shanna543
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pease help me understand this libra guy
How old are you both?
we're both in our early 20s
Lol @ the part about physical attractiveness. Ever heard of "love is blind"?
I mentioned it since we were talking about a libra guy that does appreciate physical attractivenes,you know.I was not in any way trying to prove anything else.
I actually posted here looking for genuine advice, not judgements.
I actually posted here looking for genuine advice, not judgements.
Posted by shanna543
I mentioned it since we were talking about a libra guy that does appreciate physical attractivenes,you know.I was not in any way trying to prove anything else.
I actually posted here looking for genuine advice, not judgements.
its not a judgement, libra are people too & that term includes everybody regardless of sign. To prove its true, all your "elegant " & "sexy" getup didnt faze him now, did it? Long lasting attractions arent physically based, but emotional..he has to feel something for you in order to be interested in you..its that simple. This is not an attack on you, just trying to show you that if a person likes you he'll overlook all that is outside & focus on you as an individual. The same could be said for when he doesnt like you..he'll overlook all the GQ stuff. You get what I'm trying to say to you? Beauty is skin deep & so is love.
There is one girl on here, I think her username is Tamia. She claims to be beautiful & attractive and it hurt her badly when her man chose to be with a girl less attractive than her. But he likes the other girl & there's nothing that'll change that.
shanna5435, Is hard if he already have another girl in his heart , dear 😢 I know they are attracted by sexy look, but when they are already with other woman in their heart, they will only use you for this beautiful part of yourself. So what do you want ? just to be with him for a while and let him enter stronger in your heart , then to look after him how he will fly out ? You deserve more than this, I am sure.... You are attractive and sexy as you said, so you can have a man who see this ! As you see, he ignore you even when you appear in his front. How about if he will ignoring you the same after you get together ? Will be more painful. Just read here so many stories about Libra get cold, Libra disappeared, Libra not talk.. etc... I am one of this victime and I know what it means this and I don't wish you feel what I feel now or what others the same as me feel here.
If you really want him , even for a short time, then go directly and tell him you like him , start a lovely conversation with him. I am sure he will respond to this, but take care at what will be. First , never ask him or say something against him or against that girl, just be yourself and try attract him . Libra are attracted also with love, warm words, sexy look and more .
What I see in your story , you maybe wrong when both lost contact . I never accept this way even some peoples say it is not good. For me is good and it was good. I don't like to let someone forget me , this is me. In some way or other, I am myself and sometimes I text first, or call first. I don't care if he not respond or reject my call, after this I let him little space and he will come back, becasue I gace him a reason to come back. But if there both no give any reason and just keep silent, then you know how is with the eyes who don't see each other.. So good luck 🙂
If you really want him , even for a short time, then go directly and tell him you like him , start a lovely conversation with him. I am sure he will respond to this, but take care at what will be. First , never ask him or say something against him or against that girl, just be yourself and try attract him . Libra are attracted also with love, warm words, sexy look and more .
What I see in your story , you maybe wrong when both lost contact . I never accept this way even some peoples say it is not good. For me is good and it was good. I don't like to let someone forget me , this is me. In some way or other, I am myself and sometimes I text first, or call first. I don't care if he not respond or reject my call, after this I let him little space and he will come back, becasue I gace him a reason to come back. But if there both no give any reason and just keep silent, then you know how is with the eyes who don't see each other.. So good luck 🙂
I totally agree with your post and I wasn't trying to argue the idea that love is blind in any way(especially since I truy agree with it).
I pointed out that detail just to mention that I interested him physically and to him (as a libra man) physical beauty is important (but not the most important, obviously!).
Sorry if the statement seemed innapropriate. I would just really hope to get some help from knowledgeable people here about what to do next and felt he tneed to mention any relevant detail to the story.
I pointed out that detail just to mention that I interested him physically and to him (as a libra man) physical beauty is important (but not the most important, obviously!).
Sorry if the statement seemed innapropriate. I would just really hope to get some help from knowledgeable people here about what to do next and felt he tneed to mention any relevant detail to the story.
Posted by shanna543
I totally agree with your post and I wasn't trying to argue the idea that love is blind in any way(especially since I truy agree with it).
