The good thing about Libras =)

Sure, it's annoying that you may take 2 years to make the simplest decision BUT...

Hey, atleast SOMEBODY thought about both the consequences & advantages. Atleast you guys care enough to take the time out to consider ALL avenunes...not b/c you want to be diffucult or over-complicated, but b/c you ultimately care about the outcome & have the best intentions at heart.

You guys are thorough. And although many people resent this trait in you, you guys never apologize for it or change this about yourselves, which is inevitably why the same people who hate you 1 day end up loving the hell out of you the next day.

You guys have the ability to make everyone feel welcome, better & right at home. When everyone else in the world is always looking for negative traits to pick out in someone, you guys are over to the left & noticing the GOOD things about someone. When everyone is saying, "Eew he/she's a loser for not having a job yet," you guys stand up for the oddball & think/say "Well hey, atleast she's still looking! Someone will eventually give he/she a chance!"

That's why you guys make great employers, bosses, managers & supervisors...it's b/c you guys can see through all the stereotypes & try your hardest not to discriminate. You guys realized a long time ago that following the crowd & allowing other's judgement to become your own is NOT a good thing & usually leads to you guys missing out on a good thing.

Just b/c everyone turns their back on something/someone doesn't mean that the object is not worthy. You guys won't feel content unless you've fully given that foreign object the benefit of the doubt & tested it for yourself! And hey, if it's bad news, so be it! BUT atleast you tried!

I love that you guys are just as concerned with making sure that everyone else feels good when they're around you. You're not selfish. If you feel great, you want others around you to feel the same. If you feel beautiful, you want that feeling to be contagious & fall onto others. This is a GREAT thing. You don't care about the limelight & being the main choice of attraction. You just want everyone to get along & be 1 great happy family.

umm. yeahh. ok...very true...now can you say something similar about Gems too please - I could use a lift over here 🙂

awwww... thank you 🙂

lol...you just want someone to blow your toot lol...do it yourself 😛

go away evil influence...lol
I still refuse to spill venom on Libra's back 😛, even if an average Jane would...at this point...

Yes, you guys are fun, kind, reasonable, fair, and appeal to Gem's mental g-spot while your detachment may turn some off, the logical take on life is appealing - even when it may seem cruel to some emotional types.
I refuse to say more.
Would I date another one? Sure. Life goes on. -- now, you can praise my resilience 😛

as for the pic...I'm hiding...safer that way to lick my own wounds...I can be a figurative hermit, too, at times. 😉

yes, venom...I think most people are prone to natural antagonism in the face of defeat, especially when it comes to the matters of heart. Do you not agree??


awww...do you really think it's manipulation?....I think in my case my Scorpio part is pretty dormant 😛, however, I'm beginning to feel a twinge of guilt 😄

Logic is manipulation in itself, though. It needs to suit the reasonable outcome. And every suitable outcome can always be explained logically.
There is reason behind every madness...


and thank you - I will come out of my solitude when I feel, the gnawing thought of showing my face in view of may Librasitis calamity is at an end. 🙂

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Posted by roamingfree
yes, venom...I think most people are prone to natural antagonism in the face of defeat, especially when it comes to the matters of heart. Do you not agree??

Not really, once I take the blinkers off and see what's there, they're a technical exercise or something to amuse me, depending on the context obviously.
Or they don't exist.

BS - most people will naturaly retaliate as in: "you mofo, how could you"

awww...do you really think it's manipulation?....I think in my case my Scorpio part is pretty dormant 😛, however, I'm beginning to feel a twinge of guilt 😄

Come on, like they aren't the cry babies/victims of the zodiac



agreed...someone has to I suppose

Logic is manipulation in itself, though. It needs to suit the reasonable outcome. And every suitable outcome can always be explained logically.
There is reason behind every madness...

