Oohhh!

I have met the first Libra man of my life...how weird. Anyhoo, to cut a long story short, we met up on Sunday and got on so well, its funny to be with a male counterpart. But, although he was funny, affectionate, and sends THE most romantic messages ever, what else are the tell tale signs that he likes me?

Boys operate in the same way as the girls, pretty much

So i can safely unleash the best of Libra and he will respond in the most perfect way that we all dream about? (ie, with love quotes and romance and all that other stuff)!! I feel like i need some Libra right now...ive had a shit year if im honest, all relationships have crashed and burned i the worst ways 😢

Well, what would you want to receive from a guy - that's how you have to think...

I think it is too soon. If you start quoting romantic stuff, he might think your heads cut.

Just breathe through it and see where it goes. I have had a CRAP year of dating myself. I know how frustrating it can be. 😢

Personally, I think you should only give when it is authentic and genuine. If you give with expectation and condition, it leads to resentment and bitterness.

Ha, dont worry LS, the romantic notions stay in my head...they never actually make it to SMS, thankfully! Im keeping in light and breezy, i genuinely dont think i could cope with another bad situation...and its only halfway through the year!!

"If you start quoting romantic stuff, he might think your heads cut."

No he won't. heheh...I personally love that stuff. It really depends on the individual though. I say just feel him out. Romantic messages are just as they are. I think you should respond accordingly. This is what he is expecting (same as you). Remember he's a Libra to.

Just my 4 dollars and 51 cents

"Just my 4 dollars and 51 cents"

Wow, inflation... 😉

LOL

My LIbra hasn't got a romantic bone in his body *sigh*

well maybe one 😛

Instant romantic messages. I think he is on. Ready to go all the way and see how well it can go. we dont send romantic messages to everyone we meet. Not even to our friends. Only to the ones we are interested. Kick start it and see. Well he will sure become indecisive on the run. Just keep going, he will fall back.

Oh, Chatz. . .LOL!

Romantic, for example, i had fun with you yesterday...lets hope we can meet soon.kiss x 10!!! Ahhh, but i know he?s busy with work a lot because he told me already 😢, i just hope he?s doing it out of genuine interest, and some flirty game...i know how it is remember..damn!!

I know how you feels , Sola , keep it light and fun , dont rush into it too fast , dont have any expectation . Yeah ! go with the flow and see how it goes ...In the mean time , just do your usual things before you meet him 🙂

Good luck! Hope you are VERY patient.

"well maybe one 😛" - Chatz LOL!

Try to keep it light for now because it will pay off. Mine can be very romantic but it takes time for them to get there with someone, or so it did with mine.

Patience grasshoppa!

We can be romantic but we will have to feel really, really wanted and desired. We have to see right there and then that you want us and noone else. When we then do feel your desire, it RELEASES A FREEDOM in us - a freedom that is just LOVELY even if I say so myself...

He?s so lovely i just want him to be my boyfriend right now. I have seen him on Sunday and last night, but i want to see him everyday. I dont know if im being too much already. Normally im so detached and blas?, that when i do actually fall for someone, i think i magnify my behaviour so that it seems really intense and OTT, but its probably my imagination?!

Should i wait for him to make suggestions about doing stuff together, or is it ok for me to just ask...i mean he wont think im a stalker will he? That?s my main concern, the perect balance of showing genuine interest in being together, without being annoying or too full on...arrgghh!!!!!!!!!!

p.s, the patience thing...men dont need patience with me, only like a week or so and then i already know if i like you enough to consider a relationship or not...why are the libra men so slow to commit?!!

not just libra men; it's men in general.

I think your moon is in sag , that might explain your eagerness in forming a relationship🙂

Well, we met coincidently last night at a party..he was with his friends and i was with mine. Obviously thats fine coz i dont expect him to inform me of his whereabouts 24/7 etc. So, we were just like "hi, how are you, who are you with?" but then he left without saying anything!! That kind of thing really annoys me, what?s wrong with saying see you later instead of just doing a disappearing act?

I dont know, i just felt like he wasnt especially interested at all, so im not going to contact him and see if he gets in touch.

"Good luck! Hope you are VERY patient" Oh yeah....like a Saint!!!! LOL

how much is too much, ie casual texting!! I dont mean im a text fiend, maybe only 3/4 times a week, but is that too much?

How s about nothing at all ? It's too early to establish a connection I think ! If you re too eager , he ll step back quickly and do all the analysis things. In the mean time , live your life and try to find more inf what makes him tick! lol! To really connect with someone , not only just have fun together but to know their interests, their ambitions , their desires , their life conditions , their emotion ..Last but not least , caring but not invasive ...Anyways , I think you might just step back and ignore him a bit , if he doesnt contact you then obviously , there s no interest , you might consider to move on .On the other hand , you dont want him to forget you completely , a "coincidental" bump into might be another solution 🙂

Hmmm...when did I begin these thinkings...since the day I met my Libra ! lol !

Good advice, exam.

Atom

Are we still in agreement that we are not initiating contact with Libra Girl?

Also, when she does initiate be sure not to be excited and tell her that she is beautiful etc. You don't have time for her right now. You're not allowed to give a single second of attention to her at the moment.

The board will be very cross if you do.

But you be good :-)

yes Atom be strong, if you feel weak, go for a swim!!!

Wouldn't want to cross the board would you—

Hey Chatz - how are you?

Libra, I am on top of the world today, yesterday...the week has started really well and the rest of the week is looking pretty dandy too 🙂 thank you for asking.

My boy is being good to me - Im happy 🙂

How are you doing? weather improving over there? We had 42,000 lightening strikes over night and where I work we had no power from 4.00am until 3.00pm....needless to say not much work was done LOL....it was good for socializing...as we have over 1,000 employees on site, it was nice to catch up with people I dont see all that often...there was a positive in last nights madness....but the weather otherwise?? glorious!!! Loving 2007's Autumn very much!!

Thank you, Libra, Chatz. Backlash from the Board would be TOO MUCH! And, Chatz, I'm swimming right now---need a little salt water sting to heal a few wounds from some "slings and arrows" from a certain tiny bird at another Topic---I opened myself up for it though. DIVE! DIVE!

It only hurts cause you know there is truth in what I say and it goes against what you want.

You can hate me if you like. I won't take it personally.

I would rather you hate me and see the truth, then lie, allowing you to suffer because I fear of hurting you.

Oh, Hi, Little Sparrow! Gee, I don't hate you at all. Didn't expect you here because I was still contemplating how to respond to your comments over "there"---not necessarily that it will matter to you what I say but you MAY be interested. I'm not much into that whole see the "truth" that way you've mentioned it because your comments seem so black and white---like no grey at all! And, wow, does it seem most relationship issues have grey in them. Anyway, I'll work on a response or two for you. And I'm not a hater. I'm seriously looking at what you're saying and taking in your perspective.

Of course I am interested! If I didn't care, I wouldn't bother. 😉

I think my post is covered in gray. I really think she loves you as a person but loving you as a friend/person is different then wanting to be romantic with you.

I am off for the night.

Have a good one Atom.

Thank you, LS.

Oh yes that honest LIbran sting can hurt a great deal...swim Atom, swim LOL. Little Sparrow has valid points as she always does.....sometimes we listen, sometimes we don't....goes to show us Fire Signs are sometimes gluttens for punishment *giggles* Makes us stronger though 🙂

Yes, we's strong. Will they ever learn? Ha!

ummmmmm.....in a word....NOOOOOOOOOOOOO we will never learn 😛

I meant---will they Libra ever learn (about us fire signs). Yeah, WE have a long way to go regarding them!

We/Them will NEVER learn...I don't think we are meant to understand one another, that's what makes it so deliciously exciting 😛

Well besides Air Little Sparrow has only Fire in her chart - you must all have something in common.

I have no Fire, and I could never tell someone the truth. Apart from that stalker I had for eight years. But he really did not get it...

lol@the stalker not getting it...do they ever?? I HATE telling somebody the "truth" of how it is....would prefer to sugar coat stuff and I guess that's what gets me in trouble but I hate hurting peoples' feelings 😢

Your sugar is just fine, Chatz.