@Bella79
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To prepare for a date, be genuine, stay relaxed, and focus on enjoying the moment. Authenticity helps build connection and confidence. Remember to be yourself and embrace the experience without overthinking. This approach increases your chances of having a positive and memorable time.
Good for you 🙂
Enjoy the nerves and the whole first date experience, first dates are the best!!
Everyone here is right, have fun and be yourself. From what we get to see of you here you are a very sweet person, why do you sound surprised that he is interested?
Be yourself little_sparrow and enjoy! Youre a smart, funny, intelligent woman and seeing as youre a Libra Im sure that
youre dazzlingly beautiful!! Have a wonderful time! 🙂
Goodluck little_sparrow hope everthing goes well for you both 🙂
How did it go—
Do tell us LS. I've been hoping for the best!
Well, how was your date with Mr. Smoking Hot 🙂
It's been a few days and no one has heard from her... we may have to send out a search team...
Okay, she's safe. Call the hunting dogs back.
Glad you had a good time sparrow.
hee hee!
It is weird. I really miss talking to him. It is very much like with the Leo. We all know how that turned out. hmmmm ... :/
Anyway, I need a nap.
Happy to hear that you had a good time little one 🙂
Posted by little_sparrow
ARGH! HELP!Okay. So. I kind of met a guy on Saturday night. He is smoking hot but for some reason really, really likes me. I think it was because I wowed him with my music knowledge. I haven't had a first date in over three years and that one, well, I had already tested the goods. hee hee.
Advice?
YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAY!!!!!!!!! Lady Sparrow 😄!!!!!
and HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA at the title xD
Does the guy look like Ian Somerhalder —— If he does then OMG 😄
Advise: Just don't try to look too *made-up* Like, you don't want to look like you're going on a date, just look as natural and pretty as possible 🙂
Posted by little_sparrow
37 hours later, I return from my date 'cause I couldn't get rid of him. ha ha ha.It went well. He is really interesting and a bit conflicted about what he wants. Anyone remember the leo I have been hung up on? He kind of reminds me of him. They had a lot of very similar qualities.
I had a really good time. I haven't talked to a man like that in ... years and years and years. Probably going back to my first love who was an aquarius as well. There were some really beautiful moments.
Is he the love of my life? I don't know. I don't expect so. But I really just like him. I hope he gets himself straightened out a bit.
OMG! I was late with the date thread and I didn't even know, I only read the OP ^_^.
WOW .... what have I missed—? You and NO LEO—? DATING— Wow!!!!
JO JO!!! Yay!! You back?
Yeah. I broke up with the Aries in January. There was just something missing. This was my first, first date in three years.
Shaka
That isn't necessarily bad advice, but I also think patterns are very important. It is obvious to me that I have two types. Men I lust over and men I fall in love with. I need to blend those together somehow.
Cappie
Actually, he looks more like a young Brad Pitt. Same eyes, same nose, same lips, same jawline. Pretty much the same face from the eyebrows down. Different smile though. He was also very thin and tall. yummmm .... I'm not complaining. ha!
Posted by little_sparrow
JO JO!!! Yay!! You back?Yeah. I broke up with the Aries in January. There was just something missing. This was my first, first date in three years.
Shaka
That isn't necessarily bad advice, but I also think patterns are very important. It is obvious to me that I have two types. Men I lust over and men I fall in love with. I need to blend those together somehow.
Cappie
Actually, he looks more like a young Brad Pitt. Same eyes, same nose, same lips, same jawline. Pretty much the same face from the eyebrows down. Different smile though. He was also very thin and tall. yummmm .... I'm not complaining. ha!
BRAD PITT!!!! NO WAY! 😄! OMG ..... ummmmm, yeah don't mess this up 😛 😛 😛 See, I adore Brad Pitt, he was like my one and only love until Ian Somerhalder came along and then bam! lol Now he's in second-place, only by a hair 😉
Get rid of that habit of comparing your current dates to guys who made a big romantic impression on you in the past. It is not fair towards the new guys to have to live up to standards they arent even aware they are supposed to live up to.
Other than that, good luck, enjoy and take it easy, who cares if you dont think hes the love of your life right now.
Great Advice
Alas, I don't think it is up to me. This one is a "timing" thing. I really don't think he is in any way, shape, or form ready for any type of relationship. Cute and sexy though he may be.
In other words, I like him but am not over the moon. A good place to be. 🙂
Ha ha! Speaking from experience TOC?
Good point! No idea. This is why I drink though. ha ha.
If I remember your char you have Jupe conj sun. This makes you very fun-loving and unlikely to settle down early. If I may place my input, you may do well with a Saggi, with lots of Libra.. this Aqua isnt gonna last.
No. My Jupiter is in Pisces. I have a Jupiter square neptune. Jupiter trine with saturn. (I have a shitty saturn placement. Most of my chart squares it.)
My conjunctions are sun, venus, mars, uranus and pluto. Gemini is in my seventh house.
If you want my whole chart to try to predict who I will settle down with, let me know and I will send you my birth deets. It could be fun. 🙂
Ah dang! Why did I remember Jupiter?!
Yah uranus conj the sun is also a indicator of freedom.
Your stellium is in the 11th? That makes you very aquarian.
I'm not all that good at predicting, but I can try if you'd like.
Posted by little_sparrow
Good point! No idea. This is why I drink though. ha ha.
lol
I would just have fun with him 🙂 Especially if he's a cool guy. Then after a while, if things aren't going anywhere, then you can dump him ^_^.
Hey Sparrow,
I was just checking in and saw your post. The men love you girl, keep dating, you will get it right.
ha ha! Thanks Jojo.
🙂
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little_sparrow, just be yourself and enjoy it.