I pointed out that detail just to mention that I interested him physically and to him (as a libra man) physical beauty is important (but not the most important, obviously!).
Sorry if the statement seemed innapropriate. I would just really hope to get some help from knowledgeable people here about what to do next and felt he tneed to mention any relevant detail to the story.
tbh with you, there's really nothing said here that'll get you good results or improve your situation..no magic words really. Plus, nobody knows him. Time will tell if he's really interested in you. Keep trying to look good, but only for yourself & not in hopes of trying to get him. I have a libra friend I've known for many years, we used to date & my appearance has never been an issue between us. I've been slightly overweight due to having a baby & he still liked me. I dont look my best now, yet he's still trying. Forget sun signs- we are all humans at the end of the day & when love calls, everybody answers... regardless of those little descriptions next to our signs. Take it easy, look great & what will be will be.
Posted by WaterCupPosted by shanna543
I totally agree with your post and I wasn't trying to argue the idea that love is blind in any way(especially since I truy agree with it).
I pointed out that detail just to mention that I interested him physically and to him (as a libra man) physical beauty is important (but not the most important, obviously!).
Sorry if the statement seemed innapropriate. I would just really hope to get some help from knowledgeable people here about what to do next and felt he tneed to mention any relevant detail to the story.
tbh with you, there's really nothing said here that'll get you good results or improve your situation..no magic words really. Plus, nobody knows him. Time will tell if he's really interested in you. Keep trying to look good, but only for yourself & not in hopes of trying to get him. I have a libra friend I've known for many years, we used to date & my appearance has never been an issue between us. I've been slightly overweight due to having a baby & he still liked me. I dont look my best now, yet he's still trying. Forget sun signs- we are all humans at the end of the day & when love calls, everybody answers... regardless of those little descriptions next to our signs. Take it easy, look great & what will be will be.click to expand
Thank you for the honest opinion.I kind of agree with you.Deep down there I understand he might be lost forever and this makes me feel sad.I don't think I have ever done something wrong to him, so that's why I can't understand why he is so cold and distant when at first we seemed to get along so nicely.
I will let time show if he's interested, exactly as you said.Sometimes I question myself whether he was genuine at first or not.Maybe he was just interested in playing with me and now he's lost interest?
No matter what, thanks again, I am so grateful to you for the advice!
Posted by Julya22
shanna5435, Is hard if he already have another girl in his heart , dear 😢 I know they are attracted by sexy look, but when they are already with other woman in their heart, they will only use you for this beautiful part of yourself. So what do you want ? just to be with him for a while and let him enter stronger in your heart , then to look after him how he will fly out ? You deserve more than this, I am sure.... You are attractive and sexy as you said, so you can have a man who see this ! As you see, he ignore you even when you appear in his front. How about if he will ignoring you the same after you get together ? Will be more painful. Just read here so many stories about Libra get cold, Libra disappeared, Libra not talk.. etc... I am one of this victime and I know what it means this and I don't wish you feel what I feel now or what others the same as me feel here.
If you really want him , even for a short time, then go directly and tell him you like him , start a lovely conversation with him. I am sure he will respond to this, but take care at what will be. First , never ask him or say something against him or against that girl, just be yourself and try attract him . Libra are attracted also with love, warm words, sexy look and more .
What I see in your story , you maybe wrong when both lost contact . I never accept this way even some peoples say it is not good. For me is good and it was good. I don't like to let someone forget me , this is me. In some way or other, I am myself and sometimes I text first, or call first. I don't care if he not respond or reject my call, after this I let him little space and he will come back, becasue I gace him a reason to come back. But if there both no give any reason and just keep silent, then you know how is with the eyes who don't see each other.. So good luck 🙂
Thank you Julya, I guess you're totally right.Those months made us become really distant and that's when he befriended this girl.
Sweety, you're still very young & there're still many other guys that'll like or even love you. Many hearbreaks & many heart flutters to come. Guess what? You'll go through it all & survive. You'll be okay whether he returns or not. You'll be okay whether he meant it or not. You'll be ok!!
He's 20 and fickle. Try not to take it personally. Just do your thing. If he really cares about you as an individual, he'll come back around.
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