Scorpio girl and libra male.....I need help!!!!!!

What do guys think of this combination? I love my libra man, he is sweet, loving, charming and all. We have been together for 3 years now and we also living together. My only problem with my libra man is that he flirts too much and I find some texts in his phone and he denied that he would never cheat on me he just do it for fun. My other problem with him he freaking lie for no reason. He is getting over it now because he realizes that everytime he do lie or having some girl he flirting with I FIND OUT...I don't know how, but it happened. I gues this line is true "God doesnt like UGLY" i dont cheat even though he yry to tirn me into one all the time. I'm a Scorpio girl and he knows I don't play that mind game, just be honest and I'll looooooooove you for who you are it will be my choice to stay or not. We still going at it I love him till death and i know he does too. He just can't stop flirting lol.
My question is what make him go around and flirt with other girls when i give him all the goody he needs, the loves and so on, and what do you think of our birthdate?

Him:10/22/88
Me:11/06/86

Ps: He lied to me about his age just to get with me, wich I don't mind. It was too late when I find out anyways...smh lol

Thank you I'll ask him

At the same time you have to accept that some of that will remain no matter what. Many other people see it as flirting, for me it is just talking to someone. It's not an intntional "I'm flirting with that one" kind of thing, people just like talking to us. People feel comfortable around me. Where it becomes a problem is when it makes you uncomfortable. He should be aware of your feelings and either tone it down or make sure he is flirting with you more. I can talk to twenty people in a night and be accused of flirting with most of them but there would be no question who "my" lady was.

Scorpio women OFTEN have this very complaint about Libra men.. most Scorps are very jealous and possessive.. so that flirtatiousness is a real relationship killer and a deal breaker to them :c

... as are the "little Libra lies" they tell to "keep the peace" lol

libraSid I am trying my best to accept him as he is. Idk maybe its me thinking that he's cheating. Her swear that he is not cheating or will ever cheat on me. Her got all he needs from. Idk ill keep my finger cross, because ill be mad if anything like that happen. Lol

Nefer I know im jealous and I try not too most of the time and I can't. Its in my nature thats why b4 I start getting serious in a relationship,that's one of my first confession"I'm jealous when it come to my man, the one I'm in love with" I don't date ppl that im not into anyways. If of don't want you ill tell you straight up, in that way I won't waste your time or my time. When it comes to lie, my bf is the pro on that's her can't lie about petty stuff. Like I I won't find out. Now her kinda stop because I know when he is lying. Smdh..At the end I love my libra man.

Honestly this has more to do with you both learning to accept one another's differences and flaws. Just because you're honest about your jealousy doesn't mean it's okay with your Libra. A Libra is an air sign and the social butterfly of the zodiac, often confused as LibraSid stated with "flirting". Libra's are not always flirting, at least not on purpose.lol. Bad thing is when people think we are flirting with them, and really we are just being our normal social selves. I work with a libra whom has made it perfectly clear that he is interested in me and wants to date me, yet he is a huge flirt with almost everyone in the office especially the women. But it doesn't bother me much because its just how he is. He talks to everyone, and I mean EVERYONE. It's like everyone has to like him he's so darn charming it's hard not to. Plus I'm a Libra, so I can tell when he's just being friendly, and when he's just doing it to boost his own ego. They loooove watching women swirm and sigh over their smile, or a simple compliment or glance from them. It's not to be disrespectful, it's just them being their charming self. I can almost bet that the one reason your Libra lies to you so much is probably because you are jealous and have made it known to him. That doesn't excuse his lying at all, don't get me wrong. But I'm just saying its most likely why he does it so much, thinking it will keep the peace. You want to be careful of letting him know you go through his phone or look at his text, because the next thing you will notice is he will have security codes and locks on things, which will only make the situation worse. As LibraSid suggested, I think you do need to stress to him how uncomfortable his flirting is making you feel. Let him know what things you think is going too far, even go so far as to say to him "If I said (blah blah blah) to another man, would you like it?" This will probably help him see the unfairness of his actions. But while you are telling him all these things, keep in mind that your libra is like air, free and needs room to socialize and breathe. He does not take lightly to criticism or bossiness. I have an aunt that's a scorpio and she darn near boss's the whole house, almost driving her man to look at other women and wonder what it would be like to be with a more softer, girlier type of woman. Im not saying change if that is you, im just saying when your speaking to him, don't make it sound like an order, make it sound more like an open dis

^^ LOL. Thats what i said.