So I need your help!

My ex boyfriend (a Libra) dumped me over the weekend (who really does that a week before Christmas? lol). So anyway, we are doing the exchanging of items in a few hours. I want to look hot and basically make him regret it. Does anyone have any pointers they can give me?

Lol that's mean. Don't look to hot.. And don't wear ur hair down and def don't wear a low cut shirt and pants that make ur butt look good. And def don't flirt with him or 'accidentally' touch his arm or his hip or lower back. And whatever u do don't pause and gaze into his eyes after he says something with hurt look on ur face. And when hes leaving don't ask for a hug and if he ends up giving u one, don't throw ur arms around him and press ur body into him and then grab his hand as he walks away.

Did he say why he broke up with you? I ask because depending on why he dumped you, then it might take more than one night of seducing him to get him to forget actually breaking up with you. If you do what the person above just said, it will probably get you layed, but It wont get your man back. And by him being a libra, he may regret at that moment, then wake up and remember why he dumped you and you'll be right back to square one with him. It happens with me. When I bump into one of my ex's and their looking good, depending on how comfortable I am with them, either we end up re-kindling one moment, and in the next moment during conversation or just..anything the next day or so I'll remember why I broke up with them and I'll be like a ghost on them faster than casper and his 3 uncles.

On that first line i mean to type it might take more than 1 night of seducing him to get him to "regret" breaking up wit you.
(Sorry,im at work and im typing fast.lol)

Looking hot and flirting and touching can indeed get even an EX Libra back into bed with you.. but like ALibra said.. after the hormones settle, they'll remember all the little & big things that they broke up with you over, and it'll be lather-rinse-repeat.. hot and cold, in and out of your life (and bed) for as long as you allow him to do so (or until he finds another girl to focus his interest on!)

Best way to get a Libra to question themselves over, "Did I make the right decision in breaking up?" and eventually question themselves into possible regret.. is to be totally nonchalant about it. Totally happy and secure and just F-I-N-E about the break up. A whole "I could take it or leave it.. but I'd rather leave it" attitude. No hints about getting back together or even seeing him again. NOT jumping at the chance to see him again, even when he throws out a little hint to check to water.

But I would caution you.. this is not a GAME, and I do not advocate GAMES. You need to REALLY put it all into perspective and really BE fine without him.. you need to get back to that carefree, fabulous girl he originally fell for, not the hopeful sad girl you became after he dumped you.



.. but I was amused enough to say.. what IS it with holiday breakups and Libras?! One Libra dumped me for Valentine's Day.. and a different Libra dumped me on my friggin' birthday - both were TOTALLY unexpected, and the whole thing was just so typical Libra it makes me laugh. (I so wish I was kidding!) Iunno, maybe the pressure of holidays/special days is enough to make a Libra stop waffling and just snap.. and chuck it all out the window? lol

I brokeup with sombody today... I still like her 2... Like alot. I dunno... She just stressed me out. Things were so awsome in the beginning, but everytime I tried to get close to her she would pull away and everytime I'd pull away shed try and get close. She said some of the nicest things ever to me today and now I regret my decision. I made my bed though so I'll sleep in it. It would be too awkward to try and salvage things now... I was pretty determined to end it earlier today so I'd prolly come off as a moron if I changed my mind. She's pretty mad at me now 2... I'll just move on. She was Scorpio btw

For what it's worth.. "moron" never crossed my mind when said Libras realized they probably made a big mistake and wanted to salvage things. (The first one, it didn't work out.. but there was a lot more to it. But I learned a lot and have NO regrets.) The second one (the birthday one).. I'm still with him, and I love him like crazy. But I *was* a little bit.. uhh.. careful? Reserved?... at first.. taking the "reconnect" slow, not jumping in headfirst and risking being made a fool of again. It built slower and deeper.. Tables turned when just over a year later, *I* ended things with him. I was juuuust fine without him, and he bent over backwards trying to get me back, practically leapt through flaming hoops for months and months to win my affection back... and now it feels like it's been twenty years, instead of almost three.


Something I was thinking about the other day.. Libras are about balance, right? Well, as a Pisces, my own bonds with him formed quickly.. I fear nothing about emotions, and my Aries Venus makes me unafraid to risk it all... and though he was indeed Mr. Fabulous Perfect Libra even in the beginning (with his showy over-the-top Leo Venus!).. underneath it all, he was still deciding if we were really good together... but as time goes on.. it's almost like I'm slightly detached, more like he was in the beginning.. and now HE has taken MY former role.. and HE'S the attached one... but oddly, it's always (almost, anyway) balanced, the push-pull, the give-take.

I don't claim we have a PERFECT relationship.. but it's pretty damn close sometimes haha

Yeah, I am playing it cool...very cool and nonchalant. I am not going to let it on that it hurts deep down (my pride won't let it get that way haha).

I am actually going out and doing my own thing. The break-up really was just all out of the blue. I was even talking to one of his best friends and he said he didn't know what happened either. His friend got dumped yesterday also lol. He offered to get some dinner and drinks, so I am really debating taking him up on that offer.

I am not one to play games, I hate it when people do that, and that is not what I was trying to do. Yeah, I really liked the guy, but I know that it hurt.

He said the reason for breaking things off was the most used cliche lines: "It's not you, it's me", "I need to work on myself", "I cannot give 100% to you, and it's not fair to you". Blah blah blah. I know there is more to it, maybe he did do it out of a fear of commitment. Who knows? I am not going to push the issue, and I probably will never know the real reason behind it.

What I do know is that he made the choice, I guess I will have to suck it up and be ok with it. He says he wants to be friends, but I don't normally stay friends with the guys I have dated. He is dead-set on it, it is a lot to think about.

I guess time will tell huh?