HAhaha, thanks for noticing that, really. 🙂
It's just more honest/believable manipulation I guess 🙂



It's my motto in life: "the reason behind my madness" 😄 works wonders for me 🙂 and thank you - I will come out of my solitude when I feel, the gnawing thought of showing my face in view of may Librasitis calamity is at an end. 🙂


I dunno, Libra women have never done it for me, they remind me of stepford wives a little.🙂



hmmm...don't know any Libra women...still hung up on that one Sep 29th boy ;/

eek...dont know what happen here...but I'm sure you can figure it out 🙂

"the soul to charcoal" deal sounds like a vengeful and sinister, self inflicting bad karma to me...sorry, I don't deal in meanie behavior.

Walk away, just walk away and...kill people with kindness is the easiest way to keep a cool head on shoulders at all times I think...logically...that is... 😉

Posted by everevolvingepithet
""the soul to charcoal" deal sounds like a vengeful and sinister, self inflicting bad karma to me...sorry, I don't deal in meanie behavior."
Like I said, depends on the context, and I don't think vengeance equates to karma if involves balancing it see ? 🙂🙂

"Walk away, just walk away and...kill people with kindness is the easiest way to keep a cool head on shoulders at all times I think...logically...that is... "
True, but do you believe it ?🙂
Plus, generally speking, those in the wrong say things like that, or ones who think they stay in the light with Carol-Ann and friends, psssshhhh

(^not directed at you, just sayin/stirring the pot)🙂

8)...let me roll my eyes at your pseudo logical take on karma....sheeeshhh...the vengeful karma and the killing with kindness does go hand in hand...one supports the other. The trick is to watch your own back, be aware of where your life is heading each day, who may or may not trip you just because they want to for their own amusement. I am not a fan of giving the other cheek...ever...
and...
Yes, I do believe it...I have a knack and natural, fear of loss of self preservation through sheer avoidance of giving to some people, who do not have my best interest in their minds anything they could use against me. Don't you??

(I'm feeling pompous and frisky at the same time, lol...someone save me, lmao)

like I said before: go away evil influence. lol

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Posted by roamingfree
(I'm feeling pompous and frisky at the same time, lol...someone save me, lmao)

lol

Usually wrestlemania- style throwing onto a settee works I've found.

..and before any dumbass chimes in with something obvious like 'Fucking them calms them down fnar fnar' or words to that effect, duh.

I'm merely showing you how to be classy and humourous instead.

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:/...thanks for reminding me that the one Lib I would want to wrestle with called it quits...and I doubt he is even thinking about me in any way at this point...men, ugh, why do I bother?

because I truly believe men are adept at discarding that which they do not want quite effectively.

well, am I so wrong?

I think that's pretty much on the ball.

I think that because...it's a human nature to discard that which stops us from whatever advancement we are trying to achieve.
I'm not holding my breath on him anymore...I have my reasoning behind this madness in place.
I find that I cut people off quite easily for a time...he's the same. And by the time he catches his breath and thinks about retracting, I most likely will be onto some other project, one that probably will not include men. It's not about greener pastures, it's about being happy with my old, decrepit ancient apple tree which bares barely 3 apples a year in my own back yard...kwim?

it's a matter of perception

"It's not about greener pastures, it's about being happy with my old, decrepit ancient apple tree which bares barely 3 apples a year in my own back yard...kwim?"

I really like this.

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by roamingfree
it's a matter of perception

True.
So do you literally have an apple tree in the garden ?

actually I do. macintosh to be exact.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I didn't fully get the analogy fwiw.🙂

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means: no need to search for something else, when going back to your comfort place and is the best thing, and it's often quite ok.

Posted by venusianbull
"It's not about greener pastures, it's about being happy with my old, decrepit ancient apple tree which bares barely 3 apples a year in my own back yard...kwim?"

I really like this.

🙂

pretty much

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Wise words 🙂

well, would you and do you reinvent the wheel?
some are always half full and some are half empty...I choose the former - It works well on my not-so-mine-anymore-Libra; and allows me to come out of mishaps whole.

