being honest. But i know not all signs are like the same traits i have....How i wish his like that...but I belive in Karma always.......Plus i forgot to mention he is a Colonel in the army (but retired), and yes he has PTSD, his divorced almost 2yrs now, and he smoke weeds 3x/ day.........he is very nice and kind to me when he smoke weeds but if not..Gosh he is such a jerk!...

Then you've seen his true self. If it takes a substance for him to be the man you "love" then you've fallen for a facade.

There are too many red flags. Move on to someone better than this. He clearly has some problems he needs to work through. And smoking 3 times a day? Good God, get a grip on life. I don't trust people who rely on weed to get them through life on a daily basis. They've got serious problems.