This Libra guy...

can't get him off of me he claims to be so in to me but I haven't even opened up to him.... I try not to be mean I do need a mechanic in my life 🙂 I know that was wrong ~*holds head in shame*~... but I figure we can be friends...maybe hang out just nothing serious... I finally got a good look at him last night when we went out and he somewhat has yelloew eyes... ewww... isn't that like jaundice which could be caused by any number of things... either way it looks unhealthy... so I figure
there has to be a reason why I feel the need to stay away...I don't want to be mean though... he's a nice guy , but he's a weed head too and I'm not at all thrilled about smokers...can smoking too much weed make your eyes dim and yellowish? I have a cousin who's a heavy pot smoker and his eyes are the same... anyway he's obviously too serious I need to just back away... he wants more than I'm willing to give... damn libras... the Libra that I do like is just like me... nonchalant acting...

I don't know about the weed and yellow eyes but if he has yellowish patches on his eye it is actually a natural phenomenon that is not associated with any medical condition that occurs a lot of times with people who have gotten a lot of stuff in their eyes. Him being a mechanic is a good indicator that this is what this is. With the various jobs I have had, mechanic, construction, fugitive recovery, private boarder security and with prolonged martial arts training in sandy enviroments I have gotten more stuff in my eyes than any human should have to experience and I do have a small yellow dot on one of my eyes. It sometimes develops with the bodies natural repair mechanism when dealing with eye irritants or injury and has no bearing on his overall health. Just to clear that up.

And, with that said, you are focusing on really superficial reasons of not seeing him if that is your main concern.

Second issue, he is not attatched to you, he is decided that he would like to see where things go with you, and when Libra guys do this they become rather transparent with their intentions and emotions. Still, if your not interrested in seeing him you need to be up front abot it as if your are not and leave it up for perception or assumption he will continue down the current path until you are, or you give in. If you tell him your not interrested make sure you mean it because after a short period of continuing his current behavior "just in case" followed by a short period of being upset by it and contemplating the whole debacle, he will start courting other women and they will take a large priority over you. You can still be friends and all, but if he is putting forth more than you, be it effort or interrest he will eventually just write you off as someone to not take seriously.

"damn libras... the Libra that I do like is just like me... nonchalant acting..."

And this is one of the primary reasons you like him more. Libras like what doesn't come easy when faced with a choice between two people, one interrested and easy, the other nonchalant and mysterious we tend to get what we can from the interrested party while our true desires are with the other. Avoid doing this.....it isn't fair and creates a lot of drama.

No they're yelloew eyes, not patches... I don't think thats superficial though I have genuine health concerns... I'm like that with any guy though... it's a must to get tested and checked out and whatnot...And I'm not too thrilled about smokers...lung cancer comes to mind... and I think in terms of marriage husband children... health ...


Yeah you're right about being upfront... because he keeps stressin how much he cares and wants to take care of me... it seems he's still in his bachelor ways he likes to party and club too much... yeah I figure he'll get over it...


damn libras... the Libra that I do like is just like me... nonchalant acting..."

And this is one of the primary reasons you like him more. Libras like what doesn't come easy when faced with a choice between two people, one interrested and easy, the other nonchalant and mysterious we tend to get what we can from the interrested party while our true desires are with the other. Avoid doing this.....it isn't fair and creates a lot of drama.""--- don't remind me... I hate looking in the mirror...and me and the other libra are so much alike we but heads...

"and me and the other libra are so much alike we but heads..."

I know how that goes. And it is frustrating as hell because you know your just butting heads because your so similar, with anyone else none of the little things that get on each others nerves would even exist. I feel your pain. I don't have any advice for that, I could not get around that when I was seeing a libra girl.

If his eyes are actually yellow, yeah that could be an issue. As far as the livin like a bachelor. Most young (under 30) guys actively do the bachelor thing until they find a girl that pulls them out of it. So I wouldn't worry about it too much.

Grrr, 2 libra?s just make me angry!! Not a single peep did ever hear from mr. libra...so he can go feck himself for all i care 😢

Ok, so maybe im not over it....damn!! (but can you imagine how down i get when i have actually proper dated a person)??