Thank youu that's true 🙂

Decisions Decisions the Libra??s Decision some of them are so anal about making the right decision that they actually draw out multiple diagrams on how to flip a steak on a grill??_??_ Duh!!!!!! LOL

Oh come now everevolvingepithet I already know that you are a really sweet man so at least laugh at the great sense of humor of a scorpio..... It's all in fun love.....

Here is the typical scenario out on the deck at the grill with a Libra: Ummmm do I use the thongs, the specula, or the long handled fork to flip these things then you have to decide at what angle you need to flip them, but all the while the filets are getting over cooked and by the time it lands on the plate they are grey inside YUCK I do medium rare. I sit down and compliment you on how good it is -- all the while I am having 2 glasses of wine to wash it down because it is so dry and over cooked and in the back of my mind I am thinking of how not to hurt your feeling when I will be grilling next time??_??_.LOL

Bud Light Lime have one of those things in my fridge that belongs to my son-in-law want me to send it to you...... Aye you live in NY been there many times to shop, for dinner, to go to Radio City Music Hall and other shows, but how is it living there except expensive as all get out? Ohhhh so ohhhhh the smell that comes from the doorways where homeless people go to the bathroom!!!! Oh and so don't get me wrong I have an empathy for the homeless that goes beyond the norm. I actually have a jar in my car filled with money coins and paper that I give to many many panhandlers I see looking for money. I have such a compassion for these people because so many of them are actually veterans and it just breaks my heart but with is it like living in NY.....

Posted by beautifulscorp
Here is the typical scenario out on the deck at the grill with a Libra: Ummmm do I use the thongs, the specula, or the long handled fork to flip these things then you have to decide at what angle you need to flip them, but all the while the filets are getting over cooked and by the time it lands on the plate they are grey inside YUCK I do medium rare. I sit down and compliment you on how good it is -- all the while I am having 2 glasses of wine to wash it down because it is so dry and over cooked and in the back of my mind I am thinking of how not to hurt your feeling when I will be grilling next time??_??_.LOL

I'm a great cook and the only thing I'm thinking abt when grilling anything is how many minutes do I cook em on each side to kep moist and flavor...lol...take tht for being a #tepford Wife....lol...its all abt perfection and presentation baby! 🙂

Posted by krysrenee7
Sure, it's annoying that you may take 2 years to make the simplest decision BUT...

Hey, atleast SOMEBODY thought about both the consequences & advantages. Atleast you guys care enough to take the time out to consider ALL avenunes...not b/c you want to be diffucult or over-complicated, but b/c you ultimately care about the outcome & have the best intentions at heart.

You guys are thorough. And although many people resent this trait in you, you guys never apologize for it or change this about yourselves, which is inevitably why the same people who hate you 1 day end up loving the hell out of you the next day.

You guys have the ability to make everyone feel welcome, better & right at home. When everyone else in the world is always looking for negative traits to pick out in someone, you guys are over to the left & noticing the GOOD things about someone. When everyone is saying, "Eew he/she's a loser for not having a job yet," you guys stand up for the oddball & think/say "Well hey, atleast she's still looking! Someone will eventually give he/she a chance!"

That's why you guys make great employers, bosses, managers & supervisors...it's b/c you guys can see through all the stereotypes & try your hardest not to discriminate. You guys realized a long time ago that following the crowd & allowing other's judgement to become your own is NOT a good thing & usually leads to you guys missing out on a good thing.

Just b/c everyone turns their back on something/someone doesn't mean that the object is not worthy. You guys won't feel content unless you've fully given that foreign object the benefit of the doubt & tested it for yourself! And hey, if it's bad news, so be it! BUT atleast you tried!

I love that you guys are just as concerned with making sure that everyone else feels good when they're around you. You're not selfish. If you feel great, you want others around you to feel the same. If you feel beautiful, you want that feeling to be contagious & fall onto others. This is a GREAT thing. You don't care about the limelight & being the main choice of attraction. You just want everyone to get along & be 1 great happy family.

aqua you forgot to mention that they are all bum asses, hypocrite, two faced etc. get a virgo and you will be ok with them

yes that's true 🙂 thank you!