The most Liberating feeling is??

Getting over a libra!
Yes ladies its butterflies,roses,candies and all things nice when ur into one and they are into you.
However when the going gets tuff and he starts to go cold its loss of apetite,anger,tears,fustration and at times revenge.
But don't despair,there is a bright shinty light at the end.
The time will come when the libra is simply just a memory,he phones but you don't see any reason to return his call immediately.
He will text asking to see you but you alreay made plans ur not willing to change.
Its never easy leaving a libra,but once ur at that am over you stage.
The feeling is great!!

I would imagine an even better feeling would be to not push him away in the first place and to experience the joy and happiness that can come from a mature honest relationship.

$ .02

I am not hinting at anything... 🙂

Playing is not fun if it hurts someone else. I enjoy games and jokes as much (if not more) than the next guy, but never in a relationship. At least not the type of games that have gone on regarding her Libra.

A few typo,was using my blackberry to type. 😢

Posted by pigeonpie
Femmescorp, try a pisces, they're more malleable 🙂

lol i already owned that tshirt....my 1st love at university was a pisces. Best 2.5yrs of my life.🙂

Posted by LibraSid
I am not hinting at anything... 🙂

Playing is not fun if it hurts someone else. I enjoy games and jokes as much (if not more) than the next guy, but never in a relationship. At least not the type of games that have gone on regarding her Libra.

Games? LibraSid,whatever i did was my defence mechanism kicking in!!🙂

Posted by pigeonpie
paraphrasing
"i said I was in a taxi but I wasn't I was laid in bed laughing'

*defense mechanism kicking in*
😛

That was more revenge/payback (cheeky wink)

Posted by pigeonpie
Both as bad as each other 🙂

You are the 10th person,to tell me that. Ohwell everyone enters your life for a reason.

Posted by pigeonpie
True. Still not self defense though 🙂

Huh?

Oh i re read your msg and got what you were saying. Well its over now....i think the fat lady finally sang.lol
And it feels great knowing its been almost 2mths and not once have i felt the need to get back in touch with him.

Am in far too much of a happy place to take offence...🙂
My mates and i are having a girls night out this weekend and i might bump into him. However am confident the butterflies are gone for good. Therefore the night should be peachy.🙂

Because the girls want to test the water...they all cant believe,am just closing that chapter,so they all got this idea.
The chemistry between us will still be strong. Mmmm i very much doubt it!!

So the purpose of you going out with the girls is because they want you to run into him again and see if there are still feelings... You claim to be "over him" yet you agreed to this? Why?

I know when I am done with someone I would be more likely to avoid them than to purposely go somewhere to check how I feel when I see them.


I still love my ex wife; however, I am done with her. No chance I would intentionally go somewhere I expected her to be. I don't even want to speak to her on the phone let alone see her.

Good for you. I am done....some of the girls accept it.
A few are like yes,its fine to ignore his calls and msgs but what will happen when you see each other.
Wont that chemistry still be there?
I very much doubt it,however my night out its simply to celebrate someones 30th. If i see the libra,thats fine,if i dont see him even better.
Have declined 5 invitations over the past 4wks because i knew our path will cross.
However i am not going to hide myself away,life is about having FUN!!🙂