Scorpio Man Libra Woman Break Up / Painting

...Im just extremely, extremely independent and typically avoid relationships. So as for emotional self-control I'm underdeveloped.

And thanks for answering none of my inquiries! lol

Posted by Karcasbomb
...Im just extremely, extremely independent and typically avoid relationships. So as for emotional self-control I'm underdeveloped.

And thanks for answering none of my inquiries! lol

So if you're emotionally underdeveloped you should work on yourself first before pursuing a relationship with another person.

i like your artwork, but i agree with geminicandle.. you're TOO MUCH. wth buddy.

she's in high school above all. MUCH too young. you are almost predatory... imagine what effect your manipulation will have on her. please spare her and leave her alone. move onto someone who is your age and stronger who can handle you. this libra girl clearly isn't in a stable state and you're not helping her at all.

don't give her the artwork because she probably won't want to hang it up anywhere. i also call b.s. on the fact that you are giving this as a part of her healing process. it's much too soon for her to heal from you. she needs space from you and not a reminder of you.

i dated a scorp man and NEVER AGAIN. his little manipulation tactics throughout our relationship just made me resent him after the fact. in fact, he's the only ex i refuse to ever speak to again. don't let her resent you.

That doesnt make much sense since the only way to engage emotions is to relate to other people.
Here's a metaphor.
You can learn to hit a homerun from a pitching machine, but can you hit a home run from a real star pitcher? If I want to hit a home run from a real pitcher, I gotta practice with pitchers, not a machine.

Thanks for real replies Bloodflood and Aesma.

To bloodflood: Yes I agree, the last 3 days I was too much 110% . But she came to ME, I didnt predate HER. In fact I had my eyes on another girl at work, but that came up and I went along with it.
Safe to say I do care about her and if it helps to leave her alone, I will. Wtv's best for her. Tho Im proud to say I didnt do any manipulation tactics. I put it out straight and bare and she went along with it.

Aesma: No she didnt reply after. And your absolutely right, I shoulda been honored... But when she uttered the words 'love without sex' I felt friendzoned. I have many platonic female friends who you might mistake for my GF, I didnt want another one. I WAS waiting for nature to take its course...until 'love without sex' was uttered. I want to make amends. Wanting her back? Ha... I still love her but it was a complicated relationship to begin with. Not like I dont want her back, but realistically, even tho I WOULD fight for it, realistically im fighting against the odds.

KK I get it from everyone. If its whats best then I'm out!

GC seems to still hold incredible hatred for that one experience she had tho lol. I believe those negative connotations of weaknesses related to my behavior at the time applies only to my behavior at the time.

If I was as weak, pathetic and insecure as you make it sound like, I'd be stinging you back over an internet forum lol.

Psychopaths and sociopaths are highly intelligent! 😆

Yes Aesma, as much as I DID lose myself at that time, I am a highly logical and intelligent intuitive human being. When im not emotionally involved.

Tho I dont know what your trying to say with that last sentence. Your saying I should fight for what I love, but clearly I should leave her alone. Im gona do what I've been doing, and that's biding my time and dating other women. Tho I'll mail her the canvas in the future since your right, it was meant for that reason.

GC your hilariously bitter. Please keep trolling!

beat me up lmao... You have nooooo idea what im capable of physically. All my friends are martial artists and I have the body of a greek god. Just sayin. I also have an obsession with katanas and generally blades. Beat me up... lmao. 'If a man loses his sight, his hearing becomes acute.'

Im glad you can relate. The typically weakest trait of scorpio is emotional self control. We just have an overwhelming intensity when we feel something. And Im glad to get your opinion, I find it very valuable. Especially when you pointed out that I may have had desires to control her. I NEVER want to control those that I love, and if I happen to do so, I've been somehow blinded mentally by my own actions.

But here's a really interesting tidbit. I remember telling her directly in person, 'I DONT WANT TO CONTROL YOU, I NEED TO CONTROL MYSELF' and she replied something along the lines of 'that's ok you can control me I dont mind'. Now that I think about it, I basically warned her I am hard to control. Guess she didn't clue in on that.

Greek Gods rape Greek Goddesses.. Just sayin lmao

GC's hilarious. She knows so much about me I wonder if she's psychic xD

I just figured I was done with the thread, so I hid it to avoid reading more into it.

And thanks for the faith. I read my full natal chart this morning. I got a pretty fucked up astrological makeup. Scorpio sun, Moon Libra, Venus Libra, Ascendant Taurus.

Soo its basically an inner battle with the possessive intensive solitary seductive depths of scorpio energy vs the balance/partnership-oriented graceful harmonious but ironically unstable libra energy vs the sturdy material single-minded cautious Taurus. Yuuuup I always knew I had a tough battle.

Posted by Karcasbomb


To bloodflood: Yes I agree, the last 3 days I was too much 110% . But she came to ME, I didnt predate HER. In fact I had my eyes on another girl at work, but that came up and I went along with it.
Safe to say I do care about her and if it helps to leave her alone, I will. Wtv's best for her. Tho Im proud to say I didnt do any manipulation tactics. I put it out straight and bare and she went along with it.
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I don't know if anyone replied to this but I call BUUULLLSHIITT!! Just because SHE made the move it doesn't make it ok. I don't know the whole story since you deleted it (which makes me suspect the worst).

The fact is she is younger, you are older.

YOU SHOULD KNOW BETTER!!!

JUST because SHE initiated does NOT make it OK. You are not some innocent bystander. YOU made a choice of going along with it! Don't act like you had no part to play with this... and the fact that you do screams ASSHOOLE to me. Grow and move the fuck on and leave this poor innocent girl alone you selfish pig.

**Grow up

If there's anything Im good at, its bouncing back from my mistakes with gusto and flair. I want to personally thank you Aesma for the unbiased opinions/advice on my punishable behavior with that young girl. Its easy to condemn people for their mistakes, as I did in that blind moment (and as quite a few people here did to me). It takes great character to be able to separate that person's mistakes from that person's identity. Thank you. I aspire to gain your clear perception when Im emotionally involved. In fact my emotions tend to trigger clouded eyes. Thus I have a history of swinging and short relationships, even tho I ideally want a ltr. I know what I gotta work on...

Your the only one who can see the human behind the beast. You have the essence of a sage. So I felt thankful to talk to someone anonymous who can see that. Cuz as much as everyone attacked me, I am always my own worst critic. Worst than GC. Thankfully words dont hurt me, I just get irritated if it persists but I've never been one to feel butthurt over words. Especially when I told it all to myself before. Its damaging, to have an inner voice to speak to you like that. I am going full force in meditation to learn how to quiet my inner devil's advocate.

Anyways I hooked up with a new girl my age yesterday. Its clear to me now I had sex and love jumbled up.

I don't look for underage girls, I just happen to be ridiculously magnetic, sarcastic, charming, fit, good looking, well-mannered with a child-like curiosity and I stand up for injustice at the sound of a pin drop. As much as I have destructive powers, I am also gifted at inspiring and healing others.

...and then there's that darkside of me that tends to surface when I catch feelings. That side that is identified with me now on this forum.

Im not the type to bar out possibilities, especially when it comes to love. I dont believe love has an age limit. That young girl didn't care either. Regardless thats in the past now.

This is to GC and all the other naysayers: You've done nothing but empower my drive to change. I love my haters. Thank you.

I'm telling ya treat the Scorpio like shit

Then fuck his brains out like a rockstar, or get freaky and find a good public place and blow that Scorpio's mind

Then when the Scorpio pisses you off, push them against the dam wall and rape dat azz, you'll have a quiet day

Then take your scorpio for a walk somewhere and try to read people's